Love is single-minded, and when a man has "other women" living in his heart, his behavior often reveals flaws. Here are some common anomalies that women should keep an eye out for.
1. Frequently mention your ex-girlfriend.
If a man is genuinely in love with you, he won't often mention his ex-girlfriend in front of you. Instead, he will try to avoid talking about things from the past so as not to make you feel uncomfortable. However, if a guy often mentions his ex-girlfriend in front of you and even compares the strengths and weaknesses between you, then it is likely that he has not let go of the past or still has some kind of emotion for his ex-girlfriend.
2. Always pay attention to the dynamics of your ex-girlfriend.
If a man is genuinely in love with you, he won't always pay attention to the dynamics of his ex-girlfriend. However, if a man often likes, comments or privately messages his ex-girlfriend on social **, and can't help but check the current situation of his ex-girlfriend even when he is dating you, then he is likely to still care about his ex-girlfriend.
3. An indifferent or critical attitude towards you.
If a man truly loves you, he will try his best to be warm, caring, and considerate of you. However, if a man is cold or critical of you, or even often criticizes you or finds fault with you, then he is likely to express his dissatisfaction with you or try to hide his weakness in this way.
4. Frequently lying or concealing things.
If a man truly loves you, he will communicate with you openly and honestly and will not hide anything. However, if a man often lies or hides things, especially about his ex-girlfriend, then he is probably trying to hide his true thoughts or feelings.
5. Abnormal behavior.
If a man truly loves you, his behavior will be natural and will not be abnormal. However, if a man suddenly becomes behaving abnormally, such as often secretly texting, slapping or making excuses to leave the house, or even losing his temper or being frustrated for no reason, then he is likely to be in contact with his ex-girlfriend or trying to salvage the relationship.
In short, when a man has "other women" living in his heart, his behavior often reveals flaws. Female friends should pay attention to observation and not be deceived by superficial illusions. At the same time, it is important to be confident and independent, and not to be easily hurt.