A sudden heavy snowfall has dressed the land in silver, as if to herald the arrival of the new year. However, on this festive occasion, I was troubled by a disturbing matter. In the face of this incident, I chose to turn my face, and therefore learned the importance of turning the page and turning my face.
That was my old friend Xiao Li's past. Xiao Li was my roommate in college, and we spent those green years together. After graduating, he chose to stay in his hometown, while I chose to work hard in other places. In the beginning, we kept in touch and shared our joys and sorrows. However, as time went on, our contact gradually diminished, until we almost broke off contact at the end.
A few years ago, Xiao Li suddenly contacted me and said that he wanted to get together. Although I had some regrets about this friendship, I decided to go to the appointment when I thought of the friendship I had in the past. At the dinner table, Xiao Li talked and laughed, but I was a little restrained. He talked about the past, but I was a little speechless. Gradually, I felt that the party had taken a turn for the better.
After the meal, Xiao Li proposed to sing. In the box, he began to confide in me about the trivial things of his life, complaining about the unhappiness of work and family conflicts. At first, I listened patiently and tried to give some advice. However, as time went on, I noticed that he was complaining more and more, and I started to get a little impatient.
Finally, at some point, my inner patience reached its limit. I stopped his words and told him bluntly, "Xiao Li, I think the party between us is a little unpleasant. I feel like we're getting farther and farther apart. ”
My words made Xiao Li stunned. He was silent for a moment, then said, "Yes, we've all changed. ”
At that moment, I realized that our friendship could not be reversed. Instead of forcing each other, it is better to turn the page here. So, I had a frank conversation with Li about our thoughts and feelings, and decided to give each other a chance to start over. Although we are no longer close friends, at least we have become much more natural and harmonious with each other.
This gathering with Xiao Li made me understand a truth: life needs to "turn the page" and "turn the face". Turning the page is to let go of the entanglements and contradictions of the past and let yourself start anew;Turning the other cheek is to bravely express one's attitude and bottom line in the face of hurt and injustice.
In life, we will always encounter all kinds of people and things. Some will bring us joy and growth, while others will bring us hurt and pain. We must learn to cherish and be grateful for the people and things that bring us happiness and growthAnd for those people and things that bring us hurt and pain, we must learn to let go and face them bravely.
On the road of life, "turning the page" and "turning the face" are the two abilities we must cultivate. Only by learning these two abilities can we move forward more calmly on the road of life. And a flip of face a few years ago made me realize this more deeply.
Life is like a book, "turning the page" is the end of each chapter, and "turning the face" is the turning point of the chapter in the face of injustice. Only when we bravely face the challenges and contradictions in life can we truly grow and progress.
Looking back now, I know that every experience in my life is a precious asset. Experiences, whether happy or painful, make us more mature and stronger. Learning to "turn the page" and "turn the face" is the key to us moving forward on the road of life.