In the neighborhood where I live, there is a very impressive family of boys. He is sunny and handsome, and every time he passes by me, he will nod politely and say hello, giving people the feeling that Sven has a tutor. Like all children, he successfully got into a regular university, but after graduating from college, he began to face the dilemma of not being able to find a suitable job. He had tried to be with his classmatesStart a business, opened a company. I have praised his parents and encouraged their children to be capable and energetic, and perhaps to be able toStart a businesson the road to great success. In fact, the boy was very successful during that time, and every day was busy and fulfilling, full of confidence and energy. His parents were also happy for him, because the child had a successful career and a girlfriend, and generously bought shoes for his father and clothes for his mother. I said to them, "How blessed you are to have a child who is capable and sensible, and enjoy it." However, what happened next was surprising – the boy may have been too naïve and cheated out of a large amount of business, causing the company to collapse and his girlfriend to leave. When I saw the boy again, I couldn't help but feel sorry for him. He must have been disheartened, but he still didn't change his polite demeanor of smiling and nodding at me. I asked him about his situation and tried to comfort him, but he told me that maybe he was not suitable for business and that he wanted to study hard and get the examCivil servantsIf he can succeed, he will have a stable job and no longer let his parents worry about him. I'm happy for him because the boy is really very likable, he always keeps his goals and never gives up trying. Fail, he'll do it all over again. However, for several years in a row, the boy not only took the exam in the city, but also traveled to several nearby cities, and heard that although he passed the written test, he was eliminated in the interview session. When I saw him again, I really didn't dare to recognize him. He looked exhausted, his face was full of sadness, and his hair had become less and even a little gray. He told me: "Auntie, I am really a failure, no matter what I do, it doesn't go well, my parents scold me every day, saying that I don't go to look for a job, I am so ambitious, I will only."Gnaw the old。However, I was not reconciled in my heart, I was only a little bit away from success, really just a little bit away. Maybe next time, next time I'll be able to make it. "I feel a sour feeling in my heart, son, it's not all because you're not good enough, you're not working hard enough. Sometimes, it may just be because your connections can't reach that the average kid wants to beCivil servantsIt's not that easy. Eventually, amid the scolding voices of his parents, the boy does something that should no longer be done - he leaves a letter proving that he tried hard but was doomed, saying goodbye to his parents and saying that he is not good enough to be their child. The boy who was once excellent, handsome, and sunny passed away like this. Who's to blame for all this?
Not everyone can be as brilliant as the sun at the beginning of life, and fate cannot treat everyone equally. Some people are destined for superiority and success from the moment they are born. They have a good oneEducationResources, family background, and a wide social circle allow for almost everything to be done smoothly. However, there are others who are different, and the ups and downs and injustices of life hang over their heads like a haze, making them repeatedly hit a wall on the road to pursue their dreams.
Boys are a prime example of this. He used to be a high-profile kid in that neighborhood and made a good impression. He is diligent and hardworking, and he hasStart a business's courage and wisdom to create a seemingly successful life. However, in himStart a businessAfter the failure, the cruelty of fate knocked on his door again, and there was only a little distance between him and success, and this point was so insurmountable. Even if he put in all his efforts, no matter how he went to the ** exam, the results were always disappointed. He was once considered the embodiment of failure, scolded and ridiculed, but he never gave up on his quest for success.
Perhaps, we had hoped for his chase and hard work, ready to cheer him on at the finish line. However, life is as unpredictable as the sea, and sometimes even if you try, you can't achieve what you want. Burdened with ridicule and failure, he finally chose to say goodbye forever and left this cruel world. Sadly, he is not an isolated case, such stories happen from time to time, countless tragedies are unfolding, and few of us will really think deeply about the reasons behind it. What is it that makes these gifted and promising children in the present generation?SocialLost in the middle frequency?
In contemporary timesSocialIn the rapid development of the world, we often see enviable success stories, and those young heroes have successfully stood at the pinnacle of life through their own efforts and talents. However, we often ignore the bitterness and dedication behind this, ignore those whose potential has nowhere to be released, and ignore the scarcity of opportunitiesSocialThe injustice of the environment.
For many children from ordinary families, it is not easy to achieve a good life. They face a huge lifeStressand competition for survival. ExamCivil servantsIt has almost become a common ideal for children in many families, and this is a stable career path with a certain welfare guarantee. However, in reality,Civil servantsThe exam is not so easy to pass, and there are all kinds of unknown insiders behind it. In addition to learningStressand the reserve of knowledge, many seemingly mundane things often become the determining factor, such as good luck andRelationships。Some people are born with a rich family background and do more with less because of family relationships;Some people are facing all kinds of uncertain difficulties because of the bitterness of life and the injustice they have experienced.
The boy's experience is like a reflectionSocialIn the mirror of the phenomenon, we have to admit that his failure was not entirely due to his personal reasons. ContemporarySocialIt is not a purely level playing field, and opportunities and resources are not equally available to everyone. Although we often say that hard work will lead to success, this principle does not apply to everyone. Sometimes, perseverance may not change a fateful outcome.
The boy's death weighed heavily on my heartStressand thinking. He was so young, handsome, full of vitality, full of beautiful visions and expectations for the future, but he fell into trouble in the whirlpool of life and finally chose to end his life. His passing not only brought great pain to his family, but also made me and those around me feel endless sorrow and helplessness.
This story made me understand that life is not all smooth sailing, and sometimes the hard work and pursuit are not rewarded as they should be. There is so much injustice and cruelty in life, and ordinary people like boys often become the most vulnerable link. Behind their hard work lies countless struggles and tears, and they try to prove their worth, often denied opportunities for various reasons.
This story also made me think deeply about where we areSocialWhether the environment is fair and equitable. Is it that we pursue utilitarianism too much and ignore the growth and development of the individual?Shouldn't we pay more attention to those innate gaps and give them more opportunities and support?We should think and reflect on thisSocialWhy do so many people with potential lose at the starting line, and why do so many people lack hope and opportunities?
Finally, I want to say to that sunny and handsome boy: you are not alone, this world still has warmth and hope. Your passing has brought us pain and reflection, but it is also because of you that we have more motivation to reflect and change. May you find a home in heaven, and may we cherish life and cherish everyone who struggles in difficult situations.