After graduation, I found that there is a huge difference between "engineering women" and "normal women", and it may be more obvious after marriage
The impact of career on individuals may be something that many students do not think deeply about when they are studying. In the college entrance examination, there are some majors that maintain a popular status all year round, attracting many students' choices.
In fact, from this moment on, the choice of the direction of study and Xi and the kind of work to pursue after graduation have already laid the groundwork for the future life of students. As people often say, "Men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man".
In modern society, it is equally important for girls to choose the right career, if not less than their male counterparts. However, sometimes people may realize the simplicity and rashness of their choices after experiencing something.
One example is the "Engineering Woman" and "Teacher Training" two major disciplines. Both of these are popular choices for the college entrance examination, one with the advantage of "wide range of employment", while the other is regarded by many parents as the "best" choice, especially for girls.
A graduate, Kobayashi (pseudonym), shared a career comparison with his old friend on the Internet. She found that the difference between engineering and teacher training after graduation is actually quite large. At the time of the college entrance examination, Xiaolin's parents originally hoped that she would choose a normal major.
However, due to her yearning for new things, she insisted on studying Xi automation major, dreaming of being able to operate robots to participate in college competitions in the future. And her best friend chose a normal university in the province, obviously the two have completely different ambitions.
However, when Kobayashi found out that her friend was not as good as her in the job search process, she was "slapped in the face" by reality. She used to participate in competitions with boys at school, but when it came to finding a job, she encountered more difficulties than other classmates.
In recruitment, even if the recruiter does not clearly indicate that "no girls are hired", the interviewer is likely to not carefully review the resume when seeing a female candidate, and directly refuse on the grounds that "this job is more suitable for boys".
On the contrary, even though her college classmates who did not have the same grades as her chose the normal major, learning the Xi step by step, and the major was not as difficult as the engineering subject she studied, she easily applied for a job as a teacher in a public junior high school in her hometown.
The girl lamented that although she was in a big southern city when she was in college, she seemed to have gained knowledge and performed relatively well in school, but when choosing a major, she did not expect that there would be such a big difference in the difficulty of finding a job for boys and girls in the direction of engineering.
The graduate bluntly said that when he chose to study engineering, he also took into account the high proportion of male students in the school. At the same time, her friends have a wider range of choices, and if they can achieve positive results, the foundation of future relationships will be stronger.
However, after graduation, due to the distance and their own jobs were not ideal, the two eventually parted ways. On the contrary, although her girlfriends were almost always surrounded by girls in college, they failed to find the right guy to fall in love with.
However, once she became a teacher, friends and family were busy introducing her to excellent boys, including some well-qualified candidates. Many experienced people feel the same way, and bluntly say that after marriage, your differences may be more significant.
One of the most immediate differences is the working hours. Female engineering students who cannot work in public institutions can usually only choose some enterprises, while in traditional engineering majors, many people may only be able to work as small technicians in factories and may need to face shift situations.
And many private companies usually only have a single day off. In contrast, the "normal girl" works in the school, can leave work on time, and can also enjoy two days off. They have more time to balance work and family. Although there may be tasks to study and Xi prepare for classes during the winter and summer vacations, it is much better overall than the "year-round" state.
Secondly, it is difficult for traditional engineering graduates to show an advantage in terms of salary. Taking a step back, even if they are earned, they are often less recognized by men and in-laws than teachers.
Because teachers stand for stability and decency in the general sense. This is a reality that graduates can hardly change no matter how much they talk about theory. Especially in the current era, even if you enter some seemingly high-end famous enterprises, you may still be laid off at any time, and it is more secure to be a teacher.
Thirdly, there is a helpless phenomenon that even if a girl in the engineering industry has a better education, men and parents still think that a girl in the education industry is more conducive to raising offspring.
The author's message: Engineering and teacher training are two completely different directions, which also determine that there are some differences between the two types of girls in terms of job search, life and family status. Of course, we can't generalize that girls studying Xi teacher training are necessarily more popular than "engineering girls". But at the same level, female engineering students may indeed face more challenges when applying for jobs. Students should consider carefully when choosing a major.
Topic: Which do you think is more suitable for girls?