1. I advise all timid young people to read this sentence repeatedly:
Everyone's opinions and evaluations are temporary, and only their own experiences and achievements are with them for a lifetime. Almost all worries and fears are based on your own imagination, and only when you really do it, will you find out how happy you are.
2. Shi Tiesheng once wrote such a paragraph:
When I was able-bodied, I often complained about the terrible surroundings. However, when I was paralyzed, I began to miss the days when I could walk and run. A few years later, I developed bedsores and began to miss the first two years of being in a wheelchairLater, I got uremia and I began to miss the fact that it was not so painful when I had bedsoresAfter a while, I needed to go on dialysis**, had very little time to be awake and I started to miss the time when I was uremia.
Alexandre Dumas said the same thing, saying that life is not about happiness or misfortune, but only about the comparison of two different circumstances. Therefore, we must always remember to live in the moment.
3. In a person's life, the two most important things are: one is to work hard to develop a career, and the other is to find a suitable partner. When the sun rises, devote yourself to the pursuit of your career;When the sun sets, hug your lover, this may be the meaning of our hard work!When kindness and kindness meet, it is the most beautiful encounter in the world;When kindness meets gentleness, it is a perfect match in the world.
4. Never care what others think of you.
Remember, no matter who you are, especially those who have nothing to do with you, there are many people who may suppress you, deliberately look down on you, make you unhappy, or spray you and envy you. These are just adding fuel to your mental exhaustion.
So, if you take this kind of person seriously and care too much about them, you lose to them. In this world, apart from life and death, everything else is inconsequential trivial, not even a scrape. You can never satisfy everyone, because the worst thing about the human heart is that you can't see that you are better off than others.
5. Life is just an experience, and you don't have to pursue perfection.
Slowly accept the dark parts of yourself, forgive yourself for being dull and mediocre, allow yourself to make mistakes, accept the fact that things backfire, and accept the impermanence of change. Desperately blooming with regrets, this is the only way to reconcile with yourself.
6. High-level interpersonal skills include: maintaining a warm and generous attitude, and trying to answer "I don't know" when others ask questions, which can show your humility and learning attitude. Try to restrain your desire to refute, learn to praise others and remain silent. As long as there is no conflict of interest, there is usually no need to refute someone else's speech. Also, dare to embrace success. The fear of showing up, making a fool of oneself, being an important person, and taking responsibility is actually a fear of success. Only by overcoming these fears can we truly achieve success.
8. Allocate time to sleep, reading, exercising, appreciating nature, and loving things in the world, rather than wasting it on boring people and things. When you begin to take control of your time, you will feel the calming power of your ordinary life, and the anxiety and anxiety will naturally dissipate.
9. Money is not earned for a lifetime, but to seize the opportunity to earn money in 2-3 years that many people cannot earn in a lifetime. So if you think now is the time for you to make the most money, tell yourself not to stop and rest, okay?Because the next time such an opportunity may not appear again, if it is missed, it may never be again.
10. The combination of blunt sensitivity and shielding force makes life invincible.
Don't peek into other people's lives, don't speculate on other people's thoughts, and don't get caught up in past worries or future worries. Anything that causes your internal friction, there is no need to think about it too much. Give your time and energy back to yourself, keep your heart in the midst of fame, fame, and fortune, and move forward confidently in the eyes of the world.
Translation: It's about my, it's about yours = the years are quiet.
11. Never complain.
The sign of a person's maturity is will"Why this happened to me"The resentment is transformed into"This thing is trying to teach me something"The awakening.
12. Since ancient times, the most taboo in life is to be too satisfied. Half poor, half rich, half self-sufficient;Half deaf, half dumb, half confused;Half wise, half foolish, half sage;Half human, half self, half comfortable;Half-awake, half-drunk, half-fairy;Half kiss, half love, half bittersweet;Half vulgar, half Zen, half casual. Half of life lies in oneself, and the other half goes with the flow.
13. No matter how big something happens, it will not affect our eating and sleeping. People with a strong heart have a calm mind and don't panic even when faced with the biggest challenges, because they believe in their ability to cope and solve problems. On the contrary, some people who are fragile in their hearts feel anxious when they encounter a little thing, as if the sky is about to fall, and their faces are full of sadness.
14. The ability to step out of your comfort zone is crucial. Compared with reading a few pages of a book before going to bed, attending training classes on weekends, going to the gym and other activities that are beneficial to personal growth, choosing to lie in bed at night and play with mobile phones, stay at home on weekends to sleep lazy, and have time to play a few games and other light, simple and comfortable things are more likely to make people get lost in their comfort zone, stagnate or even regress, and eventually be eliminated by the times. On the contrary, have a certain sense of crisis, spend most of the available time on self-improvement and personal growth, read a lot of books to fill in your cognitive blind spots, and increase more knowledge;Learn a variety of skills, and when you need to, you'll understand that more skills don't weigh you down, and it may even bring you a turnaround. Although it is difficult to persevere, it will not only improve your temperament, self-cultivation and knowledge, but also create more opportunities for you to grow your wealth.
15. No matter what happens, it will have a positive impact on me. This is the belief that Buffett and Charlie Munger hold onto, and they see themselves as not victims, but survivors.
16. Shielding power is a person's top ability, any person and thing that consumes your energy, it is your fault to take a second look. People who live transparently don't have any relationships they particularly want to maintain, and they don't particularly want anything. Don't resist those who approach, don't force those who leave, and don't bother to care about even the loss.
17. What is the truth of human nature?
Human nature is good when you are useful to others;Human nature is selfish when you are useless to others;Human nature is sinister when you hinder others from making money;When you can help others make money, human nature is loyal. All your troubles come from your incompetence, your deposit is too small.
18. It is more important to like yourself than to like the world.
Every day we play a role for society, for parents, for children, for friends. But don't forget, you're the main character in your life script.
19. Ability to read and think deeply.
The vast majority of people have lost the ability to read articles of more than 1,000 words carefully.
20. Review.
I do a review every night and a regular review every month. If you don't even do such a small thing, then basically you will say goodbye to improving a little bit every day. In fact, progress does not happen overnight, but through slow accumulation and eventually achieves a big breakthrough.
21. Poor people like to dream, always want to be small and big, and think they are smart.
If there are so many cheapenings in the world that even the poor can take advantage of them, then it cannot be truly "cheap". It is common sense that everything of value in the world follows the principle of value exchange. Everything that is free will eventually have to be repaid at a huge cost. Learning not to take advantage of and not to take free things is to respect and protect one's own personality.
22. The ability to give up.
Clothes that are no longer worn, perfumes that you don't like, items you don't need, just take up space and don't have any use. Don't hold on to the idea that you might use it later, because that "later" will never come. Only by decisively giving up what should be given up can life be efficient.
23. Choosing something that has a time compounding effect and sticking to it for a long time is the biggest shortcut to success. For example, delving into any of the skills of foreign languages, software, programming, law, etc., will see huge benefits as long as you stick to it for a long time.
24. Always think that turning the page is an important ability. Some people are always obsessed with the past, lingering on the grievances they have received, and consuming themselves on those people and things that cannot be changed. However, people cannot always be stuck in the past, and the days are always moving forward. We should learn to come out of the quagmire, learn from the disappointment, and be brave enough to turn the page and pursue something more worthwhile.
25. Without execution, good ideas are equal to zero.
One-sided input alone does not help us produce results, it is actions that do make the difference. It's like making more money today, and you can get one step closer to buying a car and a house.
There are two ways to make good input, one is to experience more, and the other is to accumulate poor information and then copy the successful experience of others.
26. Time is limited, don't be consumed by the things in front of you.
Take a long-term view and never let one thing affect you, which is called mental exhaustion. When people get old, they will only regret what they didn't do when they were young, and they won't regret what they did. Therefore, if you are happy in time and make yourself happy, your life will become more meaningful. What is optimism?Optimism means that after seeing through the essence of life, you hate him, but you still love life. It's tiring to be alive, it's a day to be happy, and it's a day to be unhappy.
27. I saw a sentence recently and I think it's very **. Question: "Is a short companionship a gift or a punishment?"I was impressed by the reply at the bottom: "If you are not greedy, you are a gift;."If you still expect, it is punishment. ”
28. The mentality of allowing everything to happen.
Masters always believe that human nature is evil, so they are not afraid of the sinister nature of human nature. Those in the upper echelons of this society always believe in human nature and laws. They believe that there is a good side to people, but there is also an evil side, it just depends on which side of a person you put in which environment to bring out the best in him.
29. Quit complaining and learn to be grateful.
What you pay attention to, you attract.
If you are always complaining and dissatisfied, you can only see the unhappiness and negative emotions in life;
If you learn to be grateful and be grateful for what you have, you will be able to win more luck and rewards.