1. Self-confidence: In any occasion, learn to precipitate yourself and listen to the opinions and views of others. In social circles, self-confidence is an intangible strength. Don't be in a hurry to interject into a chat, so as not to reveal your details. Silence is the best protector of the weak.
2. Be true and not pretentious: express your thoughts and feelings truthfully, and not be pretentious or hypocritical. To like is to like, not to like is not to like, don't deliberately play ambiguous for some reason. It will be more attractive not to hide your true emotions and be your true self.
3. Respect, do not break your mouth: respect every profession and every person, understand the hardships of others and appropriately tolerate the shortcomings of others. Do not discriminate or despise others. People with broken mouths dare to say anything, good and bad words without thinking, and they don't know how to respect others. People who know how to respect will think carefully before they speak, knowing what to say and what not to say. Respect is mutual, you respect others, and you will be respected by others.
4. Do your best and prepare for the worst: Everyone wants to succeed and hope to do things well and beautifully. But the results are often disappointing, so it's necessary to prepare for the worst before doing anything. Strive for the best, but also have the courage to face failure. This refers to the perfect combination of process and result. In the process of doing things, you must do your best, and at the same time, you must have the courage to face the consequences of failure.
5. Independence does not depend on: strength includes life, economy, thinking, personality confidence, confidence and spirit. Wild beasts are always strong alone, and cattle and sheep are herds. It's okay to make friends, but a true friendship should be as light as a gentleman's friendship, leaving some space for each other. When you really encounter something, you can reflect the true value of friends. The trickle of water is the manifestation of the strong. When you're alone, you can calm down and introspect, and meaningless socializing will only drain your energy.
6. Be good at managing personal emotions: learn to manage personal emotional expressions, let joys, angers, sorrows and joys be released at the appropriate time, place and event, and don't lose your temper at will. At the same time, don't over-suppress your emotions. When you are emotionally depressed, you can choose the right way to release it. Be polite and respectful in front of outsiders, and losing your temper in front of people close to you is not a sign of generosity, but a typical lack of emotional intelligence.
7. Atmosphere: The so-called atmosphere is open-minded, generous, and never cares about small things. Wisdom is detached, whether it is for people or things, and it will not be deeply entangled between various emotional entanglements and gains and losses. Be open-minded to others and yourself, and don't have a small belly. Be honest and bright, do not make tricks behind your back, do not harm the interests of others, dare to face your own mistakes, shine but not shine, know how to be humble, and have mature personality beauty.