Recently, the director of the World Social Security Research Center of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences mentioned a striking point in a lecture: young people can turn to relatives to help take care of their babies when they are faced with the dilemma of difficult to raise children. This point of view immediately sparked heated discussions among netizens. Young people face work pressure and financial pressure, and are relatively reluctant to marry and have children at an early age. Experts believe that young couples should move forward, despite the current difficulties, but still have a long way to live, seize the right age to have children, and can rely on relatives to take care of their children. However, the expert's suggestion was not recognized by netizens, but instead caused ridicule and sarcasm from netizens. They questioned whether the expert's advice was true and feasible, and some even humorously called the expert himself the best assistant who could help with the baby.
In response to these ridicules and doubts, I think there is a certain amount of truth. In today's society, the pressure of life is no longer limited to young people, but also to the ordinary working class. Not to mention the others, just whether the relatives of this expert are under a lot of pressure, he seems to think only from his own point of view, and does not take into account the actual situation of other families. The reluctance of young people to have children early does not mean that they cannot find someone to help take care of the child, but because the cost of having a child is too high, and it takes a lot of money and energy for a child to go from pregnancy to marriage and childbirth. Even if you find relatives to help, who should pay for this cost?If it is a relative, how many relatives are willing to pay such a price?If it's a parent, what's the point of asking relatives for help?To put it simply, relatives helping to take care of the baby is not an effective way to solve the problem of difficult dolling, it is just a kind of ridicule between laughter and scolding.
In modern society, the difficulty of raising dolls has become a problem for many young people. Young people are reluctant to marry early not only because of increased work and financial pressures, but also because it is becoming increasingly difficult to raise children. From birth to adulthood, it takes a lot of money and effort. The cost of raising a child has become a significant expense for the average family. What's more, with the development of society, the family structure has changed, and the work pressure of the elders has also increased, and many relatives have not been able to spare time and energy to take care of their children. Therefore, even if relatives are willing to help take care of the child, there is no guarantee of stable and long-term assistance.
In addition, social and economic development is also an important reason why dolls are difficult to raise. The long period of working-class incomes below the cost of living, coupled with the increasing spending on education, health care, housing, etc., has greatly reduced the optimism of young people in raising children. In real life, many young couples can only spend most of their income on living expenses and are unable to save for their children's future. If the pressure is passed on to relatives, it will undoubtedly only put a greater burden on relatives and the young couple themselves.
Young people's reluctance to marry and have children at an early age does not mean that they are unwilling to take responsibility, but because they are uncertain and worried about the future. Economic pressure and competition for jobs have caused young people in modern society to experience a series of setbacks and pressures, and they need to choose their life path carefully in order to better achieve their ideals and goals. At the same time, the times in which young people live have changed dramatically. Traditional family values have moved away from modern young people, who place greater emphasis on individual freedom and independence. Therefore, young people choose to delay marriage and childbirth, more out of consideration for their own future development, rather than simply lack of human resources to bring up children.
Summary: Although "relatives help take care of the baby" is a method that is often mentioned to solve the problem of difficult to raise a baby, it is actually not realistic. This advice ignores the complexity of current societal pressures and young people's concerns about their future. Young people's choices need to be understood and respected, rather than thoughtlessly making unrealistic suggestions. We should think about how to solve the problem of difficult dolls from a broader perspective, for example, we can introduce a series of support policies to provide more help and support for young couples. Only with the joint efforts of the society can we find a more reasonable and feasible solution to the problem of difficult to raise dolls.