There is an ancient Chinese saying that first bitter and then sweet, and only when you eat bitter can you become a superior person.
Teacher Congee said during the live broadcast a few days ago,The smooth development of the early stage is an obstacle in the future, and the failure of the development can tap the greater possibilities.
I instantly thought that there were many people in poor mountainous areas, and when I was a child, my family was poor, let alone wearing good clothes, it might be difficult to even eat.
There is no other way out for these people, and in the eyes of everyone, only by studying hard and getting out of the mountains can there be hope.
So they used all their time to study hard, just to get out of the mountains and achieve the hope of the whole family.
A large proportion of these people stayed in the cities where they went to university, such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, etc.
There are also a considerable number of people who not only stay, but also buy houses and settle down, becoming local new city dwellers.
At that time, Beipiao became the backbone
There are many such "North Drifters" in Beijing, not so much as North Drift, but in fact, Beijing's builders, who use their own academic qualifications, their own knowledge, and their own experience to plan Beijing's blueprint.
And these Beipiao who really stayed in Beijing are called "new Beijingers".
In Beijing, there are many leaders of administrative regions, heads of government agencies, founders of enterprises and institutions, and so on.
They have led the real Beijing People's Congress to move forward in strides and made outstanding contributions to harmonious development.
In Beijing, it is often said that those new Beijingers can afford to buy a first-class house, live in a location in the Third Ring Road, go in and out of high-end places, and vacation with the whole family in a suburban villa on the weekend.
It's a joke, but it's true!
Through their own efforts, these new Beijingers have crossed the changes of class, lived an enviable life, and kept their own one-third of an acre.
Authentic Beijingers are a little lonely
These new Beijingers are in stark contrast to the authentic Beijingers, although many people say that Beijingers have a house, and many times they don't have to worry about it.
Yes, Beijingers do have houses, but a considerable number of them are three generations of families crammed into a square meter house, not to mention the many inconveniences on weekdays, let alone enjoyment.
It is also said that Beijingers live in the Second Ring Road.
Indeed, a considerable number of people who have not been demolished live in the second ring road, but some are only one bungalow of more than 10 square meters, and some are only square meters of buildings.
In recent years, the demolition policy, if not relocated, has basically moved to a location outside the 5th Ring Road.
There are many Beijingers who only have one house at home, and that is still bought by their parents by relying on years of service.
At that time, the salary was indeed very low, and it was already stretched thin to buy this house, and there was no investment foresight, and the conservative life did not dare to take out a loan to the children of the next generation to find another property.
Although it was the best time to buy a house, it was also forced by the conditions and cognition at that time.
It is also in line with the saying: we will never make money beyond our knowledge!
There is a house next door to our house, when my son got married, because there was no separate house, he couldn't settle down, and now his son is 40+, and he still hasn't got married seriously, and the house has become the deepest pain in my heart.
There is an advantage called a "disadvantage".
Although these new Beijingers are from poor families, they have worked hard to study hard when they were young, got excellent grades, were admitted to universities, walked out of the mountains, and achieved their own careers.
It not only solved personal problems, but also brought the whole family to Beijing to settle down, realizing the change of family situation.
When Beijingers were young, they didn't have so much suffering, and their families were basically self-sufficient, so they had less spirit of struggle.
Zeng Guofan, a famous minister of the Qing Dynasty, once said: The word "defeat" is either arrogant or lazy.
The mediocre people of ancient and modern times in the world are all defeated by a lazy word, and the talented people of ancient and modern times in the world are defeated by a proud word. ”
Although some Beijingers have well-to-do families and their children are sent out to study abroad early, a considerable number of Beijingers' children stay in Beijing and live a seemingly worry-free petty bourgeois life.
This seems to be smooth with a little satisfaction, but it will inevitably make people lose their fighting spirit, and it is easy to be mediocre in laziness.
If young people don't fight, when will they wait?
Seize the advantages and create your own opportunities
Social changes, environmental changes, and the times create each new generation.
Whether it is a Beijinger or a new Beijinger, as long as you live your own life and contribute to the society, you can complete your mission.
Just don't wait until the accident happens, and then regret that you didn't grasp it well, didn't work hard, and didn't work hard.
Because when the times say goodbye to us, they may not even say hello.
No matter what kind of environment you are in, work hard and never give up the opportunity for self-growth.
Don't be a person who goes along with the odds and regrets it over and over again.
Write at the end:
Maybe we have our own strengths, maybe we have our own disadvantages, it doesn't matter.
What matters is how we play to our strengths and turn them into ladders for our growth, which is the most important thing.
More importantly, we know our own disadvantages, how to make up for our weaknesses and convert our disadvantages into advantages, which is the root of the counterattack.
The famous quote in "How Steel is Made" is not unfamiliar:
The most precious thing for a person is life, and life belongs to a person only once, and a person's life should be spent in this way: when he looks back on the past, he will not regret that he has done nothing and wasted his time, nor will he feel guilty because he is despicable and has a vulgar life.
We don't necessarily want to leave a mark on history, at least we can have no regrets and be worthy of this life.
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