Love is like a bird, it does not obey our commands, nor does it die in captivity.
Sometimes, although I know that I shouldn't be moved in front of a person, I still can't suppress the truest feelings in my heart and like someone I shouldn't like.
Falling in love with someone who shouldn't be together is a true voice from the heart, and you don't have to deliberately avoid it, but it also doesn't allow you to take the right way to deal with it.
1.Calm down.
Love should not only meet one's own needs, but also become a kind of wisdom, not to bring all kinds of troubles to the other party that cannot be shaken off;Love is beautiful and should not be selfish.
Falling in love with someone you shouldn't love, and confessing generously and being calm is the most important thing to do.
Just like Li Jing likes her boss, the two work together, and in the process of getting along, the boss hinted that Li Jing also responded, seeing that the relationship between the two would become unusual, at a critical moment, Li Jing chose to resign.
She was moved, but unfortunately the boss has a family, no matter how two people love each other, there is always an insurmountable woman in the middle.
Because of love, she couldn't bear to let the other party memorize her name, and she didn't want to let herself sink, so she chose to leave after calming down, maybe she lost her job, but the most precious reputation and future in her life are still there.
Falling in love with someone you shouldn't love, instead of waiting for confession or acceptance, it is better to calm down and think about whether the relationship should be opened and what kind of consequences will exist after opening, which is the most important thing to consider.
2.Self-love.
In the TV series "Wife's New World", when Yue went to live at her sister's house, she thought about her brother-in-law and took her brother-in-law for herself in various ways, thus becoming her husband's extramarital lover.
Originally, after such a thing happened, all parties would choose to conceal it, after all, once such a thing happened, it would already be very disgraceful, Shi Yue not only did not relent, but declared that he was ugly with his brother-in-law, and wanted to label his brother-in-law as "his own person" as much as possible.
was originally a pure and beautiful little girl, but once she became infamous, and everyone couldn't avoid it.
When a woman doesn't know how to love herself, doesn't know how to choose things, and blindly satisfies herself according to her heart, such bottomless love is actually not true love.
A smart woman, in love with a woman who should not be in love, will not deliver herself on the spot, is unwilling to put her life on the fire for a love that does not belong to her, and blindly pursues it regardless of reality, which is a low-level performance that does not meet her own needs and does not know how to love herself.
3.Let go.
The best way to truly love someone is to let go.
It's like a saying circulating on the Internet: To love someone is to choose to let go at the right time.
Just like the reader and I confide in their hearts, just like a married man, two people also develop a relationship that should not be, and then the man's wife inadvertently happens to the two of them, and the man deletes all the readers' marriage and family***
Readers ask me, how can I save love?I was worried that the other wife would make a big fuss.
I urge readers to cut their losses and let it go.
It's already wrong to fall in love with a married man;There is a close connection with the other party, mistakes plus mistakes;A man's withdrawal is the best opportunity to see the truth of the relationship, he doesn't love you, he is unwilling to give you promises, and he has been stubborn, giving the other party a chance to continue to hurt you later, let go as soon as possible.
People who should not be loved are destined to be unblessed and unhappy, so don't be lucky enough to be a special exception.
Falling in love with someone who shouldn't be loved, before confessing, choosing to let go and wishing each other a good life for the rest of their lives is the best choice.
Falling in love with someone who should not be destined to despair for confession and acceptance, because behind each other, there may be too many worries and troubles.
Love can be complicated, or it is destined to be an irresistible experience. But at the end of the day, love should also be pure and self-nourishing.