The Wenju Judicial Office of the Guangshan County Bureau of Justice conscientiously implements the spirit of the higher-level mediation work conference, practices the "Fengqiao experience" in the new era, improves the working mechanism for litigation and mediation, guides the masses to resolve conflicts through non-litigation methods such as people's mediation, promotes prevention at the source, and substantively resolves disputes on the spot, and effectively resolves contradictions and disputes at the grassroots level and before litigation. Zeng and Mai fell in love after meeting in Jiangsu in 2009, went through marriage registration procedures in March 2011, and their son is now in junior high school in Guangshan County. In 2015, the two parties worked in two places to start a business, began to work in different places after marriage, the two parties got together less and left more, and sometimes quarreled because of insufficient communication on trivial matters, resulting in weak feelings between the husband and wife, and thus the two parties had conflicts, so Zeng applied for mediation and the respondent Mai Moumou divorce dispute.
After accepting the case, the mediator conducted an investigation in a timely manner to fully grasp the relevant situation. Mai Moumou thinks: The child is still young, and Zeng Moumou is now saying divorce, but he has no sense of responsibility. We each work in different places and get together less and leave more, all for the sake of better living conditions for family members, who is willing to leave their hometown, and their children can't accompany them?Zeng always has any reason to say that mine is not, he needs to give me a reasonable reason for divorce, otherwise I don't agree.
After the mediator's investigation, it was learned that Zeng and Mai were in free love, and had lived together for many years after the marriage registration authority had registered their marriage, and the two parties were legally married, protected by law, and should maintain the stability of the marriage and family. In the mediation work, the staff of the mediation committee should educate and guide the parties to a good relationship between husband and wife is the foundation for building a happy family and a harmonious society, and husband and wife should trust each other, support each other, help each other, respect each other, and share weal and woe. The meaning of the other half of married life is to rely on each other, support each other, give each other a little more care, husband and wife should work together to eliminate misunderstandings between each other, and assume their own responsibilities. In an attitude conducive to family harmony, actively resolving conflicts is the right choice that is rational and beneficial to the family, and it is not necessary to solve problems through divorce. Moreover, the evidence submitted by Zeng could not prove that the relationship between the two parties had indeed broken down, and the reasons were not sufficient;The child is currently in the first year of junior high school, and from the perspective of benefiting the child, it is not appropriate for both parties to divorce. Combined with Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China and other relevant provisions, finally under the mediation presided over by the staff of the People's Mediation Committee, the two parties reached a mediation agreement: the two parties expressed their willingness to reconcile, and in the future, the husband and wife should communicate with each other, understand each other, and tolerate each other more. The dispute was settled through mediation. (Li Naidong, Guangshan County Judicial Bureau, Henan Province).