Love Gamble: When a Happy Marriage Becomes a Big Gamble, Are You Ready?
Hey, did you hear that?There's been a hot topic lately – marrying far away is like a big gamble, and most of the time, you're prepared to lose the game. But wait, don't jump to conclusions, we'll have to break it down and take a look.
First of all, happiness really has nothing to do with you marrying far away. The most important thing is to see if you have "discerning eyes". In the ocean of love, many girls plunge headlong into it, and there is no room for sand in their eyes, and the result?When I came to my senses, I found that I had lost the bet, but I blamed everything on the distant marriage. It's a bit of a grievance.
A sober mind and correct judgment are the kings of marriage. If you get married at home, if you make a wrong decision in the heat of the brain, the result will not be much better.
There is such a true story of a woman who broke through all obstacles and married a foreign land for love. Her family's dissuasion was ineffective, but she was steadfast. It stands to reason that the man has to be grateful for this dedication, but what about the reality?After getting married, I realized that I just jumped into a deeper pit.
The mother-in-law is domineering, the husband is a "mom treasure man", and the life after marriage is a mess. I was pregnant, I had a big reaction, I couldn't work, and I could only rely on my husband's meager income. But my husband was very stingy and didn't even want to give basic living expenses. The woman can only eat instant noodles to survive, and her tears are saltier than instant noodle soup.
On the Internet, the woman's story has caused heated discussions. Some sympathize, others accuse her of hypocrisy. She explained that she didn't leave because she was reluctant to have children, but everyone knows that if it's so difficult now, how to go in the future
This kind of story tells us that in marriage, sometimes it is not reluctant to have children, but the attachment to that person makes women endure it again and again, hoping to exchange for a little warmth.
It has to be said that such a choice is difficult to sympathize. Knowing the other party's family situation, but still choosing to continue the relationship, isn't this asking for hardship?
However, some people are like this, they don't hit the south wall and don't look back, but how can there be regret medicine in the world. Those women who marry far away regardless of everything have a low chance of happiness. Once there is a conflict in the in-laws' family, it is difficult to find a place to complain about their grievances.
The biggest problem with long-distance marriage may be distance. Even if the marriage is as happy as ever, it is inevitable that you will feel sorry for your parents. When you reach middle age and want to go back to your parents' home, it is really not an easy task.
So, dear friends, are you ready to face this big love gamble?Don't forget, keep your eyes open, choose calmly, and have a happy marriage, but you don't rely on gambling.