I was very touched to see a lot of ** and self** talking about this topic on the Internet. Our left hand is a child, our right hand is a career, and middle-aged people are like a candle that burns at both ends.
We are like a wound clockwork, always working, always running around trying to make money.
In this harsh winter, a variety of viruses are raging, making adults and children feel as if they are in a crucible of suffering. Wave after wave of illness hit me, and I felt helpless. My child has just been ** for three weeks, but unfortunately he is infected with mycoplasma and influenza A, and the positive result is very worrying. Living in this situation, we have to devote ourselves to the cycle of **, check-ups, prescriptions, and follow-up visits again and again.
Even though my family is doing well, my husband and I are still feeling exhausted. During the day, we struggled with the long lines in the hospital;At night, when the child has a fever, we take turns to guard and take the temperature regularly. The child burned in a daze, could not sleep steadily, and could not sleep peacefully with words in his dreams and calls one after another.
I saw a passage somewhere and was so touched by it that I saved it in a memo. This text says: "Middle-aged people with children look brave and fearless, not afraid of hardship or tiredness, accompany them to study and sleep, the children's expenses are never too expensive, the energy they pay is not wasted, and they do not flinch when they encounter difficulties." ”
But in fact, we are timid and boring: we must work hard, dare not make mistakes, begin to pay attention to health, cherish life, and the most afraid is to suddenly get sick. ”
In fact, I know that my own situation is not bad, my husband's work unit is not very rolly, he has also worked there for ** years, and it is good to ask for leave and the like, I am now starting a business, and there is enough time and manpower, but it is difficult for many parents to ask for leave, so I can only ask for half a day, and my father will go in the morning, and my mother will go in the afternoon. Some parents are infected by their children, and they still dare not ask for leave. Parents everywhere couldn't wait, so they went directly to the private store, and the cost of **10,000 yuan was spent. This cost is a relatively large expenditure for many families.
Come on, every hard-fighting middle-aged person!Come on, Mom and Dad.