Vinny Sha Tu Nisha"Birth, old age, sickness and death, human nature. This is a life process that everyone goes through and cannot be avoided. However, when parents come to the end of their lives, we tend to find some unusual signs. These signs may be confusing, but more often than not, they leave us feeling heartbroken and helpless. Today, I will tell you about the five "strange things" of our parents before they died, and hope that we can draw strength from these stories and learn to accompany and care for them better. 
First, back to the light, refreshed"A man is dying, and his words are good;The bird is dying, and its song is mourning. "Sometimes, before our parents die, we find that they suddenly become refreshed, as if they are back to the state they were in when they were younger. This phenomenon is known as "flashback". A week before his death, one of my relatives, Uncle Wang, suddenly became radiant, not only did he eat more, but he was also able to get out of bed and walk around. His family thought he was getting better, but he died peacefully soon after. This kind of "strange thing" is actually a natural reaction of the body at the end of life, and we should cherish this short time and spend more time with our parents. Second, the appetite increases greatly and the taste changes"People eat a lot before they die, because that's the last meal. Although this statement is somewhat exaggerated, there are indeed many similar examples in real life. Some parents have an increased appetite before they die, and even ask for foods that they don't usually eat. The mother of a friend of mine, Xiao Li, suddenly wanted to eat the specialties of her hometown before she died, and Xiao Li specially sent it from thousands of miles away to fulfill her mother's wish. This change in appetite may be that the body is adjusting its state in preparation for the upcoming parting. We should try our best to meet the dietary needs of our parents so that they can feel warm and cared for in their last days. 
3. Frequently recall the past and tell about the past"When people get old, they like to reminisce about the past. When parents start to reminisce and recount the past frequently, it may be a psychological need for them. By reminiscing about the good old days, they may be able to forget about their physical pain and discomfort for a while. A neighbor of mine, Grandma Zhang, always dragged my child to tell stories about her young people a few months before she died. This kind of memories and sharing not only gives them comfort and satisfaction, but also allows us to better understand their inner world. We should listen patiently to their stories and give them enough love and support. 4. Hallucinations or delusions"People have hallucinations or delusions before they die. This phenomenon is medically known as the "terminal hallucination" or "death hallucination." A distant relative of mine, on her deathbed, always said that she saw her deceased relatives come to pick her up, and also described some wonderful scenes. Although this surprised and confused us, we understood that it was a kind of sustenance and comfort in her heart. In the face of this situation, we should remain calm and understanding, respecting their feelings and expressions. 
5. Mood swings, irritability or sadness"People tend to have mood swings before they die. Parents may experience mood swings, irritability, or sadness before dying due to physical discomfort, fear of death, etc. The father of a friend of mine, some time before his death, became very sensitive and irritable and often lost his temper over small things. Friends and family understood his pain and helplessness and gave him more patience and love to help him through this difficult time. We should try our best to understand their emotional changes, give them enough tolerance and support, and accompany them through the final journey with love and care.