In the glamorous entertainment industry, the story of You Xiaogang and Tian Ge is undoubtedly a popular gossip discussed by everyone. You Xiaogang, a well-known director, his reputation is not groundless.
Have you ever heard of TV series such as "The Secret History of Xiaozhuang", "The Secret History of Yang Guifei", and "Anti-Terrorist Special Combat Team"? These works not only hit the ratings, but also made many actresses famous overnight.
As for You Xiaogang's private life, especially the rumors and scandals between him and his ex-wife Tian Ge, they have become people's after-dinner conversations. To put it simply, You Xiaogang's life, like his works, is very attractive to the public. 
You may find it unbelievable, but the encounter between Tian Ge and You Xiaogang is like the plot of a fairy tale book. The two meet by chance under the guidance of fate, as if destined for a happy ending. However, as their respective careers flourished, the distance of time and space gradually became an invisible obstacle in their relationship. Eventually, with the intervention of another woman, their marriage came to an end.
For us, it seems that there are still many behind-the-scenes details of Tian Ge and You Xiaogang's story that have not yet been revealed, and there may be more secrets and tears hidden behind their lives that we don't know.
Let's retell the story of You Xiaogang. You Xiaogang is a popular director that everyone is familiar with, and his works are always talked about, such as the well-known "The Secret History of Xiaozhuang", "The Secret History of Yang Guifei" and "Anti-Terrorism Special Combat Team". These works not only made him famous, but also made the audience remember his name. 
With his talent, he has not only made many actresses famous, but also won widespread acclaim for himself. But behind this, his life is not lacking in ups and downs.
When everyone mentions his ex-wife Tian Ge, they may think that she is an unknown little character. But in fact, she is a media personality with a lot of background, and her story is also very exciting.
Their love story was originally full of sweetness and ups and downs, as if the plot in a movie made people look forward to a happy ending for them.
However, as time goes on, the two drift apart due to their respective busy schedules, and their marriage comes to an end due to the intervention of another woman. 
You may think, shouldn't Tian Ge be furious after experiencing such a betrayal? But she didn't. She remained calm and rational, not believing gossip, but going to find the truth herself.
When she heard You Xiaogang admit to cheating, she resolutely chose to divorce. Tian Ge's calmness and decisiveness make people have to admire.
After the divorce, You Xiaogang soon married the lady, and Tian Ge devoted himself to his profession with all his might. She is not only You Xiaogang's ex-wife, but her own achievements are not inferior to You Xiaogang.
To tell you, Tian Ge also has her own brilliance: she is the first TV host to be invited to the United States, she is the pioneer of TV talk shows, and the travel promotional film she directed has won high praise from the international film and television industry! 
Tian Ge is not only a top director, but also one of the top ten producers and hosts in the country. She has won the honor of "National Virtue and Art Shuangxin TV Artist" more than once. Her accomplishments and influence are definitely worth reacknowledging.
Tian Ge, an outstanding representative of independent women, was born in 1962 in Hefei, Anhui Province, where the family of art was born. Her father is the director of the Anhui Provincial Museum, and her mother is a talented singer and actress.
Among the four children in the family, Tian Ge is the eldecided, and she has witnessed the love of her parents. Her younger sister Tian Min is also an actor who is loved by everyone. Although it was common to have many children in that era, and some people might mistakenly think that her father favored boys, in reality, Tian Ge's family treated boys and girls equally.
Even though Tian Ge's father once hoped to have a son, this did not diminish his love for his daughters, especially Tian Ge. Since childhood, Tian Ge has deeply felt his father's special love and support.
This father's love is like a street lamp, growing up with Tian Ge step by step, providing light for her life journey.
Tian Ge's growth is like a wonderful drama. She inherited not only her mother's artistic talent, but also her father's intelligence and perseverance.
Over the course of her career, Tian Ge has shown a multifaceted talent: she is a talented actress, a captivating TV host, and an insightful producer. Every step she takes is so steady and graceful.
Tian Ge's success is by no means achieved overnight, it is the result of her continuous efforts and continuous self-challenges over the years. 
That warm childhood time by his father's side, even today, more than 50 years later, Tian Ge still remembers it very clearly, as if it happened yesterday. Imagine a little girl sitting in front of the Anhui Museum, expectantly waiting for her dad to return.
Every time my father returned, he would bring her a little surprise – maybe a fresh orange, a banana or bayberry...In that time of material scarcity, these small joys were enough to make a child laugh with joy.
The love given by his father made Tian Ge full of confidence since he was a child. Can you imagine? In a family that is not very rich, the little girl Tian Ge can find happiness in the sound of the violin and the calligraphy with the fragrance of ink, and indulge in the wonderful world of ** and painting.
The starting point of all this is due to the fact that she loved her father who taught her. 
Tian Ge's father is not only her strong backing, but also her spiritual mentor in life. Dad's special love and support shaped Tian Ge's tenacious character and extraordinary talent. Even Tian Ge's keen and bold use of color was inspired by his father.
She remembers that her father had promised her a new bicycle for her 10th birthday, but that wish did not come true because of her father's early death. However, this regret did not stop Tian Ge from moving forward, but allowed her to learn to be self-reliant and strong earlier.
As the eldest sister in the family, Tian Ge took on the responsibility of taking care of his younger siblings and helping his mother. Her self-confidence and strength make her believe that she is capable of supporting the whole family.
Another thing, when Tian Ge was nine years old, he was found by a staff member of the art troupe in the market. Although that opportunity did not make her a soldier, it planted the seeds of self-confidence in her heart. Since then, she has become braver and more determined. 
When she was 15 years old, Tian Ge stepped into the threshold of the art troupe and appeared in the movie "Milk Feiyan" for the first time, showing her unique style.
At that time, being the main character of a movie was almost like a dream come true for a young girl. Most young actors will obediently listen to the director's words, but Tian Ge dares to insist on his own views and put forward his own requirements.
I still remember one time, the director asked everyone to practice Xi handstand, and everyone else did it without saying a word, but she stood there and said firmly: "Without chocolate, I won't practice!" This is Tian Ge, her independence and rebellious spirit have been evident since then.
At the age of 17, Tian Ge joined the Engineer Repertory Troupe and made his dream come true and put on a military uniform. Imagine that during a recruit's performance, she boldly said to the leader: "Please step back, or I won't be able to jump." "That's her courage and straightforwardness. 
Tian Ge's dare to think and do personality and full of self-confidence made her famous in the army. But her life in the military was different from others, and she was not as busy fighting for promotions as everyone else. Even, she did not wash her own clothes and did not participate in the cleaning of the barracks.
You may wonder, is Tian Ge not paying enough attention to military life? In fact, on the contrary, she just focused more on business training and put more time and energy on improving her professional skills.
Interestingly, the reason why Tian Ge fought for promotion was not for power or honor, but because cadres could wear the kind of light military uniforms that were easier to wash and less painful to wash. Does that reason sound like her? And her outstanding performance in the work did help her to be promoted to a cadre smoothly. 
In military life, Tian Ge's personality and independence have been further grown and strengthened. She had to learn how to find a balance between being self-asserted and adapting to the team.
Like a flower blooming in the face of adversity, Tian Ge reveals her independent beauty at a turning point in her life.
In 1982, Tian Ge and her husband You Xiaogang, two former literary soldiers, stood at the crossroads of their lives after retiring. At that time, Tian Ge and You Xiaogang were already married, and their love story was like the plot in a movie, which was both romantic and challenging.
Imagine that Tian Ge is a woman who has the courage to ask questions and pursue freedom, and she knows that she doesn't want to be just a puppet actor in the hands of others. In the context of that era, how unusual and bold is the decision of a woman to choose to become a director.
Tian Ge and You Xiaogang found a job advertisement in a publication called Popular Magazine. Without much thought, the two of them decided to try their luck in Beijing together and find new opportunities in life.
It seems that luck is always on Tian Ge's side. Without any background or acquaintances at all, she and You Xiaogang both succeeded in becoming directors. There was a joke back then:"Do you know how to take pictures? Do you know how to play lights? Don't understand it? Then you go and become a director. "It was in this environment that they started their own film career.
Tian Ge's first TV series "The Origin of the Academy Awards" also won an award, which is not only a recognition of her work, but also a praise for her talent.
Later, she also collaborated with a well-known composer, Hu Weili, to delve into the wonderful connection between ** and video. It didn't take long for Tian Ge to become an expert in this area.
In 1990, Tian Ge did a very powerful thing, she launched the first TV talk show "The Screen Connects Me and You", which made talk shows popular.
At work, Tian Ge shines like the sun, but her married life is in trouble. She and her husband You Xiaogang were too busy, and their relationship began to fade, coupled with some scandals about You Xiaogang, their marriage seemed to be the last stop.
In the face of the failure of his marriage, Tian Ge showed admirable strength and poise. She believes that marriage should be a haven of sincerity, not a place where people learn to be stronger and calmer.
Tian Ge finally decided to divorce, ended his marriage with You Xiaogang for more than ten years, and bravely pursued his happiness.
In this way, Tian Ge continued to dance her dance on the stage of life alone. After leaving You Xiaogang, she did not stop, but focused more on her work and became an international dazzling star.
Tian Ge has traveled all over the world, including countries such as Japan, Norway, Italy and South Africa. She has shown her talent and love for her work in all of these places.
She often said, "There are many kinds of happiness. For Tian Ge, her happiness does not depend on others, especially not on men, but on her personal achievements and self-confidence.
In Tian Ge's heart, what he can really rely on is not others, but his own inner strength. The success and achievements she pursues in her work have become her real joy and pride.
Tian Ge's sister Tian Min also walked a similar path. The life the two sisters have lived together has allowed them to build a very strong sisterhood. Their mother had worried about what their lives would hold in the future, but when she saw how independent and strong her two daughters had become, she let go of her worries.
For Tian Ge, happiness is a simple thing - that is the days when he can be with his mother. Now 61 years old, she is still an active member of the television industry. Outside of work, what she enjoys most is going out with her mother, such as going on a trip, going hiking...This kind of life makes her feel happy and comfortable.
The story of Tian Ge is like a song that celebrates bravery and independence. Every decision she makes, she stays true to her heart. Her life experience shows us a truth: no matter what kind of difficulties we face, confidence and courage are always our strongest backing.
So, friends, no matter what problems you are facing right now, don't forget to face them with confidence and courage. Just like Tian Ge, bravely dance his own dance on the big stage of life, not afraid of failure, not afraid of difficulties, and let himself shine.