Maxima often has, but Bole does not often have.
It is said that it is difficult to know a thousand miles, butIt's harder to know the right person, people hide deeper than horses, wantSee the essence through the phenomenonIt is difficult to identify a person's true character.
Chinese cultureOver thousands of years, the ancestors also left behind about knowing people"Horses look at the four hooves, people look at the four phases".Such a saying is used to help identify a loved one.
So what are the four phases of "people look at the four phases"?What is the saying in this?
AntiquityThe means of transport are backward, whether it is to carry out long-distance raids or to use the army, it must be indispensableA good horse, especially the kind of good horse that can travel thousands of miles a day, the ancients also called good horsesMaxima, the famous ones areof Luma, Red Rabbit HorseWait.
But horses are excellent and extremely goodIt's not easy to tell, it is extremely difficult to find people who can identify Maxima, many Maxima arewas buried
Han Yu also pointed out in "Ma Shuo":"There is Bole in the world, and then there are Maxima, and Maxima often has, but Bole does not always have”。It can be seen that one can recognize MaximaBoleHow rare it is.
When ordinary people distinguish the advantages and disadvantages of horses, they will only knowLook at the surface, like this horsePostureWhether it is strong or not,HairWhether smooth and smooth, horse'sCharacterWhether it is docile or not, etc.
But that's just for seeingThe surface of the horse, like"It's a mule or a horse, pull it out and slip it."In the same way, it is impossible to distinguish Maxima from the surface alone, only in personLong test drivesto be able to tell.
How could the ancients have so much time, in order to distinguish a horse, but alsoLong runs, this requires those who can recognize thousands of horses, and Bole knows horses with their ownA unique approach, that's to watch the horsesFour hooves
Bole can come fromHoof rim, hoof crown, hoof wall, hoof bottomThe shape and size, according to its years of accumulated experience, in order to distinguish whether it is a maxima or not, almostThere will be no big mistakes
But this kind of Bole that can identify Maxima isVery rare, which is much rarer than Maxima, so the ancients, especially the generals of those armies, hoped that Bole would help themIdentify good horses
And after continuous evolution, Maxima has also beenGenerally refers to talents, Bole is thatBosom friend。Talents need the appreciation and excavation of bosom friends, and if you can't meet bosom friends, it is easy to be buried.
So what is it to look at the four hooves to know the horse, and what is it to look at the people?HumanVery emotionally rich, but it is difficult to see people from the outsideThe true thoughts of the heart, what exactly can we identify talents?The ancients also gave a method, just like "the horse looks at the four hooves", people are neededLook at the four phasesTarget.
The first of these is a personPhysiognomy, as the saying goesNoodles are born from the heartThose who lack social practice and are relatively simple in heart will often put their inner thoughtsManifested on the face
You can also roughly see this person by looking at his faceGood and bad, some people look justKind eyebrows, kind-hearted, and some people look at itTraitors
Like thoseSharp-beaked monkey gillsof people, often not good people at first glance, most of them areFlamboyant tongue, love to play tricksof people, and thoseThe facial features are very upright, and the eyes are firmYes, a lot of themRighteous and awe-inspiring, often can build a career.
At the same time, physiognomy also has an impactHuman emotionsPeople will unconsciously like thoseThe facial features are upright and the appearance is clearShow people, will be from the bottom of their hearts to these peopleLet your guard down, after allEveryone has a love for beauty。In the face of thoseThe facial features are crooked, and the appearance is relatively uglyThere will also be a trace of it in my heartResistance, and will also be wary of this person.
You can also see this person by looking at his faceFamily conditions, the general those**Delicate and smooth, tender and fairpeople, the daily living conditions must be very good, either rich or expensive. And thoseRough and dull, orHollow eyesMost of the original family environment is not very good, and now life is not very satisfactory.
And some people can look through a person'sHeight and whether the heavenly court is full, and even the bones on the body, you can see this personLoyalty, which isAnti-boneThe origin of a person, by looking at the aspect of a person, you can see his heartUnfaithfulness and unrighteousness
In addition to physiognomy, acquaintances also need to be seenGas phase, the gas phase is also this person'sTemperament and spirit。Throughout the ages, those heroes who can achieve great things and leave their names in history are all the sameOutstanding temperament and full of spiritPeople are also willing to follow those who have spirit, these people are born with a traceLeadership temperament
To this day, it is still the case, in a team, as long as someone can take the lead, the whole teamBring up the spirit, then this team is constantly performance or confidence areA hundredfold increase, the work is also very smooth, so that the people around you have a generation of itA sense of dependenceand willing to believe him.
And those all dayDrooping face,There is no spirit at all, and the whole person looks likeMalaise, and will only pass on this emotion to others, so that the whole team hasFull of negative energy。Even this negative energy is easy to causeContradictions with others, even to their own familiesirreparable harm
You can roughly tell a person by looking at his or her appearanceIdentity and character, energetic, red-faced, and confident faces, mostlyEither rich or expensive, the daily work life is also very smooth, and thoseMalaise, listless in doing anything, it must be in the near futureEncounter setbacksThe heart is more fragileof people.
In addition to physiognomy and gas phase, identifying a person can also passEtiquetteCome and see. The rite refers to this personMannerisms, and social etiquette when interacting with people. China isThe State of Etiquette, the core of Confucianism is also"Benevolence, righteousness, propriety, wisdom and faith".The people of our country attach great importance to etiquette.
In antiquity, oneA well-informed literati, the behavior will be veryElegant and unhurried, can also leave a good impression on people, and the heart will recognize this kind of person. SomeCountry WildmanIt may be possible to trick others into their identity by changing their outfits, but it can be discerned from the details of their interactionsTrue identity
And those who are realLiterary everybodyEven though he was dressed in old clothes and lived in a thatched hut, others could easily distinguish him from his behaviorCultural Cultivation, just like Liu Yuxi,"Si is a burrow, but I am dexin"., the people who come and go are also "Hongru", and there is no "white ding".
Even now, we can also see a person's behavior from his behaviorUpbringing and conduct, those who sit upright, behave well, are educated at first sight, and people are willing to touch him, and thoseSitting without sitting, standing without standing, especially to sit downLove to shake your legs, people will have a direct impression of itHeavily discounted
In addition to the physiognomy, gas and etiquette, the last person to know is thatTone, that is, a person'sSpeech and timbreFinish. Throughout the ages, those who can build a meritorious careerLeader,The tones are very good, so to speak, all of them are oneAn eloquent orator, the language is contagious, and can convince the brothers under himPledge allegiance to him
Even if a person looks average, he only needs languageJust and strong, full of energy, infectious, that will also bring to peoplePositive energy and confidenceto convince others of him. And those though on the surfaceHarmless to humans and animals, but as soon as you open your mouth, it's all thereThe words of the villain, full of filth, it will immediately make others have a great impression of it, even because of a sentenceTired of this person
It can also be roughly distinguished from the sound phaseThe age of the person and the self-confidence of the heart, a person's outstanding voice is also a great advantage, and even compared to a handsome face, a good voice and decent conversation, moreDeep hearts。Just like today's entrepreneurs, most of them are eloquent orators.
When a person speaks as soon as he speaksRighteousness is awe-inspiringIt is difficult for others not to put a halo on them, and such people have greater appeal and are relatively easy to succeed. From a person's conversation, you can roughly see whether this person has or notThe ability to create a meritorious career, is there that kind of indomitableCourage and courage
"Horses look at the four hooves, people look at the four phases".From the four hooves of the horse, you can tell whether this horse is a thousand-mile horse or an ordinary horse, and you can also see this person from the four aspects of the personWhether it is a talent or notHow of conduct
These four phases are:Face, air, etiquette, soundWhen a person has all four of these things, it must be a rare talent, possessedThe ability to make a difference