Men always seem to be considered a species that thinks lower body.
Often driven by instinct, and when faced with the trivial matters in marriage, it often seems a little disinterested.
But can we dive into the truth behind this?
Love and freshness: the nature of liking the new and hating the old
Sometimes, a man's loss of interest in marriage is not the fault of his wife, but more of his own nature—liking the new and hating the old.
People love freshness, and for good reason.
However, the question is whether men will be able to overcome this nature and not indulge in it easily.
For a man who genuinely wants to be good to his wife, he will try to understand his weaknesses and not blindly indulge himself.
Because true love is not based on freshness, but on shared experience and mutual understanding.
Love is the ideal, marriage is the reality.
When life is filled with trivialities, when the persistence of love and responsibility becomes a reality, will a man be able to maintain interest in his wife?
This is not only a challenge to one's own emotions, but also a deep reflection on marriage.
It is not a man's sin to like the new and hate the old, the key is whether he can find new value and meaning in marriage.
Cheating and the wandering of the mind
Marriage changes are often not confined to the family.
Once a man finds a new companion outside, his mind naturally wanders away from his wife.
No matter how good the wife is, no matter how much she pays, it may become insignificant in the hearts of men.
This is not a betrayal of marriage, but more of a momentary ghost that leads him to become obsessed with someone else, and thus lose interest in his wife.
This is a human weakness, not a man's lack of cherishing of his wife.
Human energy is limited, both physically and mentally.
Once he is overdrawn, it is likely that he will no longer be able to devote enough attention and interest in the marriage.
Understanding and communication are especially important in marriage to prevent emotional dissociation and infidelity.
Family trivialities and emotional detachment
Another reason that causes a man to lose interest in his wife is related to the trivial matters of family life.
The beauty of love is often a projection of ideals, while marriage is a reality of life.
Whether a man loses interest in marriage is not only because of his wife, but also because of the challenges of the marriage itself.
When life becomes trivial and full of firewood, rice, oil and salt, the burden of love and responsibility makes people feel heavy.
In such a situation, can a man still be interested in his wife?
A man's attitude towards the trivialities of marriage largely depends on their own state of mind.
If you can find common pleasure and a common sense of accomplishment, then trivial life can become a catalyst for emotion.
Conversely, if there is a sense of detachment from trivial matters, then the feelings in the marriage will also be alienated as a result.
Marriage is a long journey that requires thinking and communication.
Whether a man loses interest in marriage is not due to a single reason, but covers the weaknesses and challenges of human nature.
In the face of these, what is needed is thinking and communication.
Understanding and trust between husband and wife is the most valuable asset in married life, and it is only through joint efforts that true happiness can be found in marriage.
Liking the new and hating the old, the wandering of the mind, and the trivial life are just a hurdle on the road to marriage, and only through true understanding and love can we go through this journey together.