Autumn and Winter Check-in Challenge
On Friday, I did some data input and sorting work for clothing customization with my friends in the studio, and I ended up picking up the baby together. On the way, we talked about women's work and children.
She said that men must take the lead in making money and education. Her husband has been busy lately and asked her to take care of her son's Xi. Their family's money has always been divided equally between the two people, the son learns to Xi her husband's management, and she is in charge of eating and drinking. She said that she couldn't make money and wanted her education, so it was easy to be discordant [covering her face] and said that she envied my daughter's Xi don't worry about it.
Actually, when she said that, I was thinking about this too. Nowadays, there are really two things in the family: one is education, and the other is to make money. Suddenly found out that according to her statement, I didn't do anything [covering my face] Education and making money, I didn't do anything!
Since 2016, I have resigned from my job to take care of the baby at home, when the child was two years old, and then kindergarten, primary school, has not had the opportunity to work, although I did something intermittently during the period, but the money I made was almost negligible.
There is no problem of learning Xi in kindergarten, except for taking her to eat, drink and have fun, that is, by the way, to instill some small knowledge and the truth of how to behave in the world, and then by the way with literacy. The first and second grades of primary school are also very Xi simple, and the main thing is to raise Xi habits, and explain what you don't understand. Fortunately, the child is worry-free, his concentration and Xi habits are very good, and the Xi of learning is relaxed and happy. When I was in the third and fourth grades, I didn't need to do anything anymore, and occasionally there were some problems in Xi, and I asked her to find her father more ** (after all, my father also graduated from Zhejiang University that year, and he was also a man of the year in school).
In this way, I should feel guilty [covering my face], and I really doubt whether I am a qualified mother. My current task is to be responsible for the food, drink, and transportation of a family of three, food, clothing, housing, and transportation, and I don't need to make money and educate without me [covering my face], so it seems that I really feel that I am useless.
But many friends say that the children are well brought by me, and even my husband says the same, saying that I have the most credit [laughing and crying] Should I trust them?
I really want to be a qualified mother, but who will tell me what kind of mother is a qualified mother?