Life is hard, and in the adult world, there is no such thing as "easy".
As Hao Yun sang in "Alive": "Panicked, hurried, why is life always ...... like this."”
After experiencing the polishing of society and the destruction of reality, everyone will become physically and mentally exhausted. Especially for women, it is not easy to work hard alone in a strange city, every night when she returns home, she is always aggrieved and wants to shed tears, but she does not dare to tell her parents easily about this grievance and exhaustion, for fear that her parents are too worried, so she can only confide in the closest people around her.
If a man can read what a woman needs after receiving a confide in her, and can respond in a timely manner, it will undoubtedly make the relationship between you warm up quickly.
So,When a woman says "I'm so tired", these 4 replies from a smart man can easily warm her heart!
"The life you want, I can give you".
In every woman's heart, there is a princess dream, a man who pampers herself, takes care of herself, and is willing to pay for herself, and she just needs to enjoy life happily.
But the reality is cruel, how can you live a good life without working hard?When a woman is under pressure, she will inevitably feel tired in the process of struggle, and at this time, she will tell her man about her tiredness.
In a woman's heart, she will long for a man to support her, and for a man to be willing to work hard to give her a good life, which is the embodiment of a man's sense of responsibility and the embodiment of a man's love for a woman.
Women don't necessarily have to be raised by men, because there is no woman who doesn't feel sorry for men, and women are actually willing to share the burden for men, but the attitude of men who are willing to support her is enough to move women and warm women.
"When you are tired, you will rest, and your shoulder will lend you".
When a woman says that she is tired, most of them want to rest, and at this time sleeping is a way to relieve fatigue, and after waking up, she will feel full of vitality.
Some men will choose to reply: "Then go to sleep". Such an answer often makes people feel impersonal, not caring and considerate of her enough.
People with high emotional intelligence will say, "Take a break when you're tired, and your shoulders can be relied on at any time." This sentence will make a woman feel very warm, because what a woman needs is an understanding and a sense of security.
When you understand her thoughts, her affection for you will increase a little more, and she will be more willing to be close to you, because women are born to need to be coaxed.
"You don't have to fight so hard, your body matters".
A woman who is in love naturally wants to get the care and care of the person she loves, and she also wants to get the understanding and understanding of the person she loves.
You must know that when a woman complains about being tired, it is not only a kind of complaining, but also a kind of complaint, and women do this just to get more comfort and care from men.
Therefore, as a man, you should not just reply to her perfunctorily: "Have a good rest", but comfort from the heart: "Don't fight so hard, your body is important". In this way, you are caring for her and cherishing her body, but also expressing your sincerity and love for her.
In fact, what women want is very simple, that is, they want men to care like this, as long as the man they love cares, they can make women feel the warmth and love of men for themselves.
"I've always been, we're facing it together".
When women say "I'm tired", most of them are when they have suffered setbacks in life or work, and they have encountered problems that they cannot solve independently.
At this time, the man said to her: "I have always been there, we face it together", her first reaction was that the man understood my thoughts, knew the difficulties I encountered, and was willing to face them with me and cared about me.
At this time, even if she is sad in her heart, the feeling that can't be hidden in her heart will make her feel deeply dependent on you.
At this time, as a man, what you have to do is not only to give her verbal comfort, but also to learn to take action, to be patient and enlighten her, to warm her with your arms and shoulders, and to make a gesture of solving problems for her is the most important thing!
Emotional message
In the world of love, men with high emotional intelligence are very good at talking, and they are good at using their speaking skills to win the favor and favor of women. Such a man is destined to be popular.
So, when a woman says to you, "I'm tired", the man shouldn't just say "get some rest", all she wants is a word of concern or a hug.
And your slightly perfunctory rest will disappoint the woman, so men should be smart and don't wait until they lose to regret it.
Thinking from a woman's point of view and giving a woman what they want to hear can not only bring in the relationship between two people, but also make a woman love you more.
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