Mo Yan once said: "Don't let yourself be hurt because you are embarrassed to reject others, since they dare to embarrass you, why should you hesitate." If someone tells you it's not about money, it's just because there's not enough money, don't overestimate the relationship and don't try to speculate on other people's minds. ”
Don't let "embarrassed" be a stumbling block for yourself, and I hope you can patiently read the following:
There was a merchant who sold rice, and he bought a donkey to go home, and the donkey was very happy. On the first day, when the merchant wanted to deliver rice, he put two bags of rice on the donkey's back, and the donkey easily delivered the rice to its destination.
The next day the merchant put three sacks of rice on the donkey's back, and the donkey completed the task.
On the fourth day, the merchant put eight sacks of rice on the donkey's back, and the donkey felt a little struggling, and the merchant asked him, "Can you still carry it?"”
The donkey was embarrassed to tell the truth and panted and replied: "It's not a big problem, I'm okay." ”
On the fifth day, ten sacks of rice were placed on its back, and the overwhelmed donkey fell down as he walked, never to get up again.
Do you see that?It was the donkey's "embarrassed" heart that made it finally bury itself. It is bent on pleasing its master, learns not to refuse, and ends up paying the price.
If you are faced with unreasonable requests and are embarrassed to refuse others because of the sake of face, you will only end up causing trouble for yourself. It's not kindness, it's weakness.
Kindness has a bottom line, and unconditional kindness is connivance. Are you right?
Don't let yourself be hurt because you're embarrassed to say noThose who are embarrassed to embarrass you are not good people. When you don't know how to reject others, that's when others start to be shameless.
In addition, I fully agree with what Mo Yan said: "It's not about money, it's about not having enough money." "Adults should know how to deal with the world: it's not about money, it's about money.
Life will slowly tell you that it's all about not having money, and it's not a thing when you have money. Therefore, when you have time, you can make more money, and you have nothing to do with less hypocrisy. In this era of recognizing money but not people, the dignity and confidence of adults are related to money.
People fought for one breath, and the Buddha fought for a stick of incense.
Money is the most important thing, and without money you are nothing.
That's the reality, you get it?
The default classification is Interpersonal Social.