I grew up in a rural area from a poor family. As the only boy in the family, my parents paid great attention to my upbringing. They were well aware of the hardships of those difficult years and longed for me to be freed from the shackles of poverty. They didn't want me to worry about food and clothing every day, and no longer go through the arduous process of farming the land they had worked so hard to provide for me to go to college.
Because my parents have always been strict with my education, and at the same time, I have been immersed in hard study since I was a child. In the school in our village, I have always maintained a leading position, successfully entered a key high school in the city, and was exempted from tuition with excellent results, and has always been a proud son of my parents. In the end, I was admitted to a 985 key university, which gave my parents great relief.
I majored in foreign trade economics, and in the past few years since I graduated, the foreign trade industry has flourished, providing me with good opportunities. I entered a large-scale Sino-foreign joint venture, and after three years of hard work, I was successfully promoted to a supervisor with an annual salary of 300,000 yuan. This year, I met my girlfriend, an only child from the city who was very much loved by her parents. To be clear, I don't have the idea of getting rich, and our interactions are purely based on mutual liking and the same outlook. After two years of getting along, we entered the palace of marriage. However, as time went on, I discovered that my wife had some opinions and psychological knots about my parents, and she was especially disdainful of my hometown and was reluctant to go. We have been married for three years, and she has been to my hometown very few times. I can understand her feelings, after all, the poverty situation in our family is indeed unacceptable, and it may be difficult for a girl in the city to adapt to this environment.
I put all my salary on my wife's bank card, who comes from a privileged family and barely needs my financial support. Every month, in addition to her daily expenses, my wife likes to go to the mall for shopping, which I don't mind, because I am also happy to see her beautiful appearance. However, one thing that bothers me is that whenever I mention that I need to send some money home, my wife is always very angry......
During this year's Spring Festival, I went back to my hometown, only to find that the situation at home was quite bad, the house was dilapidated, and it was leaking on rainy days, causing the whole house to become moldy. Looking at all this, I just can't stand it. My parents raised me so big, and I felt that it was not easy for me to pay hardships. So, the first thing I did when I got back to the city was to send 50,000 yuan to my parents, hoping that they would be able to use the money to build a new house.
At that time, I knew that my wife might object, and considering the prelude to the prelude, at most it would be over after an angry argument. However, when I explained it to my wife, she was unusually calm and only sneered a few times. I thought she had nothing to say to me, ignored me, and it was over. But two days later, my wife called me ** and said, "Since you think about your parents first in everything and don't discuss it with me, we can't live this day, let's divorce .......""I was about to express some opinions, and my wife hung up directly. I don't think it's easy for my parents to raise me so big, and if I obey my wife's will, I will be damned......Just leave, even if it's for my parents, I won't regret it!100 help plan