Why can't young people roll up?
Because the economic dividend period has passed, it is not the era of "standing on the tuyere and pigs can fly", and hard work is no longer an inevitable condition for success.
Because now that the "class" is basically solidified, there are very few opportunities for upward mobility, and the more dim the hope, the less motivated the struggle.
Because the effort is not proportional to the reward. When young people are in 996, but wages to support themselves are miserable;I spent my time and health, but the salary I received was not enough to pay for the medical bills. You still talk to me about "good fortune"?I'm going to go to the ICU again!Therefore, "fishing learning" will be popular at work;Doing private things during work hours, comforting yourself with the psychology of taking advantage of the boss, life is a little more fun.
I am most afraid of the education of the elders, "You young people just can't endure hardship, think about us back then." If I hadn't worked hard to get to work at that time, would you have a house to live in and a car to drive now?”
At this time, I just want to say, please, you graduated from college at that time, the work package was assigned, the house had a unit of welfare housing, and the medical treatment was reimbursed!
If you have to talk about commercial housing, I'll tell you, let's take Shenzhen as an example: your monthly salary was 5,000 yuan at that time, right?The house on Shennan Avenue in Futian is only 4,000 yuan, and the mansion is only more than 10,000 yuan.
What about me now?There is a 6,000 yuan top day after graduating from the bachelor's degree (excluding C10, 985 or 211), and now the average house price in Futian District is 100,000 yuan!
At that time, you could buy 1 square meter with 1 month's salary!I can't buy 1 square meter with my salary for 1 year now!And I have to find a job on my own!Overtime is commonplace!When you meet someone who has no conscience, there is no place to reason for deducting wages!It's like when you were unhappy, you could still scold the leader.
Since you don't want to roll up, why can't you lie flat again?
Because of the East Asian genes and the acquired educational environment endowed with the psychology of "rest is the original sin".
In the eyes of East Asians, any rest, recreation, and non-struggle are sinful, and resting at home for a few days is a heinous sin in the eyes of many parents. Once you really lie flat, you will be tortured by your own "guilt" psychology and can't feel at ease.
Because there is no "money power" yet. It's really flat, what's the rent?What's the deal with the mortgage?Who gives the car loan?
You say, if you really lie flat, what house are you going to buy?Go home and "gnaw the old"!That being said, it's impossible not to pay a pennyI have to get some living expenses from my parents every month, right?You always want to buy vegetables, buy meat, eat and drink, right?You have to pay the property fees, water and electricity bills, gas bills, and broadband bills at home, right?
Even if you're a "dead house" and don't socialize at all, you have to be a bit of a "big member" of each **, right?
And to put it mildly, who would buy a headache and brain fever or something, it's good to say that if your parents are really sick, don't go to the hospital and can't even pay the deposit!
Because it is a bit difficult for everyone to admit that they are ordinary people, everyone will be unwilling, and everyone will inadvertently compare with others.
While I want to live, I don't want to live a low-quality life.
On the one hand, you want to relax, and on the other hand, the social and family environment pushes you forward.
What to do?Cold salad!If you don't want to roll, and you don't want to lie flat, then we just sit.