One. Two days ago, my daughter-in-law finally gave birth, and I stood at the door of the operating room, never leaving an inch.
I don't know how long I waited, ** came out with the child in my arms.
* Say, "Congratulations, happy daughter." ”
When I heard this, I almost fainted, and I waited for a ten-month-old child, how could it be a daughter?
When the child was about to be born, I went to the fortune teller to calculate it, and that person could be said to be a son.
My son came over and looked at me and said, "Mom, what's wrong with you?"”
I didn't dare to let my son know, so I quickly shook my head and said it was nothing.
After accommodating my son and daughter-in-law, I said goodbye and went home.
When I got home, I took out some boys' clothes and toys from the closet, looked at them, touched them, and silently put them back.
Now it seems that in a short period of time, these things may not be used.
My daughter-in-law gave birth to a daughter, and I was more or less unhappy in my heart.
You know, most of the neighbors I know are boys, and every time I go downstairs to square dance, I mention my grandson.
Ever since I learned from the fortune teller that the child in my daughter-in-law's womb was a son, I would show off to my little sisters every time.
Now, after the child is born, he is slapped in the face, how will others see him in the future?
Two. A few days later, after the daughter-in-law was discharged from the hospital, she returned home.
My son pulled me into the room and asked me to take care of my daughter-in-law's confinement child, as long as I cooked a meal at noon every day, he did breakfast and dinner, and he also took care of other housework.
I wanted to refuse, but my son kept begging me here, and he couldn't bear to relent, so he agreed.
It just so happened that my son was on a business trip, and all the errands fell to me.
Every time after the meal was cooked, the daughter-in-law kept lying on the bed, playing with her mobile phone, and she didn't want to move at all.
Because of my son's explanation, I had to bring the meal to the bedroom, and then go to coax the child.
The daughter-in-law only said, "Mom, you go out first, I'll eat later." ”
After that, I don't care.
But at this time, when the child is crying fiercely, it is not good to coax.
I guessed that maybe she was hungry, so I carried her to her room and asked my daughter-in-law to nurse the child.
My daughter-in-law said that she didn't have much milk now, so she just told me to feed some dairy products.
I heard, that's okay, dairy products are better than breast milk.
Because of this incident, the two of us had a fight, and I felt that my daughter-in-law didn't care about the children.
In the end, the stalemate was resolved, and I went to feed the baby dairy products.
Three. When my daughter-in-law married my son, I still disagreed.
Because the daughter-in-law is very lazy, after getting married, even more so, at home, I don't cook, and every day when I get home from work, I lie on the bed and play with my mobile phone.
Wait until your son has finished cooking, and then go and ask her to eat.
Every time I see this, I persuade my son to let my daughter-in-law learn how to cook by herself, so that she will not starve to death at home alone in the future.
But as for the son, she didn't care about anything, and said that marrying her was a blessing for several lifetimes, and I don't know how much ecstasy soup she poured into her son.
The more time passes, the more I can't say anything.
Until the news of the pregnancy came from the daughter-in-law.
At that moment, I couldn't have forgotten how happy I was.
However, after the daughter-in-law became pregnant, the whole person was like a princess, and she quit her job, was pregnant for ten months, and stayed at home for ten months, all of which were raised by her son at home.
The daughter-in-law usually loses her temper at home, she gets angry when she doesn't cook to her taste, she gets angry if she doesn't give money in time when she buys something, and she loses her temper when she's in a bad mood.
Because of this, I have become less and less fond of my daughter-in-law.
Four. For ten days in a row, my son was on a business trip, and my daughter-in-law and I also spent ten days when we were incompatible.
Fortunately, my son came back two days early, and I immediately took the burden and asked him to take care of him, and I really couldn't stand it with such a big temper.
Although my daughter-in-law gave birth to a girl, I was more or less dissatisfied in my heart, but after all, it was still my granddaughter, and no matter what, I couldn't bear not to take care of her.
After the daughter-in-law was out of confinement, she took her granddaughter to her in-laws' house to play for a few days, and went on a trip by the way.
I thought to myself: It's okay to go out for a few days, I can't see my daughter-in-law, I can't see it at home, and I'm not upset.
Until I found out that my salary card was missing from the closet.
After retirement, every month's salary is paid to that card, although it is only 2,000 yuan, and after saving for a long time, there are tens of thousands of yuan.
Besides, I only take out a few hundred every month to buy some vegetables or something, and the rest of the money is to think about what will happen in the future, and there will be an emergency.
The card is gone, and I feel nervous.
Now the security awareness of the community has increased, and there is no trace of thieves entering the house, only the family may have taken it.
The first suspect I locked on was my daughter-in-law, and I definitely needed money to go out to play these days.
In desperation, I had no choice but to ask my son.
The son also said that he didn't know anything.
The speculation in my mind is getting closer, and if that's the case, I don't mind letting my son file for divorce.
In the afternoon, a message came from the mobile phone that the card had been withdrawn for a thousand yuan.
I thought to myself: The one who knows the password, except for me, my wife, is my son, but I didn't tell my daughter-in-law the secret in the card, how did she get the money out?
Could it be that the son told his daughter-in-law the password, and then she took the card away.
So I called my daughter-in-law ** and asked if the card was with her.
Sure enough. The daughter-in-law said that the card son gave her, and the password was also told to her.
She also said that she asked her son if the card was **, and he said that it was the card in the house, and found that there was still money in it.
I never thought that the thief was actually in my own house, or my own son.
Five. In the evening, when my son came back, I asked him, "Why did you take my card?"”
My son lowered his head and confessed his mistake to me like a child who had done something wrong, saying, "Mom, I didn't mean it, but the company's salary hasn't been paid these days, and I can't come up with the money." ”
And said, "Mom, isn't your pension just saved for emergency use, and isn't this a special situation now?"”
When I heard my son's words, I was angry, and even more disappointed.
He should have told me about the money, instead of going to the secret, what is this?
Fortunately, I found out, otherwise, I don't know why I don't have the money in my card.
I told my son: If you want to go out to play, you can earn the money yourself, how can you take your mother's money to eat, drink and have fun.
Before, I always thought that my daughter-in-law was not good, but now I think that over the years, raising a son has raised a white-eyed wolf.
Finally, I asked my son to get the card back.
I changed the password of the card, and also changed the card to a place, and told him: If this happens again, don't blame me for not caring about the relationship between mother and child.