Those people who are really easily deceived, most of them are ordinary people, and they just want to live better, but they can't see that there are too many traps and too many minefields in this world, but they don't have the ability to make specific judgments, so they will lose thousands of bitterness.
Really capable people are generally not easily deceived, they have strong values, have their own judgment ability and judgment standards, and will look at everyone and everything they encounter from multiple dimensions. They may have done many rehearsals before something happened, and even some things were done automatically without them realizing it.
It is not our fault that we are deceived, it just means that we have not yet understood the truth of the world, and we do not have the ability to identify deception, of course, we cannot practice recognizing various deception techniques every day, we must establish our own strong value system, so that even if the deception is in front of us, we will not be fooled.
How to have your own value system, first of all, you must establish a few rules for yourself, such as integrity, such as self-improvement, such as lifelong learning, these can help us avoid many disasters, just like honest people will avoid all kinds of difficulties or disasters caused by dishonesty, such as self-improvement people will not ask for help everywhere, and will not easily fall into the trap, such as lifelong learning people, can quickly adapt to the development of this society, will not be eliminated, and will not wake up one day to find that this world is no longer the world they know, everything has changed, and they find that they can't keep up with the times。
The above mentioned are only a small part of some of the rules of life, and each of us has established our own rules. Each person's situation is different, so I won't discuss it here.