My boyfriend went ashore for the public examination, and I was not worthy of him, so I immediately got the certificate with others
My name is Lin Yue (pseudonym), I am 28 years old this year, and I am an ordinary office worker. My boyfriend, Li Hao (not his real name), is a programmer who is preparing for the civil service exam. We've been together for two years now and we've been in a stable relationship with each other.
Li Hao has always worked hard, and he always said that only by being admitted to the civil service can he have a better future. I know he's been working hard for this, so I've always supported him.
However, just a month ago, Li Hao was finally admitted to the civil service, but he became different from before. He began to be weird with me, saying that I was not worthy of him, that I did not match his identity and status.
Why are you so unmotivated?All day long, they only know that they stick to me, and they don't see what their identity is. Li Hao said to me with a dissatisfied face.
I'm sad and don't know why he is like this. When I asked him why, he always avoided it. He said if I couldn't understand him, then let's break up.
You've changed, you've become something I don't even recognize. You weren't like this before. I said with tears in my eyes.
Have I changed?What about you?You've been standing still, and I've been trying to move forward. The gap between us is getting bigger and bigger, you know?Li Hao said coldly.
I felt like a knife in my heart and didn't know how to respond. I know he has a point, but I don't think I'm unworthy of him. I've always tried to improve myself to be a better match for him.
Let's break up. Li Hao said indifferently.
I was miserable and I didn't understand why he was like this. I know I don't deserve him, but I'm always trying to improve myself to be a better match for him.
Eventually, I chose to let go. I said, "Okay, let's break up." He didn't hold me, just nodded indifferently.
After the breakup, my heart was like a knife, as if I had lost direction and motivation. However, I knew I couldn't dwell in pain all the time. I want to be strong and make myself better, in order to live up to the end of this relationship.
I began to reflect on my shortcomings and strive to improve my abilities and qualities. I signed up for some training sessions and social events and made some new friends. I also started to pay attention to my physical health and mental health, went to the gym regularly, and learned how to relax myself and make myself less anxious and depressed.
In the process, I learned how to live independently and how to deal with my own emotional problems. I found myself becoming more mature, confident, and strong. Although the end of this relationship was painful for me, I believe that only by experiencing pain can I grow into a better version of myself.
I am constantly striving to make my life more fulfilling and meaningful. Although I still think of Li Hao sometimes, I am no longer so sad and entangled. I believe that time will dilute everything, and I will gradually come out of the shadow of this relationship and meet new life and challenges.
A month later, I met a man. His name is Zhang Qiang (pseudonym) and he is an entrepreneur. He is mature, steady, and gentle. He said he liked my independence, my strength, my kindness.
We came together very quickly. With him, I am very happy. He always gave me a lot of encouragement and support and made me feel valued.
A month later, Zhang Qiang and I walked into the Civil Affairs Bureau. We got a marriage license and became legally married. I'm so happy that I've finally found my own happiness.
And Li Hao, I heard that his position as a civil servant was not smooth. He began to regret breaking up with me, but I had found my happiness.
Sometimes I think that life is an amazing journey. You never know who you're going to encounter at the next intersection and what's going to happen. But as long as we go on bravely, pursue our own happiness, cherish the people and things around us, and bravely face difficulties and setbacks, then we can live our true selves and live a truly wonderful life!