A asked: Have you changed it?B said, "I haven't changed it." A said, "Ah, keep scolding." Half a day passed. A asked: Have you changed it?B said, "I haven't changed it." A said, "Ah, keep fighting." Another half day passed. A asked: Have you changed it?B said, "I haven't changed it." A said, "Ah, go on, keep reprimanding." Again, alas, another half day passed. A asked: Have you changed it?B said, "I am." A said, "Ah, that's all right."
Who has ever encountered this situation?Who hasn't been in this situation?In the journey of life, you will encounter either to change yourself or to change others. Some people say: It is better to change others than to change yourself. This view is only half right, changing others can make his future better, such as being a parent reprimanding his own children, being a teacher educating students, are all changing others, for others, but also for themselves, all hope for a better future. How can you contribute to society if you only change yourself and don't change others, especially if you are a teacher, how can you do your job well?The correct way is to change yourself to change the way of others, that is, this method does not work with others, and then change to another way.
The wise man said: The pain is changed, and the person concerned will change when the pain is reached, and the party will not change if the pain point is not reached. One is physical pain and the other is mental pain. One is to change the mouth, the other is to change the heart, and you should be careful to discern it.
Alas, changing anyone is a troublesome thing, not a matter of two times, one thing is easy to change, a bunch of things are not easy to change, changing oneself is a matter of a lifetime, changing others is a matter of a while. It's easy to change, it's not easy to change, it's time to change, it's good to change it, go around the mouth, and watch it a few more times. No way, that's the way it is.