Qian Qian is 53 years old, her husband is 51 years old, they have not yet retired, and their daughter-in-law gave birth to a grandson a few days ago, and they are very happy.
The son is 28 years old, working as a game developer in a game company, with a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan, and when he heard that it was good, it was almost 30,000, Qian Qian felt very proud.
She and her husband both work in state-owned enterprises, her husband is an equipment supervisor, she works in finance, she thinks it is also good, but I have to say that their salary is really not as good as her son.
Her husband has 12,000 a month, and she only has more than 6,000, but both of them have provident funds, more than 10 years ago, after her husband's salary rose, he bought a house for his son early, and when his son got married, it was not so hard.
has a grandson, Qian Qian feels that her son has really grown up and has his own life, and she should really let go.
The daughter-in-law is confined, she has no time to take care of it, so she can only set a confinement center for her daughter-in-law, the cost is 20,000, and she also has a little pain, after all, she only earns more than 6,000 herself, but thinking that as long as her daughter-in-law takes care of her body, she can rest assured.
After leaving the confinement center, the daughter-in-law went home and took care of the child by herself, and after the maternity leave, the daughter-in-law was going to work, and the family discussed the child's affairs.
Qian Qian can't retire now, he can't reach his age, he can't retire, if he finds a way to retire from illness, his retirement salary will be very low and he won't be able to get it.
Qian Qian: Then hire a nanny, anyway, there is monitoring at home, and you can also watch the child's situation at any time.
Daughter-in-law: I don't worry about nannies taking care of children, the current nannies are too bad, and it is rare to meet good ones, you look at those nannies who abuse children, I can't sleep even if I think about it.
Son: What do you say?My mother will be able to retire in 3 years, and it is impossible to let her quit now, or you can leave your job and take care of the child, and wait until the child is 3 years old to find a job.
When my daughter-in-law heard this, she got angry and said: I know that you look down on my job and think that I am not worthy of you, but my current job is very stable and leisurely, and I may not be able to find such a company in 3 years.
Son: What do you say?You are an ordinary clerk, and you have been working in the company for less than 2 years now, and if you don't hire a nanny, only you are the most suitable.
Daughter-in-law: My mom is at home now, and I want her to come, so that we can all rest assured.
Qian Qian: That's very good, she is the child's grandmother, and she will definitely be able to take good care of the child.
The daughter-in-law hesitated for a while, and finally said: What my mother means, she can't work in vain, she goes out to work and earns more than me, Dad, Mom, what do you think?
Her husband said directly: Well, that's also how much it should be, how much do you think it's appropriate?
Daughter-in-law: Mom and Dad, you can give her 5,000 directly.
Qian Qian and her husband haven't spoken yet, but they are inevitably a little awkward in their hearts, after all, the child is also a daughter-in-law, they are grandparents, and the mother-in-law is also the child's grandmother?It's not a babysitter.
The son frowned and said, "Isn't that the same as hiring a nanny?".
Daughter-in-law: What do you know, how can it be the same as hiring a nanny, we don't have to worry about it, okay?
Her husband said directly: That's okay, so be it.
When Qian Qian and her husband returned home, she said: Why did you agree so quickly?She is the child's own grandmother, and she also needs the child's grandparents to give money, don't you think it's awkward?
Husband: Forget it, anyway, we are also the child's grandparents, for his good, give some money, just buy peace of mind.
So, Qian Qian gave her daughter-in-law 5,000 at the beginning of each month and asked her to transfer it to her mother.
She and her husband also often go to see their grandson, seeing her look the same every day, chubby, very cute, she also thinks that it is worth spending more money for this little cutie.
On the weekend, Qian Qian bought a lot of seafood and fruits, and went to her son's house with her husband to see her grandson.
The grandson stumbled towards them, staggering, like a duckling, Qian Qian stretched out his hand to prevent the child from falling, and the child giggled.
The daughter-in-law washed the fruit and brought it out and said, "Mom, the next time you come, buy some cherries, my mother loves to eat that."
Qian Qian didn't speak, she played with the child, with this little cutie, she felt that there was nothing to be angry about.
The daughter-in-law said her, she does her own, but she inevitably complains in her heart, your mother loves to eat cherries, what does it have to do with me, let your mother buy it herself, she has to buy it for more than 100 pounds after seeing the big one, and she is reluctant to eat it herself.
The son has something urgent to work overtime again, Qian Qian and his wife are at home with the children, and the daughter-in-law said that her mother is working too hard and goes out shopping with her mother.
Qian Qian also likes children very much, not to mention that this is her own grandson, she and her grandson are babbling and chatting there, anyway, they are talking about each other, and it is also very lively, and her husband laughs at her, just to entertain herself.
When it was time for her grandson to eat, she made supplementary food for the child according to her daughter-in-law's instructions, and gave him milk, and within a few minutes he fell asleep and snored.
In fact, it is very tiring to take care of children, but I have to say that it is also very satisfying, the child's heartfelt dependence, without a little impurity, is particularly moving.
The daughter-in-law came back from shopping with her mother and bought his mother clothes, a mobile phone, and a gold bracelet.
They were opening it when their son came back from overtime.
Looking at so many things, thinking that it was hard for my mother-in-law to take care of the children, I didn't say anything, but I felt that it was too much.
Daughter-in-law: Lu Zheng, come and drive, this gold bracelet I bought for my mother is very beautiful.
After Lu Zheng heard it, he walked over, it was indeed very beautiful, but he said: Then why didn't you buy one for my mother.
The daughter-in-law didn't expect him to say this, and after being stunned for a while, she said: Your bonus this time is only 30,000, it's not enough to buy two, don't I see that my mother is too tired with the child?Don't you also look at my family's treasure Duopi, it's very tiring to accompany him every day.
Lu Zheng glanced at her unhappily, he didn't object to her buying things for her mother, but he had worked for so many years and hadn't bought a decent gift for his mother.
He said: "It means that you have spent all my winnings?".Didn't I say I was going to change the computer?
Hearing him say this, his mother-in-law was unhappy and said: Look at your stinginess, my daughter's original boyfriend, when they talked about someone, he also bought me a gold bracelet, if it wasn't for my daughter's mind, do you think I'm rare?
The daughter-in-law hurriedly pulled her mother and said, "Mom, what are you talking nonsense, don't you want to eat fruit?"Let's go eat it.
Lu Zheng glanced at them, didn't speak again, and went to find his parents.
His parents were sitting at the coffee table by the window drinking tea, in fact, they both heard what they said, but as soon as they opened their mouths, they were even more contradictory, and they pretended not to hear anything.
Seeing him coming, his father said: Lu Zheng, now you are not small, it is right for a man to give his wife the money he earns, but it depends on whether his wife can control the money, otherwise when it comes to using the money, she said that she has no cent, what should you do?
Lu Zheng nodded, he was also thinking about this question just now, he didn't know the family's expenses, he was too derelict in his duties.
Lu Zheng: Dad, I know, I'll get another card in a while, and deposit 6,000 as a fixed amount for Xiaoyi, and I will save the rest myself, and when the savings are about the same, I will buy a house for the baby, open an account for him, and deposit the rent into it, so that I can save money for the child.
His father nodded and said, "It's good that you know it yourself." Originally, I shouldn't have been in the majority, after all, I want you to live a small life, so I just give some advice.
Lu Zheng: I know, Dad.
The child hasn't woken up yet, and they plan to eat hot pot as a family, but Lu Zheng likes to eat seafood, so his mother plans to make him crabs and eat them with hot pot.
Qian Qian was washing crabs, and her mother came over, saw that she had bought a lot, and said to her daughter: Xiaoyi, you take a bag and put a few big crabs, this crab looks big and fat, and send it to your brother in a while, your nephew likes to eat this the most.
Xiaoyi: Okay, I see, Mom.
Qian Qian was unhappy and said: Xiaoyi, this is what I bought for all of us to eat, there are only two of each person, your nephew likes to eat, buy it later.
Her mother was unhappy and said, "In-laws, I didn't bring my own grandson, so it's not appropriate for you to bring your grandson here."
Qian Qian: Isn't my grandson your grandson?It's not an outsider, right?
Xiaoyi saw that the two were unhappy, so she didn't say anything, pulled her mother out, and said: Mom, the baby is about to wake up, you go and watch the baby.
Qian Qian steamed the crab and brought it to the table, while her daughter-in-law and her mother never came out of the room, let alone prepared the hot pot again.
Lu Zheng and his father came over, saw this, and said, "Mom, heat the crab first, and I'll make a hot pot."
His father said, "Let's go, let's show them a hand."
Qian Qian looked at their father and son busy, smiled, and went over there to read e-books, their family did not have the Xi of men not cooking, when Lu Zheng was more than 10 years old, he went to the kitchen with his father to learn to cook.
And the hot pot made by the two of them is honestly better than what she made, and she can't figure out what's going on with the same ingredients.
The hot pot was ready, the crabs were brought out again, and Lu Zheng went to call Xiaoyi and her mother out to eat.
Xiaoyi came out, but her mother didn't come, saying that she was too tired and fell asleep.
A few people gathered around the table, eating hot pot and crabs, and Lu Zheng and his father drank some wine, which was really beautiful.
Xiaoyi has always been unhappy, she didn't expect her mother not to come, Lu Zheng's family didn't say anything, her mother-in-law didn't call her mother, but their family ate happily and chatted very lively.
She felt that they were too much, this was her home, her own mother didn't come out to eat, no one cared, and her mother still worked hard every day to take care of the children, why was she so conscienceless.
Although her mother-in-law gives 5,000 on time every month, is 5,000 enough for her mother's hard work?Why doesn't the mother-in-law come to see the child herself?
She pulled her face and didn't talk to them, and they didn't pay any attention to her. After eating, putting away the dishes and so on to the kitchen, Qian Qian and her husband planned to go back.
Xiaoyi: Mom, you clean up these and then leave, the child will wake up in a while, and I will be empty.
Qian Qian: I went out with your dad and had something to do, and your dad said he wanted to buy me a bracelet, so we left first.
Lu Zheng: Mom and Dad, I'll send you back.
After saying that, he went out with his parents, leaving Xiaoyi alone at home to get angry.
After they all left, her mother came out of the room and said angrily: Xiaoyi, why is Lu Zheng's family like this, do they treat you as a family?You just gave birth to a big fat son for them, but, look at what they did to you.
Xiaoyi: Mom, don't talk about it, I'm annoyed.
Her mother said angrily: You can take care of the money in the future, otherwise you will be the one who will suffer at that time.
I know, Mom, what are you going to eat?Do you still eat hot pot?I'll get you the food.
Her mother said directly: I don't want to eat that, you can order me a spicy dry pot, I want spicy shrimp with pig's trotters.
After Lu Zheng and his parents went out, he also bought a gold bracelet for his mother, using the money in his WeChat, or the original loan to his buddy, and recently repaid, otherwise he would have no money, it's a little embarrassing to think about.
When he came back, he got a card, and he used it for household purposes in the future, and he put the money into it when he paid his salary every month.
After returning home, Xiaoyi and her mother sat at the dining table, eating spicy shrimp with pig's trotters, and after her son woke up, he sat on the side where he often played, playing with toys alone.
Lu Zheng went to play with his son, the father and son had a good time, and the two of them laughed and shouted happily.
And the mother-in-law shouted to him unhappily: Lu Zheng, the kitchen hasn't been cleaned up yet, you hurry up and clean up, the baby hasn't eaten supplementary food yet.
Lu Zheng didn't hear it, he and his parents did it when he did it, so long, can't Xiaoyi clean it up?When did she become Miss Daughter?
He stood up directly and said: Son, you play first, your father and I still have work, so let's go and get busy first.
After returning to the room, he started to play the game, in fact, he was right, this game was developed by them, he didn't try it, how do you know which experiences need to be improved in order to be more popular.
Before going to bed at night, Lu Zheng gave Xiaoyi the completed card and asked her to give him the salary card.
Xiaoyi was stunned and said: Lu Zheng, what do you mean?You're going to get your pay card back?
Lu Zheng: Xiaoyi, I give 6,000 a month for the family, and I save the rest, I want to save money for Xiaobao to buy a house.
Xiaoyi: Then I can save it, don't you believe me?
Lu Zheng: Okay, I believe you, then you tell me how much money we have now?
Xiaoyi obviously panicked and said: What money do we have, you don't know how expensive it is to have a child and raise a child?
Lu Zheng: Really?Then you do the math for me, my salary and bonuses are counted, the family doesn't have any big expenses, and the car I drive is also my father's.
Lu Zheng: You know best where the money is spent, you should give me my card first, otherwise you will be even more embarrassed.
Xiaoyi really didn't dare to settle the account, she could only give him the card aggrievedly, and then cried herself.
Isn't it that her mother said that the family needed money, and she borrowed more than 100,000 yuan first, but didn't dare to tell him?She thought that it would be nice to wait for the family to give her money, and her mother was still so tired of showing them the children, why didn't Lu Zheng know how to be grateful at all.
Qian Qian and her husband still go to work as usual, giving Xiaoyi money every month and asking her to give it to her mother, and Lu Zheng also gives her 6,000 a month, she doesn't dare to let her mother know about this.
Qian Qian was sick, I didn't know what was going on, she had a high fever all the time, and she often broke out in cold sweats, so she had no choice but to go to the hospital.
Her husband asked for leave to take care of her, and Lu Zheng knew that his mother was hospitalized, and after calling Xiaoyi, he hurried over after work.
The doctor said: Maybe the weather has changed too much recently, which has led to the usual diseases, and now I can't be in a hurry, so I can only recover slowly.
Doctor: Don't be careless, on the contrary, this kind of recurrent disease is the most troublesome, and it needs to be taken care of.
His father and Lu Zheng both nodded, and Lu Zheng said: Dad, you rest at night, keep watch during the day, and I'll come at night.
His father nodded and said, "That's fine, but can you go to work the next day?"
Lu Zheng: No problem, Dad.
When the two of them returned to the ward, they were worried that Qian Qian had a fever again, and the doctor said that it would not work to keep taking antipyretics, and if the temperature was not very high, let their family members physically cool down.
Lu Zheng went to buy dinner first, his father took care of it first, and then asked his father to go back to rest first, after all, his father was also in his 50s.
Lu Zheng didn't go home at night, and when it was almost 11 o'clock, Xiaoyi called him**: Lu Zheng, why haven't you come back yet?Do you have to work overtime at night?
Lu Zheng was a little unhappy, he called Xiaoyi **, but she didn't come after work, and what was even more excessive was that she forgot about it.
His voice was a little cold, and he said: I'm not coming back, I'm in the hospital to accompany me, and I'll change my clothes tomorrow morning and go to work.
Xiaoyi: Lu Zheng, in that case, you can't bear it, so let's hire a nurse.
Lu Zheng: No need, my dad during the day, I at night, we all discussed. I hung up first.
Qian Qian's illness came and went, and she was discharged from the hospital for almost 20 days, during which her husband and son took good care of her, and she was very happy.
Xiaoyi only came once, but there were still children at home, and she couldn't leave even if she thought about it.
After returning home, Qian Qian took a good shower and felt refreshed.
After her body was completely healed, she and her husband went to see their grandson, who had not seen the child for more than 1 month, but she thought badly.
They bought some steak, yellow croaker and fruit and went to their son's house.
After entering the door, the mother-in-law was making supplementary food for the children, and when she saw that they ignored them, Qian Qian was very strange, and she didn't usually see him like this, as if they had offended her.
The child was very happy to see them, and ran over with his grandparents in his mouth, Xiaobao brought Qian Qian to him, touched her little hand and said: Grandma, Dad said you were sick, are you okay now?Is it very painful, the baby blows on you, and it doesn't hurt.
After speaking, she was still on her hand with a needle, and she blew a few times, which moved Qian Qian so much that she was reluctant to let go while holding the child.
Lu Zheng looked at his son's sample, and couldn't help laughing, the little guy and his grandparents are also very close, he pulled the two of them to the place where he played, and let them play with him.
Lu Zheng walked over and asked Xiaoyi: What's wrong with your mother?Why are you angry with my parents?Because my mom was sick, they hadn't been here for more than a month.
Xiaoyi glanced at him and said: Why else, your mother has been better for so many days now, and she has not given my mother's 5,000, my mother must be uncomfortable.
Lu Zheng: You think so too?Feeling uncomfortable?
Xiaoyi: Do you still need to ask?Don't you see how tired my mom is with her children?If you don't give money, you don't have anything to do, who can be happy?
Lu Zheng: Then whose child is your mother looking at?
Xiaoyi: Ours, you're confused.
Lu Zheng: It's not that I'm confused, the child is also yours, so why does your mother still give money when she sees your child?My mom has been sick for so long, you don't care about how your body is recovering, and you blame her for not giving money in time?
Lu Zheng: Xiaoyi, the child is our own, my mother has never owed you, I will tell my mother, the money does not need to be given in the future, if you want to give, then give her your own salary, all the time, your salary is spent by yourself, then for the son to your mother, just right.
Xiaoyi looked at Lu Zheng in shock, she didn't expect him to say this, but she had nothing to refute.
Lu Zheng went to his parents, his son gave him a face of saliva, and then laughed, he deliberately wanted to beat him, and he had already twisted his little ass and ran to his grandmother's side.
Lu Zheng said to his mother: Mom, don't give 5,000 per month in the future, I will let Xiaoyi give it herself, anyway, her salary should be spent on her son.
Qian Qian: Are you telling the truth?Don't quarrel about this money, although the child is small, he can feel it.
Lu Zheng: Well, I know, don't worry.
Lu Zheng: Mom, what do you want to eat, I'll go grocery shopping.
His father stood up and said, "Let's go, let's go together, and let your mother play with the child alone."
The father and son bought a lot of vegetables, made a black chicken soup for her mother, and made steamed sea bass, all of which were light dishes, and Xiaoyi and her mother were not happy because of their heavy tastes.
After eating, Lu Zheng took his son to send them home, and his son was in his safety seat, giggling excitedly.
After they left, Xiaoyi said to her mother: Mom, Lu Zheng said that 5,000, his parents won't give it anymore.
Before she finished speaking, her mother blew up and said angrily: Why don't you give it, why?Do they think that 5,000 is worth a lot of money, and they think it's easy to watch a child?
Xiaoyi: Mom, the child is also your grandson, when you showed my brother the child, did my brother give you money?
Her mother looked at her like a neuropathy and said, "That's my grandson, how can I ask for money?".
Xiaoyi: Then you are looking at you now as your grandson, and I am your daughter.
Her mother: I don't care, you can discuss it yourself, if you don't give money, I'll go home, you can hire a nanny.
Xiaoyi: Mom, how can you do this?Am I not your daughter?Why do you need money to show me?Besides, you haven't given me the more than 100,000 yuan you borrowed from me.
Her mother glared at her fiercely and said, "You are a white-eyed wolf, don't I keep that money for you?"What are you anxious about?You have to give me the money anyway, or I'll go home.
After her mother finished speaking, she went directly to the bedroom, and Xiaoyi sat there crying.
Waiting for Lu Zheng and his son to come back, Xiaoyi said carefully: Lu Zheng, did your parents really not give it to you?My mom said she wouldn't give money, and she went home.
Lu Zheng: My parents didn't give it, I said you can give it. If you don't want to give, then hire a babysitter.
After saying that, he took the child to take a bath, anyway, he won't give the money, look at Xiaoyi herself. Besides, his mother is about to retire, and he heard his father say that this fucking illness, it is possible that his mother can take a long vacation, and it is a big deal that he will send the child over.
A few days later, Xiaoyi was at work, and her mother said that the child was asleep, and she went home and asked her to do it by herself.
She didn't expect her mother to be so ruthless, the child was less than 2 years old, and her mother threw the child at home and left by herself, which was too much.
However, she has no other way, she doesn't want to leave her job, and she doesn't want to find a nanny.
She called Lu Zheng **, and Lu Zheng said coldly: Then you mean to let me resign and go home to take care of the children?
After saying that, she hung up**, and Xiao Yi cried angrily again.
Lu Zheng called his mother, knowing that she was still at home on leave, so he said that he would send the child over, and his mother was very happy to hear it.
Lu Zheng went home to pick up his son, the little guy had just woken up when he went, and he would definitely cry when he was a little late.
On the way, Lu Zheng said to his son: Baby, Dad will send you to grandma now, but you also know that grandma is not in good health, you can't be naughty, you have to take good care of grandma for Dad, okay?
The son nodded solemnly and said, "Dad, I know, I don't run around, I supervise my grandmother to take medicine and drink more water."
Lu Zheng touched his son's head and said, "The baby is awesome."
The son was still a little embarrassed and secretly laughed to himself.
Qian Qian was very happy to see her grandson coming, she could be with her grandson, otherwise she would be bored at home alone, now the grandparents and grandchildren are eating and drinking, and the days are also very beautiful.
After Xiaoyi went home, her son and Lu Zheng were not there, and she didn't know that she was at her mother-in-law's house, so she let her eat by herself without waiting for him.
Later, Lu Zheng often went to his parents' house after work to play with his son for a while, he found that although the child was small, but after telling him that his grandmother was not in good health, he was worried, and after being praised, he was also very happy, with his small chest upright, more like a duckling.
Lu Zheng thought that children also need to be recognized, and everyone must have their own sense of honor in order to make life full of happiness.
We always envy the happiness of others, but we often ignore the beauty in our own lives.
In fact, happiness is very ordinary and simple, it is hidden in the seemingly trivial life.
Happy people do not get the best things in the world, but cherish the bits and pieces of life, look at life with a grateful attitude, and overcome hardships with an optimistic attitude.
In fact, many times, the only thing we can do is to do our best to do our own things, go our own way, and live well according to our own principles.