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In Jiangjin, Chongqing, Sichuan, there is now a very famous scenic spot called "Love Ladder".
There's a very beautiful love story in it. The male and female protagonists of the story are named Liu Guojiang and Xu Chaoqing respectively. About before the reform and opening up, two people who were ten years apart got along (one was a widow and the other was a teenager), but there was no way to endure the criticism of the world, so the two eloped into the mountains and old forests, and lived a paradise life of escapism, and their story was not discovered until 2001.
They cultivate their own crops in the deep mountains and old forests, and live a life with no contact with the outside world. In order to make it easier for his hostess to walk in the mountain, this young man carved a lot of stone ladders on the steep hills of the mountain, which were called "love ladders" by later generations.
This incident seems to be a very beautiful story now, but before the reform and opening up, including the eyes of the older generation, isn't this a story that violates public order and good customs?
We also sometimes see some information online. For example, the eldest brother died, leaving the sister-in-law orphans and widows, and then the brother-in-law took on the responsibility of the eldest brother, how to love the sister-in-law, how to love the son-in-law and daughter, and then they lived a happy life.
I think such a story must exist, and such an ending cannot but be said to be a kind of happiness for everyone in it. People, after all, they have to give themselves a home, men and women have a place to rely on each other, and for the younger generation, of course, it is better to have a complete home, I don't think it's a problem.
I have my own understanding and knowledge of the union of uncle and sister-in-law, such a love story or the marriage formed. It's not that such a relationship can't be opposed, it's not that it can't be promoted, and of course it's not that it can't be promoted, but my overall feeling and evaluation is that it's a "fly in the ointment".
But even so, I think such a combination is a fly in the ointment. For a normal relationship and marriage, first of all, it cannot be close relatives, and secondly, it cannot be reorganized in a family or within a family.
On the one hand, it is inevitable that outsiders will talk nonsense, on the other hand, they are all a family, everyone knows and is familiar with each other before, but there have been relatives in the middle, how to look abrupt and embarrassing, such a combination may not have any problems in the early stage, but after a long time, no one can say for sure, after all, it is not a normal marriage union, and the people in it will inevitably have pressure, outside the bureau** It is inevitable that there will be gossip, marriage may be beautiful, but it is like jade, with a little spot on it, it is not good after all.
May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married and live a happy life.
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