In the work "Do You Know If You Should Be Green, Fat, Red and Thin", Wang Ruofu showed a lot of eye-catching acting skills. Although she is married to Sheng Hong, she is often spoiled and loses his wife. She has a straightforward personality, lacks strategy, has a fiery temper, and is often swayed by others.
Such a flawed woman is neither loved by her mother-in-law and husband, nor valued by her mother-in-law, so why do her children get a good education?
In the play, the knee pads that Minglan gave to Changbai and Changfeng that she made herself are in stark contrast to Wang Ruofu and Lin Hanshuang's behavior, which is enough to reflect the huge difference between them in educating their children.
Lin Hanshuang didn't take a look at her knee pads, she always hoped that Changfeng could fully show herself, get admitted to the Jinshi, and no longer be oppressed by Wang Ruofu. But Chang Feng was dissatisfied with the cold feeling of the knee pads, and he just glanced at them briefly and threw them aside, not feeling anything wrong.
Mo Lan used harsh and bitter words to express a trace of childishness in Lan's body. And although Lin watched the two children ignore the feelings of others, she firmly pointed out any mistakes between them. She was dissatisfied with Lan, but more importantly, she didn't show the grace she should have, and she didn't think about how to educate her children. She just imparts what she thinks is the best ideas to her children without getting to the bottom of the principles and qualities behind things.
Wang Ruofu's behavior aroused people's favor, she carefully took the knee pad for examination, and praised Minglan for her intentions again and again. Rulan curiously asked if this knee pad was specially prepared for Changbai, or if it also included Changfeng's part. After learning about this, she felt dissatisfied in her heart, and at the same time, Minglan 's flattering attitude also made her words less pleasant.
Wang Ruofu directly criticized Rulan at this moment, although Minglan was grateful, but as her biological sister, what did you do?She is a person who does not know how to take care of herself. Minglan has become more and more mature and stable over the years, and even Sheng Hong has begun to have a good impression of her, so there should be no more mention of the difference between concubines and concubines. Rulan should learn more from Minglan.
From here, we can clearly see the difference between Wang Ruofu and Lin Mai Cream. Wang Ruofu is a generous and kind-hearted person, she cherishes the feelings of others very much, and will be outspoken and critical of any bad things that her children say. In her opinion, Minglan should learn more from her for her excellent qualities.
Wang Ruofu herself took the same action, and her heart was full of helplessness at that time, because she only thought of Lin Hanshuang and imitated Lin Hanshuang's contrived gentle attitude, but unfortunately, this kind of pain is not something that ordinary people can bear. Wang Ruofu's personality is very frank, he is always outspoken, and he can't accept those hypocritical pandering at all.
Rulan grew up beside Wang Ruofu and was deeply influenced by her, so her personality is very similar to her mother, both stubborn and stubborn, even if she was beaten by Sheng Fa, she would not behave as weak and shed tears as Mo Lan.
At first, Rulan didn't have a deep affection for Minglan and asked Minglan to copy her homework, prepare gifts, and make delicious food for her. But Rulan's attitude towards Minglan is always harsh and doesn't seem to care too much about her.
However, as time passed, he gradually changed his attitude and was willing to express his feelings and thoughts to Minglan himself, and this transformation was not only influenced by Minglan herself, but also by the teachings of Wang Ruofuer.
Wang Ruofu's kindness and soft character were faithfully passed on to Rulan. Wang Ruofu's maid betrayed her and was bought by Aunt Kang, which caused her great trouble. Despite this, Wang Ruofu still couldn't bear to hurt her, which is why Rulan did not hesitate to rush forward to protect her when the maid was injured.
Hua Lan has lived under the care of Mrs. Sheng since she was a child, so she has been deeply influenced by the old lady. Compared with Rulan, Hua Lan is more strategic and wise, she is not only the eldest sister in the family, but also the treasure loved by the family. However, Hua Lan did not show any pampering, and she had the same kindness towards the old lady as well as the brothers and sisters in the family.
Whenever Wang Ruofu's thoughts deviated and her heart felt pain, Hua Lan always stood by her side to comfort her. Wang Ruofu was confused about certain things, and Hua Lan analyzed them one by one. When Wang Ruofu was angry, it was Hualan who took targeted measures to ensure that the family relationship was harmonious.
Hua Lan performed so well, Mrs. Sheng was her cornerstone, and Wang Ruofu gave her sincere love. Although she has never mentored her daughter, her feelings for Hualan are sincere and deep. From Hua Lan being hired by the Yuan family and being bullied, to her life in the Yuan family not being satisfactory, although Wang Ruofu did not really help Hua Lan, she was genuinely worried about Hua Lan.
The selfless love she gave to Hua Lan was enough to soothe her aggrieved feelings. As a daughter, she does not always expect much from her mother how high her abilities and outstanding performance are, as long as her mother truly loves her, the child will show tenacity, courage and optimism.
Changbai is the son of the family, he shoulders the heavy responsibility of the rise of the Sheng family, and his personality is gentle and elegant, erudite and talented. He began his initiation education at the age of four and has been under the guidance of Sheng Fa. He also invited a teacher to teach at home. Changbai didn't need Wang Ruofu to worry about him at all, as Minglan said, Wang Ruofu always thought that his son was not like a real gentleman, and no matter what happened, he needed his guidance.
Changbai was able to concentrate under the pressure of his family and heavy academic pressure, and Changbai had his own unique way of dealing with Wang Ruofu, and he respected Wang Ruofu instead of blindly following him. When the Hai clan got started, Wang Ruofu tried to sort out her mother-in-law's family tree, but was firmly refuted by Changbai.
Changbai's respect for Wang Ruofu surpassed him, but his closeness was not high. Relatively few men are affected by their mothers. Changfeng didn't wander around Lin Hanshuang's room as often as Changfeng did, although Changfeng often tried to rescue Lin Hanshuang, Changbai didn't care if Wang Ruofu would be bullied by Sheng Hong, because in the Wang family's environment, no matter how much Sheng Hong doted on Lin Hanshuang, he wouldn't really take action against Wang Ruofu.
Although Wang Ruofu felt helpless about her son, she never considered bothering him. At most, she only chatted with the servants around her about the children, and if it really involved major issues of right and wrong, Wang Ruofu would still act according to the children's wishes.
Hua Lan, Changbai and Rulan each have their own unique personalities and styles, but they are almost identical in terms of kindness, which may be the life insights that Wang Ruofu's mother brought to them.
Wang Ruofu has experienced all kinds of ups and downs, but he has not been loved by Sheng Hong. Mrs. Sheng was also speechless to her, and if she could avoid associating with her, she would try to avoid contact with her, and give some guidance when she needed her advice, and rarely others.
However, Wang's life has gradually changed for the better, and her three children have all performed well. Lin Mai Maishuang left the production line early and saw the true face of her biological sister, which made Wang Ruofu cherish her current life even more, which is inseparable from her kind heart.