The student years are unforgettable times for everyone, and the campus life is unrestrained and full of expectations and good memories. As a result, many people, even after years of graduation, still miss their school days and have the desire to organize class reunions. However, the reality of class reunions is somewhat far from the original intention. Some students use class reunions as a place to trust relationships, find someone to invite, and even borrow money, adding some "strange phenomena" to normal class reunions. This article will start from the perspective of students participating in class reunions, **4 types of uninvited students and 3 types of students who are not invited, and at the same time call on students not to forget their original intentions and be themselves.
1. Students who are demanding
Such students are often in urgent need of help from their old classmates when they are facing difficulties. Therefore, even if they are not invited, they will not hesitate to attend once they hear the news of a class reunion. They want to be able to borrow money or get other assistance at class reunions.
Such students may be experiencing financial, work, or emotional challenges due to work stress or other personal difficulties. Therefore, when they learn about the reunion, they will want to get some substantial help or advice by communicating and sharing with their old classmates. They believe that the experience and resources of their old classmates may solve their current dilemma, so they firmly decide to attend the reunion even if they are not invited.
2. Students who are experiencing financial difficulties
The stresses of life can make some students financially constrained, and they attend class reunions in order to solve financial problems. Some people may want to borrow money from their classmates, while others just want to eat and drink.
Such students may be in a relatively poor financial situation due to the pressure of work or life. They may be faced with the dilemma of paying rent, paying off loans, or other living expenses. To solve these financial problems, they hope to seek financial support from their old classmates by attending class reunions. Some students may seek out a loan outright, while others may simply want to enjoy a free meal to relieve financial stress.
3. Students who like to show off
Such students usually have better living conditions, and they like to show off their achievements and superiority. Class reunions are an opportunity for them to show themselves and show their success and happiness.
Such students may have achieved some success in the workplace or in life, and they are financially strong and have more time and resources at their disposal. As a result, they often attend class reunions with confidence and pride, hoping to gain the envy and admiration of others by showcasing their successes, showing off their lifestyle and financial might.
4. Students who have relatively free time
Such students may not have a job or career at the moment, and they have relatively ample time, and they choose to attend class reunions to pass the time and enjoy the camaraderie and interaction among classmates.
Such students may not have found their dream job or career at the moment, or they are not interested in work, so they spend a relatively lot of time idle at home. When they hear the news of a class reunion, they will participate with the mentality of "I'd rather go for a meal than waste their time", not only to get together with their old classmates to reminisce about the past, but also to enjoy a meal with limited economic resources.
1. Rich and busy students
Such students already have financial advantages, good living conditions, and are not interested in class reunions. With a full and busy life, they rarely have the time and energy to attend class reunions, perhaps feeling like a time-wasting activity.
Such students may have gained financial independence and stability through hard work and other means. Their living conditions are relatively good, and their busy work leaves them with little time and energy to attend class reunions. They may be more inclined to focus their time and energy on career development and personal growth, and may not have much interest in reminiscing about activities from their school days.
2. Students with high self-esteem
Such students may have been very good and high-profile during their student years, but have not maintained a good development after graduation. Faced with the eyes of their seniors, they are afraid that their current situation will be exposed, so they are reluctant to appear at class reunions.
These students may be very active and high-profile during their school days, but they do not continue to be as successful as they expect after graduation. In contrast, they may feel hurt in their self-esteem and worry about being questioned or teased by others at class reunions. It is very important for them to maintain a positive and successful image, so they would rather choose not to attend class reunions.
3. Students with a low sense of presence
This type of student is more low-key during their school years and has a low presence in the group. Invite them to class reunions seldom, and even if they do, they will not take the initiative to participate.
Such students may not have much publicity and performance during their school years, and they may be more inclined to think independently and develop personally. They have a lower presence in their peer group and may not be valued and followed by others. They are often not invited to class reunions, and even when they are invited, they rarely take the initiative to attend.
The changes in class reunions are not only because of the reunion itself, but also because of the changes in the classmates. Some students' personal goals and motivations make class reunions lose their original purpose, turning them into a place to compare themselves and exchange interests. However, we must not allow these phenomena to overshadow the beauty and purity of the student days. Importantly, students should write about the phenomenon of student gatherings, mentioning four categories of uninvited students and three categories of unsolicited students. The article calls on students not to forget their original intentions and do their best. When you are a student, you should cherish the opportunity to learn and improve your academic qualifications and abilities in order to have a better development in the workplace. It is mentioned that students may attend class reunions to borrow money, ask for help, show off their lives, or simply pass the time. At the same time, there are some students who are reluctant to attend class reunions, perhaps because they have money and busyness, high self-esteem, or a low sense of presence. The author concludes by emphasizing that class reunions are not a place to compare with each other, and that it is more important for students to be themselves than anything else. The content of the article is more objective and helps readers to have a more comprehensive understanding of the phenomenon of student gatherings.