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Time flies so fast, I always want to catch something, this year is really over again, take stock of my 2023, and describe it in 8 words: continue to cultivate deeply, and the heart is as calm as water.
If the text is coming, I want to set up the flag of the new year before the bell rings in 2024, and at the same time complete the review of the past year, which is something that must be done every year.
In the past year, I have traveled to more than a dozen cities, met many people, happened a lot of things, and also broke through several challenges.
A few days ago, I galloped across the Yangtze River Bridge in Wuhan, remembered Ye Chengcheng's **, floated from the Yellow Crane Tower of the eternal swan song, and thought of Li Bai, and my head was full of romance brought to me by words.
When I finished my last trip in 2023 and returned to Tianjin at minus 11 degrees, like a spinning top, I started a new round of work, am I really a workaholic?Yes and no.
My ideal life is to finish my favorite books, write them out, and share my thoughts with my peers.
I often do sixpence while never giving up the moon in my heart, so the stubbornness and persistence of a middle-aged woman are vividly presented in me.
Three years ago, I dragged my two young daughters to this strange city, rented a 30-square-meter house, and the time was calculated by the hour every day.
Three years is neither long nor short, I have moved 5 times, and I have also questioned myself, give up a stable job, give up more than 180 large flats, and change a piece of sky, do you regret it?
Love to dream is my characteristic, a Ben 5 woman, until now her head is full of dreams, never regretted, the choice itself requires a lot of courage.
My counselor told me that my heart was always on the road, that every workaholic was a wounded child, and at that moment, I felt the urge to cry.
Everyone else dreams of living closer to home with less money, why do I always want to toss, always want to be farther away from home, and even want to go to a place where no one knows me, and then quietly carve out my world there.
Thanks to my big and small, let my struggle sustenance the most primitive motivation, one day, Xiao Yue said, Mom, this house has cockroaches, or cement floor, black, I don't want to live here, I touched her head, told her, the princess is in my mother's heart, we need to break through the darkness together, find your own princess room.
Da Yue has been on the way to adapt to my rhythm since she was a child, and she has experienced kindergarten transfers, elementary school transfers, and junior high school transfers.
Mr. Zhang is a low-key straight man in science and engineering, occasionally talking, choking people breathlessly, in my 30s, I wanted to leave him more than once, at that time, I felt that he could not give me anything.
In the past few years from my hometown to Tianjin, my death has made me uncomfortable, for example, I can't be interested in cooking, but I love my children so much, it's not hypocrisy, it's really not like it.
Later, I decided that it would not be difficult for myself anymore, I calculated an account, I hired a nanny at least 8,000 yuan, and the cost of ordering food at a high-quality restaurant attached to my home was lower than this.
Even so, this kind of life once made me panic, living in two places, I can't count on him at all, Tianjin's winter, riding an electric car to send a baby, can really make you cry, not an exaggeration, I must admit that my car skills can not match the peaceful old traffic environment, so I send the baby with the help of electric bicycles.
For more than two years in a different place, although he didn't say it, in fact, he was not entangled in his heart, on the one hand, he was a central enterprise that had worked for 18 years, and he would retire immediately, and the benefits would be much better than that of private enterprises, and on the other hand, he had children and wives, because of this matter, he even made himself depressed.
When he decided to quit naked, he seemed to be panicking too, I accompanied him to the final handover, he said, we are a big gamble, I glanced at him, did not speak.
Before Mr. Zhang's naked resignation, I carefully calculated that the opportunity cost of missing out on accompanying the growth of children is far greater than the May Day insurance and housing fund benefits obtained.
Those couples who have been separated from each other for a long time in order to accompany them are also respectable, and it is nothing to suffer for the sake of their children.
In the end, the two of us decided to put the child first, the money is gone, and the baby's growth is irreversible, and I don't want to have regrets in life.
In this way, two bitter children from the countryside have been mixed in the glamorous central enterprises for many years, and then they both gave up and chose to start a business, which is good, they have nothing, and they seem to be fearless.
Looking back at the past 6 years after my naked resignation, I sometimes sang and made great progress, sometimes galloping, occasionally depressed, and shook my head and sighed, this may be life.
Sort out the trajectory of my life, I am really grateful for this era, when the reality keeps closing the door for me, God can always quietly open another window for me to see the light.
7 years ago, because no one looked at the baby, I quit home naked, wrote articles, learned psychology, I didn't expect to rely on this to open my first level of cognition, the accumulated strength is amazing, I actually insisted on almost 7 years, from the month began to write and write, now Xiao Yue is a 2nd grade primary school student, she is happy and happy, always can bring us surprises.
Immersed in the writing circle, I can always absorb energy, and I gradually understand that I am a maverick, a person who is 1000 times better than me, and is trying to pursue his own value.
The only constant in this world is change, and when your cheese is getting less, you have to be like those two little mice, smelling the change.
**The rivers are going down, the reincarnation of an era, and the arrival of the short**live broadcast is dry and falls on the beach.
1 year ago, when Jingshui was going to eat soil by writing, I met Li Xiao, this batch of dark horses, she was domineering and full of confidence, I sighed more than once, and the future is terrifying.
In the context of the declining economy of the whole people, she is like a beam of light, illuminating the heart of me, the bitter public lord.
She finished combing for me, and after listening, I fell into deep thought, with years of Internet thinking, I intuitively felt that this year, for me, maybe the crisis is more of an opportunity.
Because I saw the awesomeness behind the model, in one year, I got quite good results, and what I am most proud of is that the bull I bragged about became a reality, and I didn't let the people who laughed at me laugh at me for too long, and I didn't let the people who expected me wait too long.
I can take everyone to make money while having a baby, and I have achieved it!
This dream once made me crazy and helpless, and when I saw that many of my die-hard fans broke down and cried for three or five thousand, I dreamed of taking them with me to become better together.
Jingshui is a decisive and straightforward person, just do what he says, I have taken them to do a lot of projects, and even a few cents of the swiping order, unfortunately, there are very few people who really get the results, until I met Li Xiao, my dream began to come true.
My team's mother, an ordinary employee of a state-owned enterprise in Wuhan, tossed a lot of things like me, but every time it seemed to end in nothing, when I brought her into the door, she was a little scared, 30,000 yuan is pressure on her.
I said come in, I'll carry it for you, because I know too well that she can get things done, and in just one year, she went from 36,000 to 300,000,500,600. Step by step, dreams come true.
Sister Ping of my team, listened to my live broadcast for more than half an hour, she said that I wanted the universe to place an order, still water said that she could take me to earn 1 million, I believe she was not bragging, decisively transferred money to me, I asked her, do you want to verify my identity, she said no, at that time, she was in Anhui, I was in Tianjin, I had never known my life, and I had such a great trust.
Yesterday, she shared, saying that in 9 months, all the orders I placed with the universe have been realized, and the excess exceeded 1 million, so I am happy for her.
Recalling, I am still very moved, still water is such a person, love and hate clearly, I will double the feedback of those who love me, those who are not frequent, the road is facing the sky, each goes to one side, and does not interact with each other.
I am grateful to Li Xiao, the amazing post-90s heroine, so that I and my fans have found a silky way to monetize, she can lead nearly 4,000 friends across the country to do light entrepreneurship together, and achieve zero loss, this miracle, so that many people can't believe it.
I followed her step by step, from 0 to 1, and then to one of the top ten partners in the country, I was lucky, I personally felt what the pattern is.
This year, I also did a big thing, with the help of Li Xiao and my friends, I ** Li Xiao came to the Tianjin Station of the National Career Tour Conference, which is comparable to holding a wedding.
In fact, when I met Li Xiao, I had already experienced being deceived twice in a row and suffered heavy losses, she said, in this life, I always have to choose to trust someone again without hesitation, she will not cheat you or harm you.
I am very grateful to Li Xiaoxiao for his far-reaching strategy and character that can stand up to scrutiny, and I must declare to the world: I made the right bet, with my hardcore sisters, I have completed the process of making them live well, earn money, and like me, at least I have the final say in my own life, and this almost paranoid dream has really come true.
I rented my first office in the most prosperous area of Tianjin, which is not big and very warm, for my friends to drink tea and chat for careers, study psychology and family education, and women's self-growth.
This is the 4th year that the flag has been established, and I will move out the falg at the beginning of 2023 first.
In 2023, 234,610 has been overfulfilled and 1,579 has not been reached.
I can clearly feel that many friends are unwilling to set up this flag anymore, and I will not be reluctant, after all, intervening in other people's cause and effect itself is immoral, but I still look forward to trusting my friends who follow me to believe that there are 999 possibilities in your life.
The flag of still water in 2024:
01.Complete 4 of the 2 question banks of the national examination, and this time I must complete it, otherwise my more than 70,000 tuition fees will be wasted.
With the help of Li Xiao's English, the vocabulary will be gnawed, and the English must pass, last year there was a difference of 8 points, and this year there is no problem. Pressed in the synthesis, you need to knock a little bit every day.
02.This year, we must pay attention to the short ** and do what we can in the live broadcast. Make sure to update 3-4 articles a week.
03.The team gradually sorted out and turned their own practices into products. Let every new partner come in and have a grip.
04.Lead the team's performance towards 3000w-5000w, and reaching the basic threshold is the bottom line.
05.Continue to influence my friends who study psychology with me, link some resources for them, like to take orders, and like to cash out quickly to follow me to do Li School.
06.The publisher's invitation is not accepted for the time being, it is true that it does not take care of it, it is responsible for the fans, it will never make up and wash other people's things, and insist on originality.
07.Took my parents on a plane trip to Hainan for a few days.
08.Take your child to a training camp in Qingbei.
09.The rest of the cities that I haven't been to before, I will go to the event and travel by the way.
10.In 2024, I will organize an offline meeting with friends from all over the country.
Well, I have written so much at length, and the sense of ceremony is full, from now on, the curtain of 2024 will be opened and 2023 will be bid.
Walk slowly forward and take your time to see the scenery. You believe me, as long as you choose to do something that does not violate the objective law and persists, God will always give you some results.
Final note: The first original article I set sail for, and I encourage you to witness my life: still water life, big waves without waves, wind and smoke, infinite vastness.
At that time, I was still in a state of confusion in a central enterprise, and in the face of the dire life of no one to watch the baby, I decided to change and asked me to write my life, so I had a still water life.
At that time, I didn't know how to edit, and I didn't have the habit of making manuscripts, and I didn't know that I had entered the self-leading industry by mistake.
I found a home for my complex, so I found here, and from today I will start sailing on WeChat***, where I will share my text, share the life in the still water vision, family finance, parenting sharing, literary exchanges, workplace insights, etc., and look at the world from the perspective of a working woman!
Thanks to all the people I have met over the years, I have accumulated so many materials, so that I have a strong desire to write, not to write unpleasantly, literary thoughts are like springs, writing is good or bad, I just want to record the road I have walked, I think this will be a very meaningful thing in life after work.
Because for a person whose personality is not smooth enough, it is easy to make mistakes in language expression caused by "straight", and words are the best spiritual comfort!It is also a weapon to summarize myself and continue to grow, there is always a paragraph of text that warms me to move forward in the struggle, and dare to face the real life when I encounter barriers!
When people reach middle age, they are no longer sharp, they have a little more soft thinking, and gradually get rid of the problem of being more tolerant and humble, and they have gradually become more tolerant and humble in their character, and they have more than ten years of professional life, I want to express the strongest desire, which is gratitude!Thanksgiving!
So, I decided to make a home for my text, thanks to the WeChat team for giving me such a decent platform tool, so that my text accompanies me in the system!
This time I set sail, it's like being pregnant, but the pregnancy period will be long, long, maybe the day I will grow old, and I will no longer be able to type the keyboard!Whether it bears fruit or not, for me, it's the best arrangement!
Come on!Set sail, you will be the most extraordinary sailor in your own spiritual world!
Chen Danqing said that as long as people sit down and write articles, even if they write about the moon in the sky and the artemisia grass on the ground, they are actually talking about themselves.
Writing itself is a kind of combing and healing, and the meaning of expressive writing is to make you feel that your daily life is full of sound, rather than flowing water like fingertips, without a trace.
Encourage you together!Documenting my romantic life