Why do people often like to focus on personality traits when talking about a child's personality?Because there is nothing that best reflects a child's personality than personality. The so-called personality is the psychological characteristics expressed in people's stable attitude towards reality and Xi behavior patterns. It plays a central role in personality and is the main sign of a child's mental outlook.
The problem of character is lifelong. Why do parents pay so much attention to their children's personality issues?It is said that a person's good character is half the success. We understand that it is crucial for a child's future development. Personality is mainly manifested in the process of interaction with society, which reflects the social attributes of personality. Xiaowei believes that a good character is a character that is easily accepted by society. In the process of getting along with people, others will be very comfortable. I'm also very comfortable, that's a good character.
So how do parents usually cultivate in order to cultivate their children's good character?Here's some tips for you.
Although Ran Ran is young, we all respect her, because she is also an independent individual, with her own thoughts, her own "little abacus", and often her own little personality.
These are all innateChildren are the continuation of our lives, so we should respect them even more, allow her small characteristics, never force the child, moreGuided by daily behavior, this is the focus of our education
For the improvement of children's ability, we do not force children to win at the starting line, but seize every opportunity to create ability improvement for children, so that children can learn and play in a pleasant atmosphere.
There are a fewThe cultivation of Xi also requires the company and persistence of parentsFor example, insist on brushing teeth every day, and if the child doesn't like it, we can encourage the child more and set an example for the child.
I want toTo let children develop the quality of persistence, parents need to have a strong heart。Nowadays, children are running between major interest classes and tutoring classes, and children's busyness actually requires more dedication and companionship from adults.
It doesn't matter if the child can learn a skill or notThe most important thing is to let the child develop the quality of perseverance, this is the priceless treasure that they will never enjoy in their lifetime.
Today's children are cared for and encouraged by their parents, so the concept of sharing may be both familiar and unfamiliar to them
Familiar is the constant mention of parents asking their children to share;
What is strange is that there are not a few experiences that are actually shared.
In our family, because Ran Ran has a strong brother, the two children have many opportunities to share with each other. The two children will have a lot of independent activities in their daily lives, and we will remind them to bring each other a gift.
Editor's Recommendation: This is a set of bilingual picture books in Chinese and English to help children overcome emotional obstacles and accompany their healthy and happy growth.
There are ten themes in the series, each telling a different story from a different perspective:
Self-protection, bravery, self-confidence, honesty and trustworthiness, emotional management, politeness, friendship, sharing, self-improvement, self-discipline.
Each topic is followed by a "word to parents" to supplement parents with corresponding knowledge of child psychology, help them get along with their children better, solve the confusion in the process of parenting, and are also suitable for kindergartens or early childhood education institutions.
Content introduction: This set of picture books is based on the age characteristics and psychological characteristics of children aged 3-6, combined with the daily life of children of that age, starting from personality, behavior, Xi habits, etc., through vivid and interesting stories, using concise words to integrate the truth into it, to help children develop good Xi habits and form a good character. The whole set of picture books is accompanied by exquisite and lovely pictures, which is full of fun and can stimulate children's interest in reading, and is an indispensable parent-child reading material for children and parents.
About author:Hu Yuanyuan (editor-in-chief), a senior expert in child education and early childhood psychology research, graduated from Central China Normal University with a major in preschool education, published more than 20 early childhood newsletters and articles during his work, and has written many books with unique views on preschool education and early childhood psychology.