Homeschooling
Professor Zhu Yongxin, a Chinese education expert, once said: "Almost all outstanding children have the imprint of their parents;In all problem children, the reasons for their families can also be found. This sentence profoundly points out the impact of home education on children's growth. However, there are some common misunderstandings in today's family education, let's take a closer look at it and see if you have been hit.
1.There is only a tame education, there is no personality education:
It is important for children to be well-behaved, but if too much emphasis is placed on obedience and the cultivation of personality is neglected, children may become unsuccessful in independent thinking and creativity, and eventually become a victim of "supporting role syndrome".
2.There is only talent education, no personality education:
In addition to academic performance, more attention should be paid to cultivating children's character and allowing them to have the qualities of independence, tenacity and kindness. Otherwise, even if you excel in school, you may appear dull and difficult to get along with in your relationships.
3.There is only exam-oriented education, no quality education:
Grades are important, but they shouldn't be the only pursuit. Comprehensive quality and interest cultivation are equally important, so that children can find fun in learning and expand their interests and hobbies, which is the real success.
4.There is only elite education, no spiritual education:
It is not only about academic excellence, but also about cultivating children's spiritual realm and inner quality. The pursuit of personal success cannot ignore the values of responsibility, respect and care for others.
5.There is only short-sighted education, there is no competitive education:
Don't just look at the current test-taking pressure, and ignore the comprehensive ability that your child needs to have in the future. Focus on developing your child's skills for innovation, teamwork, and the workplace of the future.
6.There is only successful education, there is no ** education:
It is important not only to focus on children's academic achievements, but also to train them to become responsible and responsible people. The goal of education should be to help the child succeed as a virtuous person.
7.There is only utilitarian education, no emotional education:
Grades are important, but more important is to develop children's interpersonal, emotional intelligence and emotional expression skills. Let children know how to care for others, know how to love and be loved.
8.There is only fractional education, no life education:
Children not only learn machines, but also need to learn to take care of themselves, be responsible, and cooperate in life. Education is not limited to the classroom, but also encompasses all aspects of life.
9.There is only moral education, there is no rule education:
It is important not only to develop moral values in children, but also to teach them the basic rules of life. In an emergency, children need to know how to protect themselves and learn to follow the rules of society.
The above nine misunderstandings are likely to make children confused, affecting their growth and future development. Parents must reflect on their education strategies in a timely manner and provide a more comprehensive environment for their children's growth. Let us work together to make the next generation thinking, moral and responsible talents.