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In most people's minds, after the age of 50, women should focus on the family, they should live well with their husbands, and after the age of 50, men will start to enjoy old age.
But this is not the case, many women have despaired of love when they were young, but as time goes by, they begin to understand a truth, that is, no matter who is together, they must return to the family in the end.
So speaking of which, would someone say that a woman should stay away from her husband after the age of 50?After all, with a family and children, it's time to enjoy life.
But in fact, this statement is not accurate, and middle-aged women after the age of 50 often choose to stay away from their husbands for these three reasons.
It is said that when people reach middle age, the common language between husband and wife will become less and less, which is actually a certain truth.
Because after middle age, men's bodies and energy begin to decline, they tend to become more and more lazy, not interested in anything, and less and less motivated to family and work.
On the other hand, women get older, but their bodies don't, so women tend to be more energetic than men.
At this time, the woman will feel that she and her husband do not have a common language. But men don't think so, they feel that they are working for the family, they are fighting for the family, so they don't think that there is no common language between the two people.
So when you reach a middle-aged couple, you will find that the gap between the two people is getting bigger and bigger, and there is more and more nothing to say to each other.
After the age of 50, a woman will feel that she is completely controlled by her child, that her life is basically dominated by her child, and that everything she does is done according to her child's ideas.
For example, they usually want to go out and play, but find that the child has grown up and will not agree at all. Therefore, in order to satisfy their curiosity, many women begin to distance themselves from their husbands.
I have a friend who is a good example of this. She and her husband have been married for many years, but their relationship has always been cold because his husband works outside the home all year round.
But one day she found out she was pregnant. So she told her husband about it, hoping that he would come home and take care of them and the children.
But when the husband returned home, he found that everything had changed. Not only did he ignore her, but he often socialized with her outside.
So she had a big fight with her husband, but she didn't expect her husband to end up betraying her and being with another woman.
After this incident, she finally realized that she was controlled by her children, so she decided to divorce her husband.
When you are young, a woman is like a blank sheet of paper, while a man is like a book, and the book can only become more beautiful if you keep writing your own story on it.
After marriage, many men will feel that women have lost their original freshness and mystery, so they will feel that the relationship between their wives has faded.
But in fact, this is not a bad thing, because it is precisely because the relationship between husband and wife has weakened, so you need to keep trying, you need to keep looking for each other's advantages, so that the relationship between husband and wife can get better and better.
After a woman turns 50, she actually has a lot to do in her heart, such as travel, beauty, skin care and so on.
So when she gets along with her husband, she also feels a little uncomfortable Xi. But in fact, the most important thing a woman should do at this time is to put down the work at hand and enjoy life.