Feelings are an inexplicable thing, which cannot be described and cannot be **. It can come suddenly, or it can dissipate inadvertently. Although some fates exist, they cannot last long, and they can only part ways regrettably. Affection is a wonderful thing, sweet as honey or bitter as arsenic.
The two people obviously love each other deeply, but they can't go to the end, so they can only break up with regret. This makes people sigh that feelings are really a wonderful existence. If two people can stay in love with each other, then they will have a happy ending. However, if two people have been together for a long time but have not taken a step forward, it means that there is a lack of fate between them. Especially between husband and wife, if two people gradually lose their fate after being together, then the following signals will gradually appear, and we must be vigilant.
1.I don't want to share my own things with each other.
If your husband always has a crush on you, he will be willing to share his life with you, and will talk to you about his work, his hobbies, and his future plans. But if your husband doesn't have a crush on you, he won't want to share his affairs with you.
In the life of a couple, once you are still willing to share your thoughts with each other, it proves that the fate between you is still there, but if you are not willing to share your life with each other, you must understand that the fate between you is about to end.
2.Always mention the other person to the other person.
In a person's life, each of us will experience fluctuations in seven emotions and six desires. Sometimes, we inevitably have a crush on someone and want to share that love with others. However, if we always involve other people in our lives between ourselves and the people we like, then this behavior is not very appropriate.
When one of the spouses begins to do this, it often means that there is already another object of love in their hearts, and at this time, it also implies that the fate between the two people is about to come to an end. I once read a story online about a couple who first got married, but as time went on, their relationship got worse and worse, and the husband stopped caring about his wife's feelings and gradually lost his love for his wife.
At this time, the husband always mentions the merits of a colleague and compares his wife with the other. Faced with this situation, the wife gradually understands that her husband no longer loves her. So, she began to learn to let go. Marriage is like a container that can only accommodate two people, not a third person.
Therefore, once one of the parties in the marriage falls in love with someone else, it is also a sign that the marriage is coming to an end. We have to learn to let go and accept this fact.
3.The two are always arguing.
When two people are together, it is inevitable that there will be various contradictions, which is a normal thing. But if two people are always arguing, it may mean that the fate between them is gone. Husbands and wives are together to create a better future together, not to constantly quarrel.
When my friend Xiaoqin and her husband were in their sixth year together, there were frequent quarrels between the two, no matter how big or small. Every day is full of contradictions and conflicts, without a hint of warmth and happiness. Faced with such a life, both of them felt very tired. They can't understand why the marriage ended up like this.
Sometimes we quarrel because we don't want to compromise. In marriage, we must know how to give in, because only in this way can we maintain the relationship. But if the two of us keep arguing, it may mean that our fate has run out.
If there is no fate between two people, then they will definitely be separated. Because people who love each other should be happy together. If you are no longer happy, don't cling to the relationship, or you may regret it for the rest of your life. Therefore, it is actually obvious whether the husband and wife are about to separate. Once these signals appear, it means that fate has ended, stop having illusions and trust your instincts.