Problems caused by parents being overly sensitive to teaching.
Education is a major undertaking related to the growth and future of children. But sometimes, some parents are overly sensitive to their children's issues, and even small things can make them feel very upset. They often carry a microscope with them, carefully pick fault with the teacher, and report the slightest mistake to them. Such an overly sensitive act is of course out of concern for the children, but it is also very easy to create an overly protective and fragile atmosphere, which has a negative impact on the healthy development of the children. On the other hand, parents are often the center of student grievances, resulting in teachers not being treated fairly. In order to protect their own rights and interests, some educators also use the Internet as a way to combat the irrational behavior of parents.
However, this also led to the destruction of the character of Xiong's parents by netizens. The new stalk of "My Family Zihan" quickly became popular, and the character design of Xiong's parents was also complained by netizens, but there is nothing discordant about such complaints. The reason why this is the case is because a child named Zihan was bitten by a mosquito when he was in elementary school. After returning home, the parents asked why they didn't take good care of their son, which made them very wronged, because their son was bitten, and they couldn't blame him. However, such an "unreasonable" move was not forgiven by the teacher, but netizens also saw the true face of the "bear parents".
Netizens used the stalk of "My Family Zihan" to scold Xiong's parents.
For such bear parents, teachers can do nothing but bear in silence. However, it can be regarded as a bad breath for netizens. Without the restriction of real identity, they can curse unscrupulously online. Some netizens even used "My Family Zihan" as a fresh joke, specifically to ridicule those unsatisfactory points. What you can't vote for, what you are preparing for graduate school, what you can't find a job, you can see it under "My Family Zihan". teasing the bear's parents like this made netizens laugh back and forth, and the role of "My Family Zihan" was slowly ruined.
The dilemma of the first teacher.
As a front-line teacher, they are in the most awkward position. They are afraid that netizens will be too obsessed with the image of the bear's parents and will not be able to distinguish the difference between the real and the online. Xiong's parents questioned the head teacher in the tone of "my family Zihan", making it impossible to tell whether this was sincere or purely a joke on the Internet. In this way, once something goes wrong, children will shift the blame to teachers, even if they have poor academic Xi grades, failed to get into the ideal university, failed to find a job, etc., it will become a reason for parents to question teachers. In the long run, there will be fewer and fewer people who want to become teachers.
Teachers and parents need to work together.
Education is a tripartite process that requires the cooperation of teachers, students, and parents. If one of the parties is uncooperative, or behaves in the opposite direction, it will have adverse consequences for teaching. Therefore, I also hope that through the banter on the Internet, emotional parents can recognize the facts and come back to their senses. Don't let feelings dictate your actions and behaviors, that's irrational. In the face of such a dilemma, how should teachers respond?
First, teachers have a face-to-face conversation with their parents, either through a mobile phone or on the phone. With his patience and detailed explanation, several children finally calmed down.
Secondly, when teachers communicate with parents, they must first calm down their parents before they can give countermeasures, so as not to blame the other party for their own faults as soon as they come up.
Thirdly, if there are other problems, such as conflicts between classmates or seeking medical attention, teachers should deal with them immediately to prevent the situation from getting worse. In addition, teachers should also communicate with the school in advance, so that if there is a student complaint, the teacher can deal with it well.
All in all, in teaching, teachers, students, and parents should cooperate with each other, and any excessive "excessive" or "excessively unreasonable" will have an adverse impact on teaching. It is hoped that through the teasing on the Internet, parents will recognize the facts and return to their senses. As a front-line teacher, it is necessary to correctly resolve misunderstandings in order to prevent conflicts from escalating and damaging the reputation of the school.