When we are in a low position in life, you look at all kinds of problems in life will be magnified, because your standing posture is very low, you see these things are great things, and even someone driving a car to plug you will feel very angry, because your standing posture is too low, you only have achieved a jump in position in life, you stand tall, you can see the things around you and feel not so angry, not so painful. ”
If you stand tall, many things will not be a problem, but if you stand too low, then you will put yourself in the middle of these things, which will magnify the problem infinitely, and you will feel very painful.
So how can a person make himself stand taller, naturally inseparable from two words - pattern, people with a big pattern, stand tall and look far.
So how do we improve our pattern?
1.People with patterns have foresight and don't care about temporary gains and losses
People with patterns are more far-sighted. Just like playing chess, ordinary people only want to get the next three moves, while people with a large pattern are often at the moment of falling, and the next hundred moves have appeared in their minds.
In life, there are many glass-hearted people, and when they encounter a little setback, they can't bear it, they are easily knocked down by difficulties, and they can only hide in a quiet corner and lick their wounds silently with grief and indignation.
In fact, this is the reason why the pattern is not big enough. I always confine myself to a small space, and no matter what I encounter, I will explain it with the opinions of others, and in the long run, my thinking will become more and more narrow.
2.Perfecting others is evenly matched
Many times, we often think that if we fulfill others, we will hurt ourselves.
In fact, the biggest harm is not that others have overpowered you or surpassed you, but that you belittle yourself, look down on yourself, and always feel that you have suffered a loss.
The best fulfillment is that you are not bad, evenly matched, equal to each other, while making way for others, you also have a strength that cannot be underestimated, an unyielding power, and can change many things.
The real big picture is not to go your own way and let others have no way out. But when you complete the road to success for others, you also walk out of your own way.
3.Don't stick to immediate interests, be a long-termist
I believe that many people have such friends around them: they can always only see the immediate gains and losses, and they are complacent for the sake of temporary interests, but they do not know how to think about the long-term;Such a person, even if he succeeds for a short time, can only retain his reputation for a while, and cannot enjoy the glory of a lifetime.
The difference between an excellent person and an ordinary person lies in whether he has a long-term thinking. Whether you know how to consider the problem from a long-term perspective and solve the problem from a higher perspective is the key to the success of a person's pattern.
There is such a saying on the Internet: "People who spend a second to see through the essence of things, and those who spend a lifetime unable to see the essence of things, are destined to have completely different fates." ”
Excellent people are never in a hurry to succeed in a moment. They know how to delay gratification and give themselves enough time to make the best choice.
A person who really has a pattern knows what he wants in his heart and what path he should take, and he will work hard to correct his mistakes and improve his self-cultivation.
If a person does not have a pattern, he will only see the immediate gains and losses, but not the long-term benefits.
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