— Preface —
In the same family, different children have different fates, some people are going well, they are rising step by step, and their lives are getting better and better, while others are not at peace.
Among the brothers and sisters, the people who have the best life are often these 4 types of people.
— The more optimistic, the luckier —
Optimism is a positive mindset that gives us a steady stream of motivation to face suffering.
You know, life is full of tribulations, it is the same for everyone, these tribulations will not disappear because you are pessimistic or optimistic, so, happy is a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy?
It is said that the philosopher Socrates was financially constrained when he was young, and had to live with a few friends in a small room.
But the optimistic Socrates did not have any dissatisfaction, and his friends asked him why he was always happySocrates said that it was a joy to be with friends, to communicate with each other, to talk about the world.
Later, Socrates' friends moved out one after another, and he was the only one left living here, and his friends were saddened by his loneliness.
But Socrates said that he had a room full of books to accompany him, and that his daily spiritual food was very sufficient, and that such a beautiful life was worth rejoicing.
Like Socrates, optimistic people have the ability to seek "possession" from some "loss", which is their perspective on the world, which is what we often call happiness in suffering.
In today's fast-paced society, some people lack the ability to resist pressure and frustration, so they will be defeated by life.
But optimistic and open-minded people can face the ups and downs of life, because this ability to find beauty makes them believe that no matter what difficulties, as long as they remain optimistic, there will always be rain and sunny days.
The popularity of this kind of people is relatively good, because they are emotionally stable, they can give people strength when they talk and do things, and people naturally like to associate with them.
There are such optimistic people in the family who can see everything, and their lives, even if they are not rich, are also harmonious and can run their families well.
— The more you can endure hardship, the more powerful —
The education we received since childhood is that we are proud of enduring hardships and standing hard work, and we are ashamed of being industrious and hardworking, and we can endure hardships through hard work, which is our traditional virtue.
When you are young, you don't have to eat the hardships of learning Xi, but when you are old, you have to suffer the hardships of life, as the old saying goes, "bitter first and then sweet" is this truth.
In ancient times, the cold window studied hard for 20 years, and once he was promoted in the middle of the dynasty, he became an official in the dynasty and changed the fate of the entire family.
There are also rural students and educated youths in the last century, who were in poverty, but after the resumption of the college entrance examination, they jumped from the countryside to the city and changed their fate.
Look at the people around me who are top-notch in learning Xi ability, they are all living a good life.
Like the writer Lu Xun, although he lived in the late Qing Dynasty, he learned German, English, Japanese, and Chinese Russian because of his thirst for knowledge.
It is his diligence and willingness to endure hardships that Lu Xun can learn astronomy and geography and become a generation of writers.
Many people think that only smart people will learn Xi well, in fact, acquired diligence and hard work is the real strength, most people have similar intelligence, but those who can endure hardships will make themselves better and better.
The truth that diligence can make up for clumsiness, for those who have a bad background, is one of the few magic weapons that can grasp the direction of their own destiny.
And those who were born in Rome, if they don't work hard to learn Xi and how to manage and maintain the assets of their ancestors, then sooner or later their wealth will be lost, and they will not be rich for more than three generations, most of them are like this.
If there are such people in the family, who are good at learning Xi and love to learn Xi, they will be more likely to make achievements and live an enviable life.
— The more magnanimous, the richer —
People get along with each other, those who are calculating are the most annoying, they have to fight for everything, they have to grab everything, they have to argue about everything, and they will be very tired when dealing with them without being pitted.
On the contrary, those who are magnanimous and generous will not do something that cannot be put on the table for some petty profits and trivial things.
They value righteousness over profit, do not value their own gains and losses, put collective interests first, and are more likely to gain the respect of others.
In ancient times, Lian Po thought that he had great achievements in war and should not be subordinated to Lin Xiangru, because he was angry in his heart, so Lian Po threatened to see Lin Xiangru, and he must give him some color to see.
After Lin Xiangru learned about it, he deliberately did not see him, avoiding him everywhere, and even the last dynasty was on sick leave, everyone was puzzled, Lin Xiangru was the prime minister of the dynasty, and his position was above Lian Po, what was so terrible?
Lin Xiangru said that even if the king was at fault, he dared to reprimand him in public, not to mention that General Lian avoided him, not because he was afraid of him, but for the sake of the country.
Because at that time, the Qin State was eyeing the Zhao State, and the external worries were not eliminated, and the internal strife was added, which was harmful to the country and had no benefit, as the prime minister, he could not put the Zhao State in a dangerous situation in order to take advantage of the prestige for a while.
Hearing this, Lian Po also felt that his heart was too small, and he had respect for this Xiangguo who was born at the bottom, so he carried thorns and admitted his mistake to Lin Xiangru.
The same is true in the family, some children are afraid that they will get too little, while some children are willing to divide themselves, this kind of person can do great things, convince others with virtue, and the people around him will naturally admire him and support him.
— The more filial piety, the more blessed —
Filial people usually have a grateful heart, if they are particularly filial at home and are very good to their parents, then when they go out, they are usually able to remember the good of others to themselves, and they will do their best to give back and help.
The grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated with a spring, and those who are grateful will also remember the help and kindness of others in their interactions with others, and give back to them as much as they can.
This kind of person's popularity will not be too bad, when we help others, we may not expect others to return this love, but when the other party returns, we will also remember it, and everyone is willing to associate with this kind of person.
If there are two children in the family, one is filial and the other is not filial, often the filial one is more blessed.
People are doing it, the sky is watching, if the people who gave birth to us and raised us, you don't know how to reciprocate and support, then God gives you more things, how can you be grateful?
No matter how shrewd a person is, he can't use it on his parents, and such a person will lose his good fortune and good fortune unconsciously.
Being a man and doing things, worthy of your heart, worthy of heaven and earth, and worthy of your parents, is the right way, and the days will naturally become more and more prosperous.
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