19th floor netizen @ Aoyama xx: Married at the age of 29, and now it is the 6th year, it seems that since the beginning of these two years, I feel more and more that marriage is not worth it.
In the first few years of marriage and childlessness, the relationship was still very good, and since the birth of the child, various contradictions have emerged. The other party began to care about how much they paid, and they could quarrel over a little thing. As a husband and father, I think I have done a good job, but in the eyes of my other half, I will never do enough.
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In this regard, netizens have expressed their opinions.
Netizen A: The husband and wife have a combined annual salary of 360,000, and they have lived a lot after marriage and feel that marriage is not worth it, thank you for sharing, but it is useless to regret it, you need to be responsible for your life choices.
Netizen B: I don't understand, anyway, I just graduated and was admitted to the civil service in my county, although I haven't been in love, but I live a good life every day, after work and dinner, while listening to songs, while walking, playing e-sports on weekends or something.
Netizen C: My ex-husband and I also divorced like this, and I didn't come back until nearly 9 o'clock every day, I said that he didn't take care of the family, as a husband and father, he didn't take responsibility, he said that he just came back to live at night. The salary is not high, and I have never spent it on my daughter, just because I lost my temper with his mother a few times, I want to leave me, and I will leave, and whoever leaves can't live.
Netizen D: When two people start to care about who pays more, they are actually falling behind. Isn't loving someone forcing yourself to give for the whole family?Overcome your own inertia, when you are resting, you must have work in your eyes, two people rush to do it, and your lover also loves yourself.
Netizen E: Actually, I think that both sides should understand each other, and you will always have troubles when you see others doing well, right?Compare with this today, compare with that tomorrow, so many married, when will it be finished?It's better to communicate directly with the other person and solve your own problems.
Netizen F: I don't know if these two people, their first love is each other. If one or both of them were not, there were all kinds of requirements and comparisons for the predecessorOr leave all the negative ones for the current one, isn't that ironic?
Netizen G: In fact, appearance and wealth are not so important, the important thing is the responsibility and responsibility of character, as well as the three views and upbringing engraved in the bones of the original family.
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