Hello book friends, welcome to continue to be a guest in the reading circle of little scholars, today we will continue to talk about this book, against business. Today we will talk about how to improve the reverse quotient. We must work hard to find him first, we will have a lot of adversity in our lives, such as playing ball and not going well, exams not going well, and even going out, encountering a lot of red lights, and traffic jams. Be good at perceiving adversity, and you will find that adversity occurs very frequently. After that, the alarm bell is sounded, and the louder the alarm, the more profound the impact will be on us. You can even make a physical alarm, such as a bell, or play yourself with a rubber band. This can quickly bring your shallow consciousness into the thinking zone, so that you no longer have to solve problems subconsciously. For example, some people will take water to wash their faces, and then pat them to sober themselves. These are actually a type of alert. Always remind yourself to be rational. My habit is to pinch the back of my hand, which is simple and convenient, anytime, anywhere. And the pain will make your impulses instantly power off. For example, when you want to be angry, or when something is not going well, you can pinch yourself.
As neuroscientists say, the early warning triggered by touching the stove is a strong physiological response that allows you to detect and act quickly. At the heart of this alert are four elements: control, accountability, impact, and persistence. With these four dimensions, you can evaluate someone in just a few seconds.
In my own case, I have a lot of control over my emotions. Once swayed by bad moods, it will inevitably cause unnecessary losses, and these losses are often borne by me, and may even last for a long time. More importantly, I have never benefited from negative emotions. So, when I became aware of the problem, I stopped getting stuck in the inherent emotional thinking and turned to looking for a solution to the problem.
What are my goals?What is the goal of the other party?Will we be able to reach a consensus?If not, then what are the differences that we cannot accept?What differences can be resolved through compromise?These are all questions that need to be thought about and dealt with.
In the context of the current Sino-US game, everyone hopes that the economy can develop and get more public support. This is a common goal, while the disagreement lies in the cross-border flow of capital, and the United States fears that China's rise could pose a threat to its dominance. The compromise solution is to focus only on self-preservation and not try to compete for hegemony, that is, "build a high wall, accumulate grain, and slowly become king", while actively learning and integrating into the global industrial chain, and opening up to the outside world at the same time, but never compromise.
Only with a deep understanding of these core principles can we understand the true meaning of the current game between China and the United States. Whether it is insisting on confrontation, combining vertical and horizontal and completely decoupling, or delusional quick victory and complacency, it is a wrong choice. This game is actually a battle for position, and we have the time advantage that the United States lacks. Therefore, Americans are in a hurry and expect you to make mistakes. The only way to do this is to avoid following Russia's path, and not to allow yourself to be isolated from the global economy and eventually collapse. Don't be blindly confident, like Japan, trying for a quick victory, forgetting the fact that its own industrial advantages have been swept away, and can only lose its dominant position in one failure after another.
Nowadays, the wisest choice is to keep your feet on the ground, be patient and calm. Grasp the advantages of the industrial chain, expand the scale of business, and actively integrate into the global economic cycle. This is our best strategy and the key to ensuring the future development of our country. In fact, the victory of this game is not a simple technical confrontation, but a contest of comprehensive strength between the two countries. Just like the "stingy" strategy often used by the United States, pinning its hopes on future technological breakthroughs, we choose to use the "big belly" strategy to take advantage of the current situation to actively seek business opportunities and stick to our bottom line.
We know very well that in this game, whoever can hold back his patience and who can be the first to recognize the reality will be able to win in the future. Demonstrated tenacity and intelligence.
Everyone should understand that in this game, there is no way to hide, there is no way to avoid it. Each of us will take some responsibility for the results. Some people always think that they just have to sell their assets and they don't have to take any responsibility. But in fact, if we lose this game, you can't escape your responsibility if you run to the **. You just go from a country that loses the game, to a traitor, to someone else, and you may still be seen as a "dollar" in their eyes, harvested when they need it, and when the harvest is clean, it may kick you away. This is what history proves, traitors are often not respected and are only used. Therefore, each of us should shoulder the destiny of the country and not be left unconcerned and hung high.
Only when the country is strong can we realize our own value and be respected by the world. Just like Qian Xuesen, Huo Yingdong and now Ren Zhengfei, they were all able to show their value after the country became strong. This is also an analysis of influence, even if we cannot defeat the United States, we must reduce our losses as much as possible under the premise of self-preservation.
This game is likely to go on for quite some time, and we need to be prepared for a long time. For individuals, they should also think about how to contribute to their own national game, rather than becoming a victim of the great power game. For high-leverage, high-risk, high-fixed-income areas, it is best to avoid them. In addition, the real estate clearance, the upstream and downstream industrial chain of real estate also needs to be extra careful. After the explosion of Evergrande, the debt was as high as more than 2 trillion yuan, of which only 1-200 billion yuan was owed to the bank, more than 1 trillion yuan was owed to the first businessman, the contract debt was more than 600 billion yuan owed to the buyer, the foreign debt was 1-200 billion US dollars, and the trust was 200 billion yuan. Other real estate developers, such as a certain force, a certain creation, a certain park, etc., should also be able to see the general situation.
In this game, we need to hold on to our strengths and do the best we can to minimize our losses. I've learned that life is bound to come up with problems. For example, when doing business, you need to take into account the various suppliers and financing needs;Buying a home, on the other hand, requires consideration of issues such as capital assessment and compensation costs. These seemingly inconspicuous issues determine our future destiny to a certain extent.
However, sometimes we face some unforeseen setbacks, such as poor business, accident injuries, and so on. At this time, we must learn to find the control point and take corresponding measures to reduce the loss, after all, there is no absolute control in life.
When it comes to investing, you need to learn to stop your losses. Some losses are irreparable, but we can choose to avoid or minimize future losses, just like a car driving on the road and finding an obstacle ahead, we can choose to avoid it instead of hitting it directly.
When we encounter misfortune, we must also learn to adjust our mindset so that we can still live a wonderful life like someone who has lost an arm. It's not easy, but it's a skill we have to master. Only by doing this well can we find a way forward in the face of adversity.
Finally, we need to take action. Thinking, acting, giving feedback, it's a cyclical process. If there is no action, all psychological construction is just empty talk. Because reading is not for the accumulation of knowledge, but for thinking. The purpose of thinking is to change. There is no book that can make us rich and successful overnight unless we actually put it into action.
It's like going to the gym, even if you receive class information from the trainer every day, but if you don't go to exercise, then these are useless. Therefore, we should avoid deceiving ourselves and not doing useless things. We should not simply see reading as a form of entertainment, but as a means of thinking and acting, so that we can truly benefit from reading. After reading a book, we need to reflect on what it has revealed and clear our minds of ignorance. We have to ask ourselves what puzzle this book has solved for me and cleared my blind spots in knowledge. Then, we need to internalize this knowledge into practical actions to achieve a real transformation. If these three questions cannot be answered, then we lose the meaning of reading.
The authors also emphasize the importance of making a list of actions. Write down a plan of action to overcome adversity and create an action plan, with a clear list of times and priorities for action. However, many people often talk big words, such as "I want to read this book", "I want to exercise", "I want to be a good person", but never put it into practice. Their lives, like the emails they send, are full of slogans and lack of real action, and the results are ineffective.
The scariest thing is that despite the many suggestions we have shared today, most of us may not put them into action. This is the reality. Many people are just doing the "hard" show and not getting the results they deserve. There is also a sense of desperation that stems from the victim mentality, which is a powerful trap that often leads people to fall into it.
We might blame genetics for the frustration, thinking "genes are like this, we have this in our families, so it's hard to change". Such an idea is just an excuse for ourselves, because even diseases related to genetic factors can only occupy a small part, and more because of our lifestyle and habits.
Therefore, we must realize that genetics is only an excuse for self-deception, and the deeper reason is that we lack the ability to control our own destiny. Many problems in life stem from long-term bad lifestyle habits, such as obesity, some people will control their diet and start exercising, but others will blame heredity. They think that their family members are obese, which means that they can't change it. It's just a blaming of the ego and can't change the status quo.
Overall, reading a good book not only allows us to acquire knowledge, but more importantly, it allows us to grow, change our attitudes and behaviors, and bring ourselves closer to success. And the action list can help us translate these ideas into concrete practices, so that we can become real actors. Many bad habits and bad habits are inherited from heredity. These bad habits are beyond our control, but what is commendable is that we can control ourselves and overcome ourselves, which we have achieved through our own efforts. Tomorrow, let's learn how to avoid this "catastrophe".