Although there are people in life, there are very few people who can really enter your heart.
Many widowed women are in no hurry to remarry, like me. I am an emotional, faithful person who has a preference for marriage over the need. My husband and I met and fell in love from school and spent our entire youth together.
His presence is deeply imprinted in my life. Although his life is limited, love is eternal, and death is not the end of love. In the future, I will go on my own and be my lifelong partner.
There is no need to look at other people's faces, and there is no need to endure the trivial matters of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, although the road is rough, but the heart is carefree, everything is decided by yourself, you buy your own gifts, and live a plain and stable life.
I enjoy the beauty of youth alone, and I don't want others to bring more wind and rain to me in the second half of my life. While there are many people in my life, very few have really come into my heart.
Because my heart is filled. Although there are some regrets and sadness, it is these regrets that make the feelings more sacred.
With my husband's departure, my heart became closed and heavy. I no longer think about new relationships, and I don't have the ability to build a new family. After all, marriage is not just a bond between two people, but the intersection of two families.
Now I just want to adjust my emotions, work hard to make money, take care of what I have born, and be grateful to those who have raised me. For the rest, just let it be.
The following is the voice of a widowed netizen: I lost my husband in an accident when I was 37 years old, and now it has been a full 8 years. I didn't choose to remarry because no one cared about me, nor because I missed him or wanted to build a chaste archway, but because I was hurt in my previous marriage and didn't dare to start a new relationship easily.
Unless he can truly love me to the core, embrace me, and protect me, I'd rather be alone and avoid being hit by the storm again. And my heart is very closed, it is difficult to find someone who really walks into my heart, but once someone can enter my heart, I will treat him wholeheartedly and have no regrets in my life.
Therefore, I am very cautious about the choice of my other half.
Âu Lok is a 35-year-old single mom whose husband died unexpectedly many years ago, leaving her and their son behind. For the past 20 years, she has been living alone, and although she once felt helpless and lonely, she has now adapted to living alone, and she feels that it is good.
She decided to love herself for the rest of her life, stay healthy and safe, and grow old happily.
Everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, and whether they are married or not, they should make their own decisions. Some, like me, are 30 years old and have no children, and if they don't marry again, they may be at risk of growing alone.
However, my parents didn't accept the idea, they thought I should find my next relationship while I was young. If I don't, I'll have to face the embarrassment of being someone else's stepmother, and as I get older, the options become fewer and fewer.
If I don't get married, I can't stay at my in-laws' house all the time because I don't have children and my status is awkward. I can't stay at my parents' house permanently, so now I'm adrift by myself, and it's hard to make decisions.
However, I just need to be worthy of my own heart, my life is my decision, and I don't care what other people think, because I know that the difficulties and tears I have experienced are known only to me.
My husband and I met in the first year of junior high and spent 26 years together and were married for 12 years, but he passed away two months ago. He is the love of my life and the only companion in my life.
Although I am only 38 years old, I know that having such an unforgettable love is enough for me to cherish for the rest of my life. In my eyes, there is no one more handsome than him, and those who are more handsome than my husband may not look down on me either.
He tolerates me, doesn't give me grievances, and no matter what I say, he will listen. He gave me every penny of his money, so that I could have no worries about food and clothing, and even if I needed money, he would ask me.
Everything about him was centered on me, and he couldn't bear to even talk to me loudly, even in the midst of his illness, he thought of me and endured the pain without losing his temper with me once. He is the only person in my life, and this unforgettable love is enough for me to cherish for the rest of my life.
Although there are many people on the Internet who leave messages saying that they do not want to remarry, and most of them have lived alone, they do not think that this is an infidelity to the previous marriage, but a redemption for themselves, and they want to live for themselves and follow the path they want to take.
Everyone has their own life and their own choices, and we should not judge their choices, but should respect their choices and wish them to find their own happiness.