In life, we often encounter communication with girls.
Circumstance. Sometimes, we may make the other person feel uncomfortable because of some inappropriate words. So, how to reply to a girl with high emotional intelligence?Below, I will analyze different scenarios to help you become a good communicator.
Situation 1: The girl confides in you about her troubles.
When a girl confides in you about her troubles, you may want to comfort her. But if you say, "Don't be sad, I know you're sad. Such a response may make the other person feel that you don't really understand her feelings. Instead, you can say, "I understand you're having a hard time right now, and I can be with you through this time if you want." Such a response will make the girl feel understood and supported.
Situation 2: The girl expresses her opinion to you.
When a girl expresses her point of view to you, you may be tempted to refute her. But if you say, "Your idea is wrong, you should do it." Such a response may make the other person feel attacked. Instead, you can say, "I understand your thoughts, but we can think about this from another angle." Such a response will make the girl feel respected and accepted.
Situation 3: The girl asks you for your opinion.
When a girl asks you for an opinion, you may want to give her some advice. But if you say, "You should do this, and it's better to do that." Such a response may make the other person feel commanded. Instead, you can say, "Here are some of my thoughts, and I hope they help you." Such a response will make the girl feel helped and supported.
Situation 4: The girl apologizes to you.
When a girl apologizes to you, you may be tempted to accept her apology. But if you say, "It's okay, I forgive you." Such a response may make the other person feel that you have not truly forgiven her. Instead, you can say, "I'm glad you apologized to me, I forgave you." Such a response will make the girl feel accepted and understood.
Situation 5: The girl expresses her gratitude to you.
When a girl expresses her gratitude to you, you may be tempted to reciprocate her thanks. But if you say, "You're welcome, this is what I'm supposed to do." Such a response may make the other person feel that your response is cold. Instead, you can say, "I'd be happy to do these things for you, and if there's anything else you need help with, feel free to let me know." Such a response will make the girl feel your enthusiasm and willingness to help her.
The above are some common situations and corresponding suggestions for replying. Of course, the reality can be more complex and volatile. However, as long as we listen to and understand the feelings and needs of the other person, we can communicate in a way that is closer to the other person's psychology. Hopefully, these tips will help you become a better communicator!