Male college students broke out 14 criteria for choosing a mate, and they hit the laughing point and confessed to the wall I emo
Looking back on the anecdote of reading a book, an interesting anecdote about love letters happened in a private high school. A schoolgirl wrote a very calm and wise love letter to a boy, and one of the lines was widely sung: "I don't write you love letters because I like you very much, just because I am lonely." ”
This female student is really straightforward, after the love letter spreads, she believes that she will no longer feel lonely, and every day her classmates will take the initiative to chat with her. However, this behavior is not encouraged, as a middle school student, both main and secondary tasks should be focused on Xi, and love can wait until college to consider.
Although universities no longer restrict students from falling in love, some students still struggle to escape the "bad luck" of being single, not because they don't want to be in a relationship, but because some schools have an imbalance in the ratio of men and women. According to the principle of "rabbits don't eat the grass next to the nest", students are more willing to find classmates from the outer courtyard, and at this time, the confession wall plays a role.
A male college student posted 14 criteria for choosing his other half, each of which was hilarious, and "I'm emo!" appeared on the confession wallMessage.
As the saying goes, the longer you are single, the more hypocritical your requirements are, which is not derogatory, but refers to the fact that after being single for a long time, people will unconsciously raise their requirements for their partners. Many students follow the principle of "don't break the rhythm of life unless you meet someone really good", so this type of person is usually the hardest to get out of being single.
However, being demanding doesn't mean you don't want to be in a relationship. There was a guy who looked for his girlfriend through a confessional wall, but his way was quite peculiar. He did not choose the "Haidilao" method, but listed 14 criteria for choosing the other half, each of which was hilarious and full of laughter.
In this era of the pursuit of appearance, appearance is of course the first criterion. Although he said that he didn't ask for too much beauty, everyone knows the standards of beauty and non-beauty for boys. Judging from the first three criteria alone, it can be seen that he may be a straight man with relatively little love experience, because non-straight men generally do not make such a request.
If the first three criteria are still within the acceptable range, the fourth criterion is a bit excessive, so don't be too difficult. What does this standard mean?Once a girl accepts these standards, she acquiesces in the rules and regulations.
This also means that if something unpleasant happens in daily life, the girl's angry behavior can be defined as vexatious. No, let's buy a robot, it's definitely in accordance with your standards, what's wrong with college students now, the requirements are higher than the other.
To say that this male classmate has a lot of requirements, the more you look down, the more outrageous it becomes. Pierced ears should not be more than two, do not appreciate the mutilated beauty ???I don't have the money to buy you that many earrings, and even if I do, I can only buy two. It's outrageous, female college students don't want to eat, earrings can be bought by themselves.
If you can't stand it when you see this, then you will be defeated, and it will be even more outrageous after the eighth article: Don't disturb with your teeth. The reason is that I don't want to make kissing a nightmare, and girls have to be talented, so as to increase the interest of life, in addition to having a correct walking posture, the explanation given is that walking like a person should be down-to-earth.
Seeing that there is already a sentence of "what" echoing in my mind, the confession wall all says: I am emo. I'm afraid this male classmate is not a high-level descendant of a women's moral school, why are these "thunder points" listed so orderly, and no one believes you if you are not a professional.
It is good for college students to have a correct view of mate selection, but they should not ask too much, after all, there are no saints in the world.
The author believes that teachers and parents should also pay attention to their three views when educating students, because values are very important in shaping a person. This is not only true in everyday life, but it is equally important when it comes to relationships. Instead of compromising and compromised, it is better to choose to be alone and chic. It would be even better if you could also win honors like scholarships.
Although the criteria for choosing a mate proposed by this male classmate seem quite unusual, after careful consideration, it reflects a real problem, that is, the number of girls with "princess disease" is gradually increasing. This is also one of the reasons why many male college students are reluctant to pursue female classmates, firstly, they are not sure whether they can successfully catch them, and secondly, they are not sure whether they will be able to cope with their "pickiness" even if they do.
For example, the phrase "don't be pampered" in Article 12 and "sensible" in Article 4 actually convey the message that we are equal and should not allow ourselves to be bulldoss in boyfriend and girlfriend relationships. This is also the problem caused by the incorrect view of love, and a happy relationship should be one in which both parties can become better.
Author's Message] Judging from the mate selection criteria posted by this male classmate on the confession wall, the author feels that his determination to find a girlfriend is not very firm. Instead of doing this, it is better to spend your time learning Xi professional knowledge or enriching yourself, believing that the right person will naturally appear at the right time.