Mr. Yang Jiang said: ".Don't bask in happiness, don't bask in development, bask in sweetness, bask in success. The human heart is complex, the plant will lose water when it is always sun, and hiding it is the safest way, fortunately you know it yourself, and you don't need to let others know.
When you are young, when you encounter happy and happy things, you always like to share them with others, and when you find that after sharing, most people congratulate them perfunctorily.
But when you share something sad, many people will show sympathy with the mentality of "listening to gossip".
After the age of 30, I really understood that in fact, there are few people in this world who really want you to be good, and you don't need to share your happiness with too many people, just close the door and enjoy your life.
1. Tibetan affairs
Have you noticed that often those who can't hide things and don't have a city government tell others everything, and others can see her through in minutes, and they can immediately grasp her.
On the contrary, it is those girls who look bottomless, who are calm and calm on the surface of everything and know how to hide their ambitions.
They all know how to hit at the right time, and they will not be able to stand out in everything, so they will focus on their own things to do the best, so that they will gain the affirmation and appreciation of a large number of people.
A person who knows how to hide everything, when they are happy, they are beautiful alone, and when they are difficult, they face difficulties head-on, they will always face anything with peace of mind, and they are the strong people of real life.
2. Tibetan dialect
When we were children, it took us two or three years to learn to speak, but now it takes our whole lives to learn to shut up.
My friend told me that she told another friend about a very important private matter, and then my friend turned around and told her junior high school classmate, who accidentally leaked it when she was chatting with her friend.
My friend was very angry, on the one hand, he blamed himself for not telling others about his private affairs, and on the other hand, he blamed his friend for not taking himself seriously and using his private affairs as an after-dinner conversation.
Sometimes we always want to find an outlet for ourselves, but we need to be clear about how important things are, because it is a kind of protection for ourselves.
As the saying goes", ".Woe comes from the mouth
Many times, we may accidentally offend others with an unintentional word. You have a problem in the hearts of others, and others may not want to be friends with you, and if you meet often, it will be very embarrassing.
We should listen more at any time, don't get to the bottom of what others don't want to say, don't turn around and tell others about what others tell you, don't show off too much in front of others, and don't be too sarcastic.
Learn to keep your words hidden, and your life will be less troublesome.
3. Storing gas
Don't be irritable when you encounter a little thing, and show your dissatisfaction by scolding. No one is obliged to bear your frustration, only by learning to endure is the greatest tolerance for others.
In life, we can often see some heart-wrenching news, such as the news that a 32-year-old delivery man was stabbed by a 52-year-old security guard to deliver food, and there are people who fight for small things.
In fact, these are all small things, but the anger at the moment is not controlled and it leads to tragedy.
Therefore, in anything, we don't need to be aggressive and have to fight for the moment, some things are fighting, and you may not win.
Learning to hide your emotions and find the best outlet for your emotions is a good strategy.
4. Hide your heart
Life is unsatisfactory, there are ten **.
We don't have to dwell on our sorrow all the time.
There is no need to expose your wounds in front of everyone from time to time, so that others can have mercy.
On the road of life, there are many things to experience, and we must learn to stare at the good things and forget the sad past.
Immersing ourselves in a difficult situation all the time will only make our path forward darker.
Instead of this, it is better to hide and then move towards the sunshine to harvest a better version of yourself.
5. Hide your desires
People are born to be dissatisfied, and what they can't get is always the best, and then let themselves be immersed in the river of desire and feel sorry for themselves.
Shi Tiesheng wrote in "Me and the Altar of Earth":
When I was just paralyzed in a wheelchair, I missed every day in a great sadness when I could stand and play basketball, a few years later I had bedsores, I began to miss a few years ago when I was in a wheelchair without any pain, and after a few years I had uremia, I began to miss the wheelchair life with only bedsores, people are always nostalgic for the past or anxious to move forward, but ignore the best of the moment. “
We are all habitually coerced by desires, and we forget the present moment, which is the most beautiful.
Cherish the beauty of the moment, learn to hide your desires, live the present while working hard, and don't always harm yourself for the sake of ethereal anxiety.
A woman who has a stable mood and can not panic is a woman who can raise herself well.
Life moves forward without hurry, and life lives without hurry.
May we always see the most beautiful scenery through the clouds no matter what we go through.
The above encouragement!