Author: Twilight.
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I'm Twilight. After Zhen Huan and King Guojun were together, they said a word to the unwilling Wen Shichu"Honestly, do you think it's important to be with me, or do you think it's important for me to be genuinely happy?", this sentence was included in the green tea quotations by many netizens.
Zhen Huan said this, is it really green tea?I don't think so.
The essence of green tea is inconsistent, but what Zhen Huan said at this time was not only what she thought in her heart, but also the real truth.
I'm sure you've all heard this saying:Love is what it is, not what it isSincere.
To truly love someone is to let the other person live the life they want, isn't it?
The reason why everyone thinks that Zhen Huan is saying this is very green tea, but because they treat Zhen Huan as a taker and think that she is PUA to Wen Shichu.
To put it bluntly, most people still fall into a noble trap when looking at this scene.
Everyone understands the truth, but Zhen Huan's sincerity and happiness are the most important thing, which can only be affectionate and noble by Wen Shichu as a devotee, and Zhen Huan's own words are utilitarian reality.
For example, someone in life said: There are some things that you plan to give to you if you don't open **, but if you open your mouth first, I feel that you don't believe that I will give it to you and have to ask for me.
Wen Shichu's deep affection for Zhen Huan is naturally undoubted, but Zhen Huan's words will give people a feeling that she is asking for Wen Shichu, which is a bad practice of Wen Shichu's love.
If it was Wen Shichu, he said to Zhen Huan first"Huan'er, it doesn't matter if you're not with me, it's important that you're truly happy. "
The barrage was definitely moved and applauded, and Zhen Huan would not be sprayed.
Doesn't Zhen Huan herself know this truth?She knows. It's just that she has already said a lot of good things before, and Wen Shichu can't listen to it.
She said that even if she had to suffer a lot of hardships and grievances with King Guojun, she was willing, but Wen Shichu was unwilling, and he had to say:"But I'm willing to be with you. "
Seeing that she is about to enter the matryoshka mode of willingness, Zhen Huan can not only directly make it clear that if you love someone, you have to let them live the life they want, what else can she do?
She can't solve the problem with a noble shelf, and only by saying this can she quickly and effectively stop Wen Shichu from being entangled.
Wen Shichu actually understood that Zhen Huan didn't like him at all, and he wouldn't really be happy with him, but he still had a little fantasy.
Zhen Huan broke his illusion with his own mouth, although it was forced to make him sober and a little cruel, but it is undeniable that this kind of neatness is good for each other.
Of course, the reason why everyone fell into a noble trap in this matter and preferred to feel sorry for Wen Shichu was mainly because Wen Shichu was too infatuated.
His immersive love for Zhen Huan vividly explains what it means to love you and has nothing to do with you.
It was love at first sight when he was young, even if Zhen Huan didn't like him, he was determined to be Zhen Huan's guardian and always put her first in everything.
He will never do anything to hurt Zhen Huan in the name of love, he will be happy when Zhen Huan is happy, and he will be very uncomfortable if Zhen Huan suffers a little.
Such an infatuated good man, everyone always hopes that he can be treated gently.
Minglan in "Do You Know" also said to the little grandfather when he was entangled"That's what I think is good, and you don't think it's good", this sentence is actually the same as what Zhen Huan said, both of which are intended to tell the other party to respect their choices.
Why does everyone think that Minglan is right and well-said, and no one thinks that she is making demands on the little grandfather?
Because the little grandfather was different from Wen Shichu, he was very immature at that time, because he was unwilling to marry Minglan to Gu Tingye, he chose to go to the court to visit Gu Tingye, kept making trouble for Gu Tingye, and boasted that it was for Minglan to be good.
He didn't understand, since Minglan had already chosen Gu Tingye, hurting Gu Tingye was tantamount to hurting Minglan .
Back to Wen Shichu, his love for Zhen Huan is really so good that he can't find anything wrong.
Wen Shichu's infatuation is also understood by many people as a humble licking dog, and I think it is really biased to evaluate Wen Shichu in this way.
What is Licking a Dog?Let's take a look at the word analysis-
Sometime I said itLicking a dog is a person who knows that the other person does not like him or her and repeatedly pursues the other person without dignity.
After Wen Shichu's confession failed, did he repeatedly entangle Zhen Huan?No, he respects all of Zhen Huan's decisions, and although he is determined to be Zhen Huan's guardian, he always maintains the proper proportion.
The next few confessions were all because she couldn't bear to watch Zhen Huan suffer and suffer, and wanted her to live a stable life.
King Guojun was also silently paying for Zhen Huan in the early stage, and later thought that the child in Zhen Huan's belly was the emperor, and also told Zhen Huan that he didn't mind, and was willing to treat the child in Zhen Huan's belly as his own child, why didn't anyone say that he was licking a dog?
You can't distinguish between qualitative because King Guojun has gotten it, and Wen Shichu hasn't gotten it.
Feelings are such things, some people will be obsessed with the fact that the sea was once difficult to turn into water, except that Wushan is not a cloud.
Wen Shichu couldn't catch up with Zhen Huan, and Zhen Huan did use his love to do a lot for himself, but no matter what, pure affection without asking for anything in return should not be called licking a dog.
For Zhen Huan, her principle of mate selection is Mu Qiang, she doesn't look down on Wen Shichu, but she never looks down on her.
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