Recently, ** "Biography Xi", yesterday I finished reading the last volume.
Sure enough, what can be handed down is a fine product, and the charm of classic philosophy books shines. When I read it, I couldn't stop thinking, "Why didn't you read this book earlier?".
After reading the last volume, I was deeply touched by "maintaining neutrality" and "don't help and don't forget".
Today, I am reminiscing about these two sentences.
To be neutral is to be calm, not to make a fuss, not to be excessive, not to be irritable, not to be out of line, not to be annoyed.
God arranges something, and he accepts it with a smile;God will accept whoever he matches.
People who can maintain neutrality should be very healthy, because there are no worries, no complaints, no grievances, and no anger. Bad emotions are the root of all diseases, and eliminating bad emotions is equivalent to eliminating the root cause of diseases.
Let's try to deduce and deduce a scene, maintaining neutrality can keep people's blood pressure from rising, for example, seeing the child come back with a score of 69 in the exam, and the thought of "keeping neutralization" in his heart, he immediately feels that he has to be "neutralized", and his body must stand up straight, and he can't be crooked to the side of anger, so as not to form an "angry" tornado that sweeps everything, and sweeps the good atmosphere of the family out of the clouds.
Children solve problems in their Xi, anger cannot solve problems, and if they do not do well, they will create new problems.
If madness could succeed, the world would have become a world of manics.
Staying neutral keeps people away from emotional out-of-control.
Neutrality also frees people from the pain of gaining and losing, that is, not expecting too much, but not being discouraged.
Perform another scene of helping others, and keep neutral and make people happy. For example, you are a pioneer who works hard and achieves results, you are a person with a little money and a conscience, you want to give back to your relatives and friends, you want to help a relative get out of poverty, you pay a lot of energy and effort, you really give a lot, you want to pull your relatives a hand, slowly, this poor relative in the past is getting richer and richer, you begin to feel very happy in your heart, but this relative is not grateful for the help he got from you at all, he only thanks himself for his hard work, he feels that it is all his own hard work to get out of the sea of suffering today, and you are very disappointed。
It is easy for people to lose themselves in the midst of gains and losses, just like the troubles of helping others mentioned above, which was originally a good thing, but became an event.
In this scenario, if you can maintain neutrality, help your relatives when you can't do what you can't do, don't do what you can't afford, and have a clear conscience, but in moderation;After the success of the relative, maintain neutrality, the wealth of the relative is from the will of God, but God arranges for you to guide him, and then give him glory and wealth.
You keep neutral, do not expect any gratitude to your relatives, if your relatives give back, then everyone is happy, if your relatives do not give back, then the two are happy.
If there is no expectation, there will be no disappointment. Less disappointment, less worry. Less worries, more health and happiness.
Maintain neutralization, the effect is a lot, don't help don't forget, the effect is not bad.
Wang Yangming originally said that after planting a tree, it should conform to the time of day, do not help and do not forget, let the tree grow according to the laws of nature, and not deliberately pay too much attention to it and not negatively leave it behind.
Being able to appreciate the benefits of not helping and not forgetting can make people feel a lot less hesitant and entangled.
For example, if a child Xi average school, should I spend money to send him to a key class?
Don't help and don't forget, don't do this!
Because it's useless to do this, Xi ordinary children, and forcing them to be in key classes is to create pressure and disaster for children. Let it be, in the group where he should be, he will grow up happily, maybe even better than in the key class.
This is "don't help", don't pull out the seedlings to help.
The child is very scummy in learning Xi, should you give up on him?
Don't help "Don't forget", don't give up on him!
Although he learns Xi scum now, it doesn't mean that he will also learn Xi scum in the future!
Learning Xi is a dynamic process, maybe after a period of hard work, he will become a scholar, after all, every year in the college entrance examination there is a "dark horse" galloping out.
It's "Don't forget", don't give up!
Maintain neutrality, don't do things too much, don't overdo your feelings, don't overdo your emotions, and accept everything as it happens.
Don't help and don't forget, don't pull out the seedlings to grow, don't forget, follow the laws of nature, and output love steadily and continuously.
If you do this, you will be healthy and happy.