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Literary writer Zhang Ailing said: The love that most Chinese girls want is actually to be loved.
In fact, as human beings, regardless of gender, one of the motivations for survival is the desire to be valued.
Therefore, people who are loved unconditionally will be surrounded by happiness and feel that the world is really beautiful.
But it's a pity that in today's society, there are too few sincere feelings.
Many people play on the scene when they come into contact with the opposite sex, or they are dedicated to themselves.
If you want to judge whether a man really loves his woman in his heart, you can see whether he has the following four manifestations:
One, I am always concerned about you.
Many women complained: Why do men have a strong desire to share when they pursue me, and after being together for a long time, they start to have nothing to say?
In fact, it is precisely because of what men get that they slack off and feel that they no longer need to please women who have become "in the bag".
However, a man who has always been consistent with his feelings, even if he has been in love with a woman for many years, will always think about the woman.
I'm afraid that women will be cranky, so I give women a sense of security;I'm afraid that women will suffer, so I work hard to make money;I'm afraid that women will be bored, so no matter how busy I am at work, I also find time to accompany them.
Second, be willing to put your heart and soul into preparing surprises for you
Star Zhou Yi publicly complained about her ex-husband in the high-scoring marriage variety show "Goodbye Lover".
On Valentine's Day, he didn't prepare for me at any time, and a few days later, my birthday, he still asked what I wanted, and then there was no more. ”
Later, when they divorced, netizens were not surprised, because if there is no woman in a man's heart, a woman can really feel it, and then choose to leave a loveless partner and be beautiful alone.
Men who love their girlfriends or wives deeply not only perform in various important festivals, but even in ordinary daily life, they will take the time to prepare surprises for women:
For example, when you come home from work, you can bring your favorite food to womenOr if it's not Valentine's Day, you can also send a beautiful bouquet of flowers.
Things are not necessarily very valuable, they are very valuable, and the important thing is that men are willing to spend time and effort on women to make women feel loved.
Third, it is easy to be jealous and possessive
Sociologist Shen Yifei said:Love must be exclusive.
If you can tolerate your partner and other members of the opposite sex having an affair, it proves that you don't love your partner at all.
is like an ancient concubine, who fought for privilege and other women's power, but it may not necessarily be how much she loves the emperor.
Therefore, the more a man loves a woman, the less he wants her to get too close to other men and behave beyond the boundary.
Because men have this thought: "It is completely my baby, and I feel uncomfortable when someone else touches it." ”
Fourth, give all the money to you
There is a classic line in the movie "Predecessor 3":A man who spends money on you does not necessarily love you, but a man who does not spend money on you must not love you.
In this year's broadcast of "Predecessor 4", we also saw such a plot: Ding Dian and Yu Fei tried to fall in love before marriage, the two lived together, Ding Dian asked the man to hand over his salary, and the other party agreed.
In fact, men have some hobbies of their own: fishing, for exampleRiding a motorcycle;Or buy some gaming gear.
However, turning over all the savings means that the man loses the freedom to spend these money.
However, the man who has you in his heart is willing to take on the responsibility of "supporting his family", and will not only enjoy the passionate part of love like a yellow-haired boy.
Today's topic: What kind of performance will a man have in his heart with you?