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Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-29

I'm Zhou Hua and I'm 55 years old this year. This small city located in the Yangtze River Delta region has witnessed my ordinary life.

I was born into an ordinary working-class family, and when I was a child, my family was in difficult conditions, but my parents were very attentive to me and my siblings. I came out to work after I went to secondary school, and later met my wife Lijuan. After we got married, we bought an old house in Changzhou and gave birth to a son, Ming Ming. For the sake of our children, we worked hard and lived a peaceful life day by day.

Until 5 years ago, Lijuan unfortunately passed away due to illness, leaving me and Mingming, who was in his 20s. Ming Ming was later admitted to a university in Beijing and left Changzhou. Now that he has graduated and worked for many years, he occasionally comes back to see me. I'm used to living alone, Xi work every day, and occasionally drink tea and chat with old friends.

One winter day two years ago, I went to the vegetable market as usual to shop. This is an old neighborhood that I am familiar with, with old acquaintances such as Uncle Wang, who sells meat, and Aunt Ma, who sells vegetables. I had just bought pork and was laughing with Uncle Wang when I suddenly heard a loud noise next to me.

I hurriedly looked over and saw a big man getting up from the ground, and the vegetable stall next to him was also turned upside down. "I'm so sorry I tripped over someone. The man said nervously.

Aunt Ma next to her hurriedly went over to help him: "Dapeng, are you okay?"My arm is bleeding, hurry up and go to the hospital!”

Only then did I recognize that this person was Zhang Dapeng, also a local, a few years younger than me. His parents had long since passed away and he was living alone in an old house. I didn't know him well, but I met a few times once in a while.

Dapeng looked at the blood stains on his elbows and was a little anxious: "It's really troublesome, the vegetables I just bought are all scattered on the ground." ”

I stepped forward and said, "I'll pick it up for you, you can go to the hospital and see the injury." ”

Dapeng thanked me, then took the tissue given by Aunt Ma and pressed it on the wound, and left with a limp.

I helped him pick up all the vegetables, pack them and take them to his house. I knocked on the door for several minutes before I heard slow footsteps inside.

The door opened, and Dapeng was covered with thick bandages on his hands, and his face was very pale.

Why are you here?Are your hands all right?I asked with concern.

Dapeng smiled and said, "You helped me pick up the dishes, thank you." The arm is just a flesh wound and is out of the way. Instead, his leg twisted, and the doctor said he needed to recuperate. ”

I handed him the food: "Don't go to the vegetable market for a few days, take care of yourself at home." If you need anything, just come to me. ”

After that, I often went to Dapeng's house to check on his injuries. Dapeng has lived alone for many years, and although his personality is a little withdrawn and introverted, he is still very enthusiastic about me.

One day I went to his house and saw that there was nothing to eat in the refrigerator, so I asked him, "I made some chicken soup, and I just brought it to you to make up for it." ”

Dapeng smiled and said, "Oh, Brother Zhou, it's too pitiful for me." That's hard work for you, I'll just cook some pasta. ”

I opened the thermos bucket, and the aroma came to my nose: "Come, drink some chicken soup to warm up." ”

Dapeng took a sip carefully, and his eyes lit up: "It tastes so good, it seems that I can come to rub your rice every day in the future!."”

I laughed, "You've got to make something I love too, let's make a deal!."”

No problem!Dapeng also smiled, "The braised pork I made is very authentic, and when I am ready, I will cook it myself, please try it." ”

I saw that Dapeng was eating happily, and my heart was very happy.

After a month, Dapeng's leg injury has healed a lot and he can gradually move. One day, I rode my bicycle to the lake for a walk and found that Dapeng was also walking slowly there.

Dapeng, your legs are much better. I greeted happily.

yes, I can finally come out and walk around. Thanks to your care during this time. Dapeng said with a smile.

We chatted for a while, and I didn't think it was too early, so I said goodbye to Dapeng.

Be careful on the road. Dapeng said a little tiredly.

I nodded and rode away.

When I got home, I called Dapeng to make sure he had returned home safely, but I couldn't get through. I was a little apprehensive and decided to see him again tomorrow.

My heart sank, and I tried to open the door, but it was unlocked. I cautiously walked in, only to see the Roc fall to the ground, his face extremely pale.

Roc!Roc!I hurriedly crouched down and slapped him in the face, and he opened his eyes slightly and muttered something in his mouth.

I was so anxious that I quickly called 120 and accompanied Dapeng to the hospital.

The doctor diagnosed it as a complication caused by his old injury** and required hospitalization for observation. I stayed in the ward, looking at Dapeng with a weak face, and my heart was full of self-blame and anxiety.

After Dapeng was hospitalized, I went to the hospital every day after work to take care of him.

Once, his condition deteriorated and he burned unconscious, and I stayed at his bedside.

Alas, I shouldn't have let you go home alone, if only I had noticed it sooner. I said reproachfully.

I hurriedly rang the bell and called ** to come over and inject an intravenous drip. Seeing him gradually regain some of his spirits, I was also relieved.

Since then, I have brought a portion of every meal to Dapeng, and I have also helped him wash his clothes and tidy up the ward.

Once Dapeng's old cousin came to visit me and said to me, "My nephew is usually not very good at making friends, and it is great to meet such a good buddy as you." ”

I waved my hand and said, "Yes, yes, I also admire Dapeng as a friend." ”

Dapeng was a little embarrassed when he heard this: "Then I will invite you to have a big meal after I am discharged from the hospital to show my gratitude!."”

I watched his face gradually recover, and the stone in my heart fell to the ground.

The days in Dapeng made me reflect on what true friendship is.

I remember when I was a child, my best friend Xiao Wang suddenly moved away due to family reasons, and he didn't have time to say goodbye to me. Since then, I haven't made any close friends.

This is especially true when you grow up. I got along lukewarmly with my colleagues, and went home to live the life of an old husband and wife with Lijuan. After Lijuan died, I was even more alone.

The appearance of Dapeng has colored my life. I've also come to realize that friendship shouldn't just stop at asking for warmth, but also about supporting each other in the most important moments.

Dapeng nodded: "Me too, you have taught me to be friends to support each other and never give up easily." I will remember what you did to me. ”

I watched Dapeng gradually recover physically and mentally, and said to myself that this period of time has made me grow a lot, and I have better understood the value of friendship between people. I will join hands with Dapeng and accompany me through the journey of life like a brother.

After more than a month, Dapeng's body was finally discharged from the hospital. I drove to the hospital to pick him up.

After getting into the car, Dapeng said happily: "Thank you very much for taking care of me during this time, I am finally free again." ”

I smiled and said, "I'm glad to see you." Go back and have a good rest, and don't push yourself anymore. ”

I know, I know, I don't have you watching. Dapeng said with a smile.

After sending Dapeng home, I accompanied him for a walk around the neighborhood and helped him get used to walking.

Huh I can finally walk on my own, and I'm about to become a vegetative state after being hospitalized for so long. Dapeng said with emotion.

Haha, it'll be good for a few more months. I joked.

Since then, I have been visiting Dapeng regularly to help him buy groceries and ensure that his body is gradually recovering.

Two months later, Dapeng was finally able to take care of himself. One day I went to his house and saw him excited.

I can finally make good on my promise!Dapeng said mysteriously, and then took out a few plastic bags.

When I saw it, it was fresh pork, vegetables, and various spices. It turned out that Dapeng wanted to become a chef and invited me to eat his specialty braised pork as promised.

Dapeng smiled proudly: "I'll just say it, you want to have a lot of praise for my craft!."”

Looking at Dapeng's recovered mental outlook, I couldn't help but laugh out loud.

This accident deepened the friendship between me and Dapeng. I learned to cherish the friends around me, and Dapeng became more cheerful.

Nowadays, we meet regularly to play chess, talk about life, and support each other. I'm no longer growing old alone.

In life, it is rare to meet a soulmate. Dapeng and I will go through this journey hand in hand. Maybe we weren't like-minded at the beginning, but after going through this, our friendship will last until the end.

I believe that as long as you have a confidant in your heart, life will not be lonely. It takes time to cultivate feelings, and the test of friendship requires trust and companionship. I know that with Dapeng, the rest of the road will be smoother and smoother.

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