When someone you like proposes to break up, first of all, you must calmly analyze the situation and consider the problems and reasons between you. Here are some suggestions for retention:1.Listen to each other's thoughts and feelings:Respect the other person's decision and don't try to convince the other person to change their mind. Instead, listen to the other person's thoughts and feelings and understand why the other person is proposing to break up, so that you can better understand what the problem is.
2.Reflect on your actions and performance:Reflect on whether there were any behaviors or attitudes in your relationship that made the other person feel uncomfortable or disappointed. If so, you need to seriously reflect and try to change your behavior.
3.Express your feelings and thoughts:Be honest with the other person about your feelings and thoughts, and tell them how much you feel and value her. At the same time, you should also respect the other person's decision and do not force the other person to stay.
4.Give time and space:Don't try to pester the other person all the time or make the other person feel pressured. Give each other time and space to think calmly and organize their feelings.
5.Try to communicate and solve problems:If there are some problems or conflicts between you, try to have in-depth communication and consultation with the other person to find a solution to the problem. But be careful not to try to force the other person to accept your views or demands.
6.Change your attitude and lifestyle:In addition to reflecting on your own behavior and performance, you also need to change your attitude and lifestyle. Work on improving your shortcomings and make yourself more mature and confident. This allows the other party to see your growth and progress, and increases the chances of retention.
Finally, be careful not to act aggressively or verbally, which may make the other person more off-putting and disappointed. Respect the other person's decision, face the breakup with a peaceful mind, and maybe there is a chance to start over in the future.