At the scene of a woman's wedding, relatives and friends were worried about the gift money, "The bride is married for the fourth time".
In today's society, the topic of marriage has attracted much attention, and everyone has different views on marriage. Divorce has become more common these days than ever, in stark contrast to the days of my parents. In the past, parents tended to think that marriage was a serious matter, and divorce was not taken lightly, and in rural communities, divorce was almost frowned upon.
However, the concept of modern young people has changed a lot, and when faced with unsatisfactory marriage, they choose to divorce more resolutely. Society is also gradually indifferent to the marital status of individuals, considering it a private matter. This change is particularly pronounced in a rural village in Huangshan, Anhui Province.
Recently, a woman experienced a wedding that left her feeling helpless. She took a video of ** while attending a wedding, revealing the fact that the bride was already married for the fourth time. The woman said that she had already made the salute four times, and that she was very helpless about the situation, and that deep down she hoped that this would be the last time.
At the wedding scene, although the bride looked happy, the relatives and friends around her seemed not very happy, and whispered about this regrettable matter. This phenomenon resonated with everyone, who expressed concern about the rashness and frequent changes in marriage. Not only that, but every wedding means a grand feast, which is overwhelming for relatives and friends, and financial resources and time are greatly tested.
This story reflects the diversity and change of society's concept of marriage, and at the same time makes people think deeply about whether marriage is increasingly regarded as a frivolous behavior in the context of contemporary society.
According to insiders, the bride is in her 30s this year, and her previous three marriages all originated from the person she met while working. However, as she got older, she found it harder to find the right partner, so this time she took the initiative to ask for an introduction. The residents of the village got to know the bride and talked about it behind her back. People talk about how she and her ex-husband have only been together for up to three years, and the other two marriages have only been around a year, making one wonder what exactly she was thinking. Many people began to worry about whether this marriage would be her last.
Relatives and friends at the wedding feast expressed their dissatisfaction. Since the bride's marriage is short-lived, she needs to give gifts every time, which makes people feel very helpless. Some even expressed their dissatisfaction on the spot, hurriedly leaving the table after paying the gift money, or even leaving the scene without even tasting the meal.
A friend revealed that the bride's three divorces were all due to the other party's lack of financial resources, but she herself was unwilling to work, and she was at home all day long, which gradually evolved into family disputes, and finally filed for divorce on the grounds of exhaustion.
A photographer uploaded this ** to the Internet, which triggered many comments from netizens. Some people say that brides should face up to their own problems, think about why they are always stuck in marriage twists and turns, and whether they need to self-reflect and solve. Other netizens believe that the bride should get married in a low-key manner, not to make it so vigorous every time, which makes people feel helpless.
Marriage can not be taken lightly, and life is a long journey. If two people complement each other, they should cherish their fate, manage their marriage together, understand and tolerate each other, and only in this way can the marriage last for a long time. Divorce is not only bad for the individual, but also affects the reputation of the parents and attracts criticism from the outside world. As this lady said, if she feels that it is not suitable, she will change her partner at will, and she will suffer in the end. Marriage is an important life choice that should be approached with caution to avoid irreparable consequences due to rashness.