My name is Zhang Wei, I am 45 years old this year, and I have always thought that I am a qualified husband. But lately, I've started to wonder about that. Every night when she came home, Wang Li always did the housework silently, and the conversation between us was limited to "what to eat for dinner" and "the child's school notice". I remember when we first got married, we would plan a movie for the weekend together and discuss the plot of the book. Today, that laughter is gone.
On a recent weekend, I proposed to go to the park together, and Wang Li just replied lightly: "You are busy, I am fine at home." "At that moment, I felt a tingling sensation. Yes, I was so busy with work that I neglected the most precious thing between us – the emotional connection. I began to realize that if we didn't take action, our marriage might be slowly coming to an end like this.
I decided to talk to Li Ming, who was always able to give me some advice on marriage. I need to change, I need to find the me that will make Wang Li's eyes shine again.
That night, I made an appointment with Li Ming to meet at the small bar we frequented. I confided in him about the problem between me and Wang Li. After Li Ming heard this, he nodded and said knowingly: "Do you know, Zhang Wei, feelings are like a pot of plants, you need to keep watering, otherwise you will wither." ”
He went on to say, "You have to understand that women need more than just material satisfaction. They need to be emotionally connected, they need to be heard, they need to feel loved and cherished. ”
I asked eagerly, "So what should I do?".”
Li Ming smiled and gave me three suggestions: "First of all, in-depth communication. Not the kind of communication of everyday trivialities, but sharing your thoughts and listening to her dreams and worries. Secondly, common interests. Find out what interests you both and get involved. Finally, a little surprise. The occasional little surprise can add a lot of fun to life. ”
Listening to Li Ming's words, I had a plan in my heart. The next day, I began to implement my "recovery plan". At dinner, I tried to start a deep conversation: "Lily, have you been painting lately?"I remember you used to love to draw. ”
Wang Li looked at me in surprise and replied with some uncertainty: "Oh, yes, but I've been too busy lately, so I haven't painted much." ”
We went painting together that weekend, and I remember there was a nice spot nearby. "I propose.
A hint of surprise flashed in Wang Li's eyes, and then she smiled and nodded in agreement.
Over the next few days, I began to pay more attention to Wang Li and try to get involved in her interests as much as possible. I even secretly prepared a small basket of picnic food for our weekend painting trip and wanted to surprise her a little.
That weekend, we went to a small lake in the countryside together. The lake is sparkling and surrounded by green hills. We found a comfortable place to sit down, and I pulled out the picnic basket that I had prepared in advance. Wang Li opened her mouth in surprise: "Wow, is this for me?"”
Of course, I hope you like it. I laughed.
On that day, we were drawing and chatting, and it felt like we were back in time to those days when we first met. The sunset reflected the sky red, and also reflected Wang Li's cheeks. She turned to me, her eyes full of warmth: "Zhang Wei, thank you, I'm really happy today." ”
I shook her hand, and my heart was filled with hope. Perhaps, this is just the beginning, but at least we are heading in the right direction.
One night that month, I planned a special family dinner. I made my own favorite dish from Wang Li, decorated with warm candlelight. I waited nervously and expectantly for her reaction.
When Wang Li came home and saw all this, she was stunned. There was an incredulous glint in her eyes: "Zhang Wei, this." What's going on?”
I smiled and said, "Lily, I want you to feel loved and feel special." I've overlooked a lot over the years, but I want to change, I want to bring our marriage back to life. ”
Wang Li's tears suddenly burst out of her eyes, and she said in a trembling voice, "I." I really thought there was no going back between us. You did this, and it really touched me, but. But I'm not sure.
I clasped her hand and said firmly, "I know there are a lot of issues that need to be resolved between us, and I don't expect everything to get right now." But I'm willing to work hard, for us, for this love. ”
At that moment, deep emotions filled the air. We looked at each other, and our eyes were full of complex emotions: love, pain, hope. That night, not only did we have dinner together, but more importantly, we shared our long-hidden feelings and concerns.
After the meal, we sat together on the balcony and watched the starry sky. Wang Li leaned on my shoulder and whispered, "Thank you, Zhang Wei." I am willing to work with you to rebuild our marriage. ”
At that moment, I felt a long-lost warmth and hope, and our marriage seemed to be reborn.
Since that night, the relationship between Wang Li and I has gradually changed. We started to communicate more, not just about everyday things, but also about our dreams and fears. Every day, we learn how Xi can be better partners.
One night, I asked her, "Lily, what do you think of us now?"”
She smiled, her eyes glinting with tenderness: "Much better than before." I feel your efforts and change, and I am working on it too. We're all paying for this marriage. ”
My heart was filled with gratitude: "I'll keep trying, Lily." ”
Our story doesn't have a romantic fairytale ending, and there's no gorgeous pyrotechnics. It is about how two ordinary people find the spark of love in the ordinariness of life and how they find the strength to grow together in challenges. This is our story, a story of love, effort, and hope. Both sexes
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